SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Shelley
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
That's right, it's a long profile.. Don't be lazy, fellas.Myself: Greek American, easygoing, family oriented, warm, generous, affectionate, smart, witty, serious but playful at times, analytical,stable, responsible and opinionated. I don't play games and don't have energy to be mysterious with you. Yes, I just turned 41 but most people can't believe it. I'm not judgemental of people, nor am I offended by a dirty joke. I'm really easy to talk to and people are very comfortable opening up to me. At first, I may be hard to read, or seemingly uninterested. I take in a lot of information and connect the dots later. I'm very intuitive and able to think logically and objectively on many things. I always seem to bounce back from disappointments. Nothing keeps me down. I'm extremely comfortable in my own skin and expect you to be in yours. I carry some hard-won lessons from life and have learned a great deal from them. While at times I may be very busy, I will make space in my life for a man who provides the right connection and shows a mutual interest. Let's just have fun and not complicate one another, shall we. Ha!Just looking for someone to spend some time with, start a friendship and hopefully it will lead into something more significant and exclusive. I hope to find someone for the long term through the process of dating but I'm not in a rush. We know these things are a bit more complicated when the chemistry, connection or timing is off. It doesn't happen overnight and I never force anything but the romantic in me keeps me going. Even though, I'm quite comfortable with my life the way it is, I still lack that special someone to share it all with and I would welcome the right person. There's so much in this world I'd like to explore with him. I'm very secure with myself and when I'm in the right relationship. I can be very supportive and encouraging while giving you space, without smothering you, allowing you to be independent. Ideally, I'm looking for someone that can provide the same in return. I don't believe in wasting months dating if there is no "true" connection on BOTH sides. I'm also a mother to a young boy from a previous marriage but I carry no luggage and I always make personal time for myself. He's a joy beyond words. No married men, tourists, workaholics, party animals, quick tempers or men with ADDD (Attention Deficit Dating Disorder). Please be within ***No quick sex fix. You can find your fix on Craigs List, not here. Stimulate my mind and heart first.***preferably.I reply selectively. Just very cautious and skeptical. Please have a photo and send more than a "hello" so I can feel you. Your profile and words should shine more than your pictures. I think that sums it up..... Funny, sensitive yet confident, down to earth, creative types win points. I prefer someone like myself, a single parent.Thank you and good luck in your search.-G- Usually, I like to exchange a couple of messages and maybe a phone conversation to start. We can both decide on the first date but it's the company that really matters and not the meeting place. A drink, coffee, a walk in the park or Dave and Busters? Don't laugh! I play a mean air hockey game. Ha!
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Ethel
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Me (the good stuff): I'm sweet, attractive, fun loving and have a great sense of humor. I've definitely been told I have two sides that compliment each other and I like to keep a healthy balance between them. Sometimes conservative and reserved and other times, a bit more adventurous. I can be very driven and ambitious when it comes to certain passions I have but laid back and relaxed when I need to slow things down. I like to live a healthy lifestyle during the week so I can cheat a little on the weekends ;) I love any type of food and enjoy trying out different restaurants on the weekends. Yes, I can go out during the week too :) As far as activities are concerned, I'm really up for anything...weekend trips, shows in the city, meeting friends for dinner, watching a game, going to a concert, talking about current events and politics and so on and so on. Oh, they said we should list our taste in music.+-Z. It's all over the place. The bad stuff (because it's only fair): I can procrastinate. No, I mean really procrastinate but you'll only see glimpes of that here and there and c'mon , doesn't everybody? I have to push myself to go to the gym each week but I'm pretty happy with the results, I stay up way too late, way too often and sometimes I take a really long time to tell a story. Also, if you're looking for the tall, leggy blonde type, I'm not for you. The cute, petite brunette on the other hand, then I may be your girl :)I would love to meet a man that is as curious about the world as I am. He has his own opinions and viewpoints but can see things from another persective as well. He would be described as intelligent and driven but values his downtime too. He enjoys anything from travel and the theater to going to a sporting event and seeing a band in a dive bar. He communicates well and is a good listener too. Fitness and healthy living are important to him but so is good glass of wine. He knows when a little sarcasm can spice things up and he knows when a softer side is needed and dare I say in some way, shape or form, I find him irresistibly sexy on the first date and the twenty first date... In a long term relationship, the right physical, emotional and sexual connection/chemistry are all very important to me... A great first date would be one in which we learned enough about each other that we solidly want to meet again and possibly again and again! A simple evening with dinner or drinks at a quiet initimate cafe would be a great environment to get to know one another better. If that certain "click" is present then things seem to just fall into place easily and naturally.
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Lauren
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
First let me say that I am a bit old fashioned, If a man doesn't have the courage to write me a message to say hi when he is interested and see if there is any connection then I don't view him as a person I'd be interested in. I'm not into people that can't take the bull by the horns so to speak. :-) I am normally attracted to someone who is out going but not prideful and self involved. I also like the person I'm dating to be in somewhat good shape(not perfect) and not be too thin. I need someone to hold onto...lol. I'm a bit like a sweet quiet storm that is nice to enjoy and is soothing to the soul. The kind that makes you want to cuddle up and just listen as it rumbles in the distance, And sometimes I'm bright, sudden, exciting and fun. The kind that gets your heart beating fast! That makes you want to dance and feel the sweet rain on your skin. I am a mixture of both the quiet, peaceful, serene, laid back part of the world but I also get charged, eager, passionate and ready for the excitement that the world has to offer. Why pick just one way to live. I'm here to learn and enjoy life along with learning from my mistakes, and I have made many mistakes in life and am humbled. I'm hoping that I can find someone who understands the true meaning of being humbled and can be thankful for all the blessings that are given to us to try again and again. I am not one of those who believes that I am always right, actually everyone has a rightness in their own logic but it comes down to finding the best way to accomplish things together with compromise on both sides. My relationship with God is also very important to me and I hope to find someone that may not be perfect but loves God and strives to be a better person everyday. I'm extremely honest and loyal and never falter in my promises to be true to the person I love. I was married for 17yrs and there is no drama or craziness between my ex and I. We are still friends and on good terms with each other. I am a very cuddly type of person and I love to give hugs and touches through out the day to the person I love. I am not object-oriented, materialistic or overly concerned with fashion and looks but I work hard to be able have adventures and I keep myself in pretty good shape. I'm not the kind you will find in a gym but I prefer to workout in the beautiful outdoors whether it's raining or not, bring it on. :-) I don't like to crowd others, and sometimes need space to myself but I also love get togethers with friends and family.I'm a phlebotomist who loves my work. I work with donors who are amazing and giving. I am blessed with a job that can help save peoples lives and it humbles me.I have three great children-18, 7 and 6, full of energy who like to do anything outside. We like to go camping, hiking and swimming. As long as it's outside they're up for it, even helping out doing yardwork.I also love to joke around so If I like you, you're in for it ;-)PS. If you don't have your divorce papers signed and dated please do not contact me. It's a waste of everyone's time and energy. I like to go on walks in a park or laying on a lawn and talking when I first meet someone, but I'm open to whatever you'd like. :-)