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Marci, 45

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About Me

I used to think I was indecisive, but now I'm not too sure.....After a 23-year relationship, I may be rusty about this dating stuff, but I'm not jaded by divorce. It's even clearer to me that there's not just one person out there. And even if you get lucky and meet a winner, there's a mountain of work ahead, no matter what. It's knowing that the work is worth it, that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. I always try to find the good in everything and everybody. I enjoy taking walks in a park or on the beach or driving to places unknown to find the perfect spot to stop for lunch. I love hanging out at the beach or on a boat, enjoying the scenery. I am also just as comfortable sitting on the deck or patio enjoying our time. Sitting on the couch curled up with you watching a movie or a football game with a glass of wine would be great too when the weather is cold. The summer is my favorite season. I like to be outside as much as I can to soak up the sun. Planting flowers, cutting the grass or going for a motorcycle ride -it doesn't matter to me. Going for an ice cream cone is the best reward for a day in the yard. It's better to understand than to be understood. Laughter can save a relationship; lack of laughter can kill it. Having kids makes you a better person, but it could also complicate your relationship in ways impossible to understand from the outside.For my pictures, not one of my favorite things BUT- they are current and they are the real me. I am not your girly girl type- but I am comfortable slipping on my little black dress for a night out on the town. Lets talk and decide together

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jacquelyn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!

  • Merle

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I\'m professional, spiritual, athletic, sexy and playful. I’m a fabulous cook; I sing, dance and write. The person I’d like to meet should be tall and physically fit and socially responsible.

  • Holly

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a Simple, Passionate, Loving, Caring, Affectionate, Sympathetic, Adventurous, Smart, successful, driven person with a great sense of Humor...I'm young at heart and have great inter-personal skills.. I love seeking out new acquaintances from different cultures , learning from them and appreciate them.. as well I value true friendships! I am a strong humanitarian , I contribute to causes, researches and fundraisers.I dont like people who are fake, or stuck up, You gotta be real..transparency, no head games...I'm an honest person, very realistic, so I'm looking for the same... PLEASE, no drama !!As much as I like to go on Nature walks, do outdoor activities, biking , etc, I also like to go for supper, or dancing, a concert, a festival, and as well, just stay home, I love most types of music..I have two sons ***& 18 years old , taller then me ) they live with me full time (even though they're never home lol ) . If I start a relationship with you, You need to accept my sons...they're good guys, smart, well mannered, respectful, warm-hearted like me. They actually want me to meet someone so I leave them alone lolol... I own my own place, have a car, have a job, basically, I'm independant and would like the same from you....meaning you have your own place (not live with your mother) , you have a car, and a job . ... C'est la moindre des chosesI've noticed alot of guys here just want nude pictures, sex talk , no strings attached relationship, some are married etc.. well, I won't live in anyone's shadow...nor am I an escort service...nor an erotic phone talk service lol...... please do not contact me if you dont have at least 2 photos in your profile. It's just normal for me (or any other woman) to wanna know who I'm speaking with :) Besides, who would be on a dating site without photos ?? Sorry , but those profiles are "sketch" to me. Please dont contact me if your intentions are to have sex on the first date.If I don't answer back it's most probably because I'm not interested, don't take it personal. I probably don't think we're a good match...sorry in advance if you're offended. Je suis parfaitement bilingue.I wish you all the best of luck here to find what you're looking for !! :) whatever you suggest, i'm not difficult as long as we can talk

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