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Luisa, 42

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About Me

I am a responsible but fun-loving, down-to-earth gal and would love to find the same in a mate. I do not need to be rescued from myself- I am financially responsible and emotionally stable- I own my own home, mow my own lawn and even clean my shower before it starts to resemble a fish tank. I do single quite well but having a partner just makes life that much more fun and interesting!I am a person who likes to stay busy but if I find a special man he will always know he is #1. I'm not into heavy makeup or too much fluff and can get ready to go just about anywhere in 30 minutes. I value an active lifestyle and often spend my free time out and about, catching up with friends, doing a project around the house or getting some exercise. I'm not an extremist by any means but I do exude health, vibrance and a positive attitude and expect the same in a guy I am involved with. I enjoy many activities from dinner out to a chill night at home and can be happy doing just about anything with people I care about.With my son nearly grown, I now have much more flexibility in my life. I love children but I would prefer to date someone who is not tied down with young children.....teenage or older kids are definitely a plus! Some big things I am looking for in a relationship are honesty, consistency and the ability to work out any problems that arise. I care not if you do or do not attend church or associate yourself with a particular religion but I am very much concerned with a persons depth and character and actions do mean everything. I am all about living a peaceful lifestyle so if you are unable to participate in a non-chaotic relationship and/or have a little hate-fest going on with your ex we will not be good for each other. Don't get me wrong- I'm not a goody-goody by any stretch of the imagination and really couldn't see myself attracted to someone completely straight-laced but I am looking for someone who has good integrity and wants a 1:1 relationship when they find the right woman.Like interests are great but I also enjoy someone who will broaden my horizons and I hope that I can broaden theirs as well. Some things I like most about being in a relationship is the challenge of seeing things from a different angle and experiencing things I might not normally do. I also love the feeling of caring deeply about someone....sharing good times with a great partner is about as good as it gets!If this sounds like what you are looking for too, please drop me a line :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shana

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love kids and animals. I like all kinds of music. I love meeting new people and just hanging out and enjoying their company. I appreciate honesty. I respect other's privacy and I expect the same...I prefer younger Hispanic men and I really like tattoos, although I am open to meeting others. Although i work and have children and I am quite busy, I will take the time to spend with someone that's worth it. Maybe meet for a drink or something in a public place. I don't want my pictures posted all over the internet out of respect for my children. Please don't contact me if you're looking for a booty call, in a relationship and looking for a little something on the side, threesomes, or if you are looking for a no-strings attached friends with benefits type thing.-up while you're here; please don't waste either of our time. If you want to date me, you need to be serious, I am too old for games and players...

  • Coleen

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ;) Originally from the South, I love the outdoors, walking on the beach (I know, SO original, but true!), walking my pup, hiking, bicycling, singing karaoke, dancing, going to movies, watching basketball/football occasionally with friends, laughing, etc. I'm really passionate about the environment, ocean conservancy, wildlife, animals, children; I love feeling like I have a purpose in life & making a difference. My friends/family would characterize me as a fun, playful spirit yet also very dependable, down to earth, spiritual, considerate, strong values; honesty & integrity are of utmost importance to me. I love being social but also really enjoy one-on-one downtime & romance. I'm looking for someone who has similar interests & values as well as someone who is looking for the same things as me (long-term). May you all find what you're looking for and have fun in the process! ~; )

  • Kathy

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Welcome to my BS-free profile :). In an effort to weed out the purveyors of nonsense and dysfunction that seem to be so common on here, I've been rather blunt what what I've written and haven't really included anything light and fluffy...So, it isn't likely apparent from my profile, but in person, I've been told by numerous people that I'm fun, funny, easy to talk with, spunky...and also very youthful in appearance and tastes.I'm far more interested in and picky about the inside (character and personality) than the outside, including h***when someone actually takes care of himself, that is. I believe that one should make the best of what he/she has, as I've attempted to do since I was a teenager. My parents have been together, happily, for about 50 years, and it's very clear to me that meaningful and lasting relationships are about way more than looks / physical attraction / sex. If more people paid more attention to the inside than the outside, I'm pretty sure that there would be exceedingly more healthy and successful relationships, marriages...and even families.I need someone who has morals, thinks about consequences, has good judgment...who is responsible, respectful, honest, trustworthy, intelligent...who treats others as he wants to be treated...and who does what he says he will - even with small things, as I see doing such as indications of respect and integrity. He will get all of these qualities from me as well. I am very no nonsense / no "games" - you won't get any from me, and I won't tolerate any either. I am NOT interested in dating men who exhibit any of the following "features": Tobacco use (other than an occasional cigar***recreational drug use of any kind Addictions DishonestyIrresponsibility ShallownessRudeness / disrespect / people who don't do what they say they will do Seeking casual or no strings sexNo vehicle or no valid license to drive Criminal convictionsI've encountered each of the above items from men on here often enough to feel the need to list them upfront as deal breakers. I don't see the point in wasting your time or mine. Messages I've received have indicated a misinterpretation, as if I were seeking a non-drinker, and that is not the case at all. I'm not interested in an alcoholic or someone with a drinking problem, but I have no problem with dating a social or moderate drinker. Unlike the very large number of unrealistic men I've encountered on this site, I'm not expecting to get qualities in a significant other that I don't offer in return. For one thing, I find it rather disturbing how many below average to very average-looking men, who do not appear to be the least bit sexy, make statements in their profiles or messages about how they are seeking a beautiful, pretty, hot, or sexy woman...and that looks are important them. Apparently they do not realize that, even if they were to find a woman to partake, there would almost certainly be a price to pay (probably a monetary one but possibly in a different form), and it will not result in a genuine and healthy relationship...I've seen it happen repeatedly to unrealistic single men I've known who are actually seeking a serious, long term relationship and who have continually overlooked early and obvious red flags in their attempts to get a woman with good sex appeal, and who haven't learned their lesson - but maybe some men don't mind being used. So many of you say how you are seeking a spark and great chemistry and how important those things are to you. But, have you ever considered if YOU, with your looks and personality (and notwithstanding how much money you are willing to spend on her), are in a position to elicit that spark and chemistry for the type of woman you are seeking? Or do you even care if the spark and feelings of chemistry would be mutual or just on your end? Regardless, after what I've seen on here for a while, I REALLY think that everyone would be far better off over the long term if more people started being realistic and also started considering a dating prospect's character / inside rather than only the outside, or rather than being on a mission to simply find the best-looking person / photos who will respond, without any regard for how dysfunctional she/he may be. Being more realistic and less shallow may allow you to actually find a genuine, healthy, and lasting relationship. I'm sure there are plenty of unrealistic single women with the wrong priorities out there as well, but I am not one of them. In fact, I am quite the contrary.I am NOT seeking a man to help me financially. I'm awesome with money and can pay my bills without a boyfriend or husband. I'm seeking an overall and genuine connection, which includes an emotional connection, and I know what I want and what I can work with. I'm happy to make local friends from this site to go out and do things with, however, I have zero interest in being physical with anyone without getting to know him well, exclusivity, an emotional connection and good long term potential. Meeting in person is critical, so I'm not a fan of communicating much before meeting in person for the first time. If we meet each other's basic specifications, I actually prefer to meet quickly...and talk later. I'm geographically flexible...IF you will come to my area for the first date. For a good match, I would have no problem traveling outside of my area to date - after the first date. I'm old-fashioned about dating and don't initiate contact, so please message me if you read my profile and think we could be a match.Thank you for reading...and have a fabulous day :).

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