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Tamera, 41

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About Me

I have had a couple of bad bouts with these dating sites and am not looking for someone based off their sexual needs. I feel that this is something that should be done somewhere down the line of a serious relationship unless you are looking for just sex. I on the other hand am not looking for just sexual relations. I believe that a relationship is built on understanding, compassion and trust and love. Once you have that then the rest usually falls into place. So, if you want to base a relationship off of not truly knowing someone or because they don't particularly care for something, then keep on looking cuz I am not what you are looking for. I am looking for someone who actually wants to meet and hang out and have some fun although don't know how much with winter coming but would be fun. Someone who really knows how to treat a person. I am a very outgoing person, shy at first but warm up fast. I love trying new things and will try just about anything at least once. I love to dance, going for walks, spending quality time with my children and some quiet nites at home watching a movie. I'm looking for someone who is compassionate, caring and understanding. Someone who I can talk to like my best friend, and help me heal. I am also going to college to work on my degree in Community Social Services and I have been fostering 2 children for the past year that have become a big part of my family's life. I also do some volunteer work. Yes I am somewhat of a busy person, but I will make time for that special someone, as long as they can handle it. I think that dinner and dancing or a movie is good for a 1st date and then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Victoria

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-21

    Hi! My name is Victoria. I am never married other african woman without kids from Ruston, Louisiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Kathy

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Welcome to my BS-free profile :). In an effort to weed out the purveyors of nonsense and dysfunction that seem to be so common on here, I've been rather blunt what what I've written and haven't really included anything light and fluffy...So, it isn't likely apparent from my profile, but in person, I've been told by numerous people that I'm fun, funny, easy to talk with, spunky...and also very youthful in appearance and tastes.I'm far more interested in and picky about the inside (character and personality) than the outside, including h***when someone actually takes care of himself, that is. I believe that one should make the best of what he/she has, as I've attempted to do since I was a teenager. My parents have been together, happily, for about 50 years, and it's very clear to me that meaningful and lasting relationships are about way more than looks / physical attraction / sex. If more people paid more attention to the inside than the outside, I'm pretty sure that there would be exceedingly more healthy and successful relationships, marriages...and even families.I need someone who has morals, thinks about consequences, has good judgment...who is responsible, respectful, honest, trustworthy, intelligent...who treats others as he wants to be treated...and who does what he says he will - even with small things, as I see doing such as indications of respect and integrity. He will get all of these qualities from me as well. I am very no nonsense / no "games" - you won't get any from me, and I won't tolerate any either. I am NOT interested in dating men who exhibit any of the following "features": Tobacco use (other than an occasional cigar***recreational drug use of any kind Addictions DishonestyIrresponsibility ShallownessRudeness / disrespect / people who don't do what they say they will do Seeking casual or no strings sexNo vehicle or no valid license to drive Criminal convictionsI've encountered each of the above items from men on here often enough to feel the need to list them upfront as deal breakers. I don't see the point in wasting your time or mine. Messages I've received have indicated a misinterpretation, as if I were seeking a non-drinker, and that is not the case at all. I'm not interested in an alcoholic or someone with a drinking problem, but I have no problem with dating a social or moderate drinker. Unlike the very large number of unrealistic men I've encountered on this site, I'm not expecting to get qualities in a significant other that I don't offer in return. For one thing, I find it rather disturbing how many below average to very average-looking men, who do not appear to be the least bit sexy, make statements in their profiles or messages about how they are seeking a beautiful, pretty, hot, or sexy woman...and that looks are important them. Apparently they do not realize that, even if they were to find a woman to partake, there would almost certainly be a price to pay (probably a monetary one but possibly in a different form), and it will not result in a genuine and healthy relationship...I've seen it happen repeatedly to unrealistic single men I've known who are actually seeking a serious, long term relationship and who have continually overlooked early and obvious red flags in their attempts to get a woman with good sex appeal, and who haven't learned their lesson - but maybe some men don't mind being used. So many of you say how you are seeking a spark and great chemistry and how important those things are to you. But, have you ever considered if YOU, with your looks and personality (and notwithstanding how much money you are willing to spend on her), are in a position to elicit that spark and chemistry for the type of woman you are seeking? Or do you even care if the spark and feelings of chemistry would be mutual or just on your end? Regardless, after what I've seen on here for a while, I REALLY think that everyone would be far better off over the long term if more people started being realistic and also started considering a dating prospect's character / inside rather than only the outside, or rather than being on a mission to simply find the best-looking person / photos who will respond, without any regard for how dysfunctional she/he may be. Being more realistic and less shallow may allow you to actually find a genuine, healthy, and lasting relationship. I'm sure there are plenty of unrealistic single women with the wrong priorities out there as well, but I am not one of them. In fact, I am quite the contrary.I am NOT seeking a man to help me financially. I'm awesome with money and can pay my bills without a boyfriend or husband. I'm seeking an overall and genuine connection, which includes an emotional connection, and I know what I want and what I can work with. I'm happy to make local friends from this site to go out and do things with, however, I have zero interest in being physical with anyone without getting to know him well, exclusivity, an emotional connection and good long term potential. Meeting in person is critical, so I'm not a fan of communicating much before meeting in person for the first time. If we meet each other's basic specifications, I actually prefer to meet quickly...and talk later. I'm geographically flexible...IF you will come to my area for the first date. For a good match, I would have no problem traveling outside of my area to date - after the first date. I'm old-fashioned about dating and don't initiate contact, so please message me if you read my profile and think we could be a match.Thank you for reading...and have a fabulous day :).

  • Mariana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am 39 yrs old. I don't want to play games. I have lived a lifetime already and I hope that for the rest of my life I can find someone that wants me to make them happy and they will want to make me happy...My family tells me that I am old fashioned...Well, I hope that is a good thing. I have respect for myself...I will protect my family. I have 2 grown children.I have been a single mom for most of my children's life..But it is ok. I am a survivor and I done my best. I am a hard worker, I can run a farm and a Dr. Office. I can build barns,buildings,fence and work outside. I run a farm with my Dad. I can work inside,because I love a clean house.I like to work in my flower gardens, I love to spend time with my grandchildren, I like to mow yard,canoe,camp,swim,dance and occasionally go to the beach.Spring time is my favorite time.My nephews are a huge part of my life too.I love to watch TV,NFL football, I love to watch movies at home, Not scary, lol... I also like to read. I was a Nurse for 17 years. I also can be the most funniest sober drunk you have ever met even though I don't drink. I love all kinds of music.If you would like to talk to me, we can talk if it doesn't work out then you have found a friend...I take that seriously too. Please have a pic! would like to meet for coffee and conversation in a public place.

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