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Tamera, 41

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About Me

I have had a couple of bad bouts with these dating sites and am not looking for someone based off their sexual needs. I feel that this is something that should be done somewhere down the line of a serious relationship unless you are looking for just sex. I on the other hand am not looking for just sexual relations. I believe that a relationship is built on understanding, compassion and trust and love. Once you have that then the rest usually falls into place. So, if you want to base a relationship off of not truly knowing someone or because they don't particularly care for something, then keep on looking cuz I am not what you are looking for. I am looking for someone who actually wants to meet and hang out and have some fun although don't know how much with winter coming but would be fun. Someone who really knows how to treat a person. I am a very outgoing person, shy at first but warm up fast. I love trying new things and will try just about anything at least once. I love to dance, going for walks, spending quality time with my children and some quiet nites at home watching a movie. I'm looking for someone who is compassionate, caring and understanding. Someone who I can talk to like my best friend, and help me heal. I am also going to college to work on my degree in Community Social Services and I have been fostering 2 children for the past year that have become a big part of my family's life. I also do some volunteer work. Yes I am somewhat of a busy person, but I will make time for that special someone, as long as they can handle it. I think that dinner and dancing or a movie is good for a 1st date and then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Johanna

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hardworking, intelligent, honest and selfless team player seeks the same. Successful applicant must submit to God as the coach. OK, enough of the sports analogy! I am passionate about exercise, parenting, living in God's will and improving my community. I enjoy entertaining and spending time with friends. I love planting trees and don't mind yard work. I appreciate many types of music, to include rock, country, classical, and gospel. In fact, my home contains no less than 15 *** don't play any well, but my sons do. I am actually an introvert (gather my strength when alone) but I love people and serving people. I am amazed daily by God's grace.Oh, it's also important to know that I am electronically challenged! I couldn't find where anyone had written anything, so I thought I had wasted my time with my writing, and with this entire site as it wasn't helping me screen. This afternoon, I see it was as simple as scrolling, definitely a laugh out loud moment!Please don't have your feelings hurt if I do not respond back. It doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you! I am sure you are a great guy with a lot to offer. It might be as simple as you remind me of someone. Happy fishing! I'm game for most anything from biking to music festivals. I typically eat to live, but do enjoy a great meal; it doesn't matter if it is a hole in the wall or steakhouse. I'm looking for the opportunity to get to know you!

  • Luisa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a responsible but fun-loving, down-to-earth gal and would love to find the same in a mate. I do not need to be rescued from myself- I am financially responsible and emotionally stable- I own my own home, mow my own lawn and even clean my shower before it starts to resemble a fish tank. I do single quite well but having a partner just makes life that much more fun and interesting!I am a person who likes to stay busy but if I find a special man he will always know he is #1. I'm not into heavy makeup or too much fluff and can get ready to go just about anywhere in 30 minutes. I value an active lifestyle and often spend my free time out and about, catching up with friends, doing a project around the house or getting some exercise. I'm not an extremist by any means but I do exude health, vibrance and a positive attitude and expect the same in a guy I am involved with. I enjoy many activities from dinner out to a chill night at home and can be happy doing just about anything with people I care about.With my son nearly grown, I now have much more flexibility in my life. I love children but I would prefer to date someone who is not tied down with young children.....teenage or older kids are definitely a plus! Some big things I am looking for in a relationship are honesty, consistency and the ability to work out any problems that arise. I care not if you do or do not attend church or associate yourself with a particular religion but I am very much concerned with a persons depth and character and actions do mean everything. I am all about living a peaceful lifestyle so if you are unable to participate in a non-chaotic relationship and/or have a little hate-fest going on with your ex we will not be good for each other. Don't get me wrong- I'm not a goody-goody by any stretch of the imagination and really couldn't see myself attracted to someone completely straight-laced but I am looking for someone who has good integrity and wants a 1:1 relationship when they find the right woman.Like interests are great but I also enjoy someone who will broaden my horizons and I hope that I can broaden theirs as well. Some things I like most about being in a relationship is the challenge of seeing things from a different angle and experiencing things I might not normally do. I also love the feeling of caring deeply about someone....sharing good times with a great partner is about as good as it gets!If this sounds like what you are looking for too, please drop me a line :)

  • Ella

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am truly and utterly bored with this site! Does anything or anyone ever come out of this? In want something spectacular - un-ordinary and fantastic. Is that too much to ask? Does anyone actually read this ??? High School students need not apply!! If I do not respond to your message - I do not need additional messages sent to me that are hateful because of my lack of response. SWF seeking SWM Please read profile - not looking for anyone under the age of 35!!!! So if you are 26 and send me a message askin if I like younger guys - here's your answer: NO!!!! We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in loveAnd this says it all:"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments." GO GRAB A BITE (APPETIZERS & DRINKS) FIND A GREAT LIL BAR WITH LIVE MUSIC... AND LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY MAY!

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