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Inez, 44
United States, Louisiana, Ruston

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About Me

ME: Hmm, How do I sum myself up with words? LAID BACK. Intensely. My 20 yr old daughter recently told me that she can count with her thumbs the number of times she has ever heard me raise my voice. EMPATHETIC. I have a knack for being able to relate to the feelings of others. SARCASTIC. Life is to serious to be serious. STUBBORN. Or so I’m told. SINCERE. If I say it, I mean it, dammit. HONEST. I am proud of my life so there is really no reason to lie about any part of it. COMPASSIONATE. Helping others is who I am (Wait until you hear about my job.) OPTOMISTIC. My glass is almost always half full. I say almost because the rest of the time I keep it full. ROMANTIC. I derive great satisfaction in finding fun ways to remind my man how much I care, unexpected notes, dinner out, dinner in, and yes, even flowers. Some of the things I like: country music, Mexican food, picnics in the park, camping, hiking, camping, listening to local bands, a good wine, a good beer and cuddle time.YOU: This part is much easier than the ME part. I am laid back, honest, empathetic, compassionate and optimistic (see above) so I look for the same. I am someone who rarely gets bored because I can appreciate that the fun is in the company you are keeping. Finding someone who shares some (not all) of my interests and doesn’t take life too seriously is all it takes. It is important to have a few uncommon interests as well, both to share new experiences with each other and to allow for ‘boy time’ and ‘girl time’ apart. A man who’s a great father is awesome. Smoker needs not apply.Well, you’re still reading so I guess I have held your attention so far.’re busy, drop me a line when you’re not and let’s see if I can continue to do so. Meet for coffee, ice-cream or a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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