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Jodie
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am very comfortable with who I am. I sometimes use the term "Healthy Narcissist" which is very different from an "unhealthy" one. It's not about ego, it's about loving yourself from a deep understanding of yourself, flaws included. (So that explains my bikini pics for starters...) I feel you should always walk into a room knowing that you are bringing your best. However, this doesn't mean with an attitude. Open your heart on this life journey.I am looking (more "open to" rather than "looking") for someone who is really comfortable with who they are NOW. However, the catch is that you are open to "change" in all aspects of your life. Change is a good thing. I thrive on change.I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST! I am very sensual and have high kundalini. I love to travel and meet the locals. Volunteering and giving back are important to me. I seek to volunteer in organizations/places that have an authentic purpose, and everyone involved has real passion. A little (or a lot) of adventure is awesome.I am an avid lucid dreamer, and I teach and write about it. "Today, Today, live like you wanna, let yesterday burn and throw it in a fire, in a fire....live like a warrior." by Matisyahu Recent fan. Love his songs, don't know much about him....but damn good songs that touched me.I am inspired by real people who have a positive outlook on life even after overcoming amazing adversity. . I see this life as a series of learning experiences, and respect the relationships I have no matter if they are brief or long. Passion, love and intimacy are not just bound to long term relationships, but relationships MUST always be respected, honored and truthful.I seek to really LIVE and give in all areas of my life. I have an intense spiritual side and surround myself with positive people who respect this life and respect people. I am spiritual, but do not believe any organized religion is the right one.Laughter...comedy. I can't go a day or a few hours without it! Surround yourself with friends or acquaintances that know how to laugh and you will be living a good life. I desire what I myself am bringing; a fit body, a quick wit, intelligence, sensuality, kindness and a great sense of humor. Respect. Understanding. Chemistry. Lust. Honesty, Openness, Sense of self, Passion, Fun, Laughs, Sweet caresses, Going out, Hanging with friends at a BBQ or a game, Kissing, Making out, Fun sex, Awesome cosmic sensual spiritual sex. Someone that can stimulate my mind as well as my body.I believe we have many soul mates for many different reasons. They can be our friends and/or our lovers.IF you actually read all of this, and you want to see if we can be friends...or lovers...or etc. In your response put the words "Lucid dreaming" somewhere. It is NOT a requirement...lol. But would maybe help.And in case you missed it...."I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST!"Namaste' *Depends on the day and time of day.
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Kaitlin
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I'm going to make this easy, and straight to the point...so lean in closer boys, fasten your seatbelts and pay close attention:)....(u may be quizzed later...*..loyal, passionate, compassionate, humorous, outgoing, and far from shy,,,,I do as i say, and i say what i mean, period.I truly like who i am as a person, recognizing still that i can always try to be even better:)I won't get into a physical description as i have more then enough pics that can speak for themselves,,,,,curves and all;)I come with a great network of friends, and an amazing family...and because of that i won't just let "anyone" join in....they've got to be special! which leads me to.......YOU:You are between the ages of 38 and ***max)You live within the GTA, and no longer live with mommy and daddy and do drive;)You are of ideally european decent and were raised with those core values....(open to mixed and black as well, attraction is attraction;)You are tall, dark, and cuuuute!...(ok, i can flex on the tall-part if need be,,,lol)You are emotionally available, MEANING.....and wouldn't be afraid to pursue those possibilities, one day at a time!....(gotta love all the guys that think just b/c a women is looking ULTIMITELY for a relationship...that she will just settle on just "anyone"....soooooooo not the case here, sorry! i have to feel the connection!!!!! i'd much rather be alone and happy, then attached and miserable...and so would you:)You like animals, and children,,,,it speaks volumes about a person and their character i think...soooooooo....here's the deal.....i look at ppls pics...AND i read (and respect) their wish lists, so PLZ respect mine!!!!....and if u think we could hit it off then gimme a shout and we'll do it up!!!!!!!!***Please, have pics available on here if ur gonna make contact, just like i do;)......and be from the GTA as well; But don't think I'll be getting out there anytime soon! Lol!)***Although I am short myself, I DO wear heels, and don't feel comfortable towering over my man, lol...therefore I'd prefer that u'd be 5'8 or taller. I feel the need to mention this as it seems as though every man on here that's btwn 5'3-5'7" has made contact with me this far, possibly cuz I too am short,lol, but it still doesn't mean that my preference leans towards short men;)..no different that someone not being into blondes, or curves;) we ALL have our prefrences, and it's finding our match that is key! So good luck to us all! Lol!Random things I've noticed on POF:-most guys don't read the profiles, or if they do, just "ignore" points in it anyways! -same with that "meet me"; (see above!) Lol-there seems to be MANY, MANY guys (to the point it's very strange), that are late 30's and early 40's (+), that are STILL in that "looking to date, but nothing serious" stage,,,,,for those, unless u've JUST come out of a longterm relationship,,,GROW UP;)-why is it that the majority of the black men on here feel that they need to literally state that they are black?!! What's the difference??!! It shouldn't matter, but there also should have to be a need to state the obvious either! Lol!-why do people on here seem to LUV takimg pics of themselves, with sunglasses on, inside?? (Ie:in their bathroom, sunglasses on, in front of their webcam, yep-sunglasses on...u get the point;)-most guys on here seem to think that "hi", simply 'hi",,,is starting a conversation, and is gonna get them somewhere on here,,it's not, lol. Nor is opening with something sexual in nature,,,,that, gets u deleted and blocked;)Will be adding to the list with future observations/comments I'm sure! IT'S ALL ABOUT THE CHEMISTRY BABYYYYY!!!!!
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Jeanie
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
WELL, I work , watch some TV. focus on taking care of people. Have a smile, and heart of gold. I like to read interesting articles. learn knew things. never to old to try something Knew. I guess you could say I take risk. I like to dance. meet somewhere in the open. Maybe lunch, supper , to see if there is a good chemistry going on.