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Jodie, 42
United States, Louisiana, Ruston

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About Me

I am very comfortable with who I am. I sometimes use the term "Healthy Narcissist" which is very different from an "unhealthy" one. It's not about ego, it's about loving yourself from a deep understanding of yourself, flaws included. (So that explains my bikini pics for starters...) I feel you should always walk into a room knowing that you are bringing your best. However, this doesn't mean with an attitude. Open your heart on this life journey.I am looking (more "open to" rather than "looking") for someone who is really comfortable with who they are NOW. However, the catch is that you are open to "change" in all aspects of your life. Change is a good thing. I thrive on change.I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST! I am very sensual and have high kundalini. I love to travel and meet the locals. Volunteering and giving back are important to me. I seek to volunteer in organizations/places that have an authentic purpose, and everyone involved has real passion. A little (or a lot) of adventure is awesome.I am an avid lucid dreamer, and I teach and write about it. "Today, Today, live like you wanna, let yesterday burn and throw it in a fire, in a fire....live like a warrior." by Matisyahu Recent fan. Love his songs, don't know much about him....but damn good songs that touched me.I am inspired by real people who have a positive outlook on life even after overcoming amazing adversity. . I see this life as a series of learning experiences, and respect the relationships I have no matter if they are brief or long. Passion, love and intimacy are not just bound to long term relationships, but relationships MUST always be respected, honored and truthful.I seek to really LIVE and give in all areas of my life. I have an intense spiritual side and surround myself with positive people who respect this life and respect people. I am spiritual, but do not believe any organized religion is the right one.Laughter...comedy. I can't go a day or a few hours without it! Surround yourself with friends or acquaintances that know how to laugh and you will be living a good life. I desire what I myself am bringing; a fit body, a quick wit, intelligence, sensuality, kindness and a great sense of humor. Respect. Understanding. Chemistry. Lust. Honesty, Openness, Sense of self, Passion, Fun, Laughs, Sweet caresses, Going out, Hanging with friends at a BBQ or a game, Kissing, Making out, Fun sex, Awesome cosmic sensual spiritual sex. Someone that can stimulate my mind as well as my body.I believe we have many soul mates for many different reasons. They can be our friends and/or our lovers.IF you actually read all of this, and you want to see if we can be friends...or lovers...or etc. In your response put the words "Lucid dreaming" somewhere. It is NOT a requirement...lol. But would maybe help.And in case you missed it...."I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST!"Namaste' *Depends on the day and time of day.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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