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Vanessa, 41

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About Me

I know i can enhance your life, keep your attention, challenge you, teach you and love you. Can you do the same for me? i deserve an equal. I have many passions and hobbies. Never a lack for conversation. Looking for someone authentic I'm intuitive. Can't fool me :)I work for an airline doing reservations, practice reiki, cut rocks, make jewelry, and much more. Love to laugh and be spontaneous. I'm sarcastic. I'd like to think I'm funny. Very witty. If you can't handle some profanity might want to avoid me. I smile and laugh alot. I have the kind of laugh you hear across the room. I also have a diabolical laugh. If you hear that one your in trouble :) I'm a hugger and a good one at that. Since i'm very social I speak to strangers and make conversation everywhere.I give great shoulder rubs. I get along with everybody. I have many clients and friends that are guys. If you are the jealous insecure type, move on..Why am I unique?? Umm I have a ninja sword, I drive around with a huge rosé quartz in my car. I can carry a full conversation without words, just eye contact. I don't put energy on money like most people. I consider it bubbles. Way more fun! Music is a big part of my life. I like many types of music. I like all movies ill watch pretty much anything. If its scary though I'm a squeezer and a screamer. I cry in the chick flicks too I love every kind of food and culture. Love to travel. I love to cook. Havent had much time these days but I can cook just about anything from tamales, fried chicken, chicken parmesan with homemade marinara etc. Just looking to meet new people and experience life. Always up for adventure or just to chill. If you like what you see just message me! Please more than two words. I generally won't reply to "hi". I'm emotionally stable and available. I don't want to hear all about your terrible exes. If we all had amazing exes we wouldn't be on here... just saying... Some information is appreciated but not necessary. I am curvy. I do have some extra pounds. If you have a problem with that I could use a work out buddy. I'm confident with my body however. Not an issue for me. I embrace ALL of me! I have 4 kids. And if your still reading this they are great. And I'm not just saying that. 3 boys 17, 14, 10. My daughter is 11. If having babies is a must for you I'm not your girl. Closed that chapter of my life. I love fortune cookies. Just the fortune. I always pick the best ones! I don't sweat the small stuff. Nothing you say could shock me. Honestly.I've lost people very close to me. Had many life experiences I've grown from. I live each day to the fullest. I hold the ones I love close and I'm grateful for every day of life I'm gifted. Reiki is a huge part of my life. Its a japanese form of energy healing. I have experienced many miracles through reiki. I have the best stories and I love to share them. I also read angel cards. Disclaimers***Honestly im tired of having sex thrown at me or people asking for nude pics. I'm craving romance, friendship and nurturing first. I don't need someone to save me or take care of me. I am financially secure. I own a home and have it together. I work hard. Please don't ask me for money (yes that happens). I'm not looking for another dependent. No addicts please! Not interested in dating anyone I'm old enough to be their mom or daughter. I have lots of old and young friends. Just not romantic interests. Thanks. Sushi, drinks, hike, sunset watching. Or any adventure will do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Linda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am an easy going person ,who can make my friends laugh, secure about myself, doesn't like drama and what it brings, driven and self sufficient but knows how to hand the reins over and enjoys those moments. I have been active in sports all my life which now includes triathlon, skiing, running and dancing!! I am very lucky to be surrounded by awesome friends but like a male's perspective on things too! My children are a high priority in my life. They keep me laughing and they are what drives me to pursue happiness. Things that I enjoy are simple... Sunrises, all beaches, a laugh that makes you cry, any kind of great food, kind people with warm hearts, movie that you leaves inspired , traveling anywhere, an endorphin rush, people with integrity , an ice cream cone with sprinkles, nice shoes, people that know how to work hard -play harder , sunset after being at the beach all day, first tracks on a power day, rainy Saturdays so you have two reasons to stay in bed half the morning, clean garage - ok weird, and a kiss that melts you!!! PS I am into keeping myself in good health , I really want to met someone with the same thought ... So if you are carrying an extra 15 or more pounds, do not like to run or be active , we are not a match. This means I am not interested in dating you . Best of luck to everyone finding that someone ... Suprise me.... Sometimes simple is better!

  • Norma

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am my own person and refuse to be like everyone else. I like to try new things and new experiences. I am very young at heart and am told I look better in person than in my pictures. I am a confident woman and am looking for a strong, confident man. I love to laugh, love life and am looking for someone with whom I can enjoy it. I generally do this from my phone so I can't chat on here but will be happy to text after a couple initial messages! I'd rather meet sooner than later. There is either chemistry or there isn't so let's find out. As for what and where... surprise me!!!

  • Suzanne

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ** UPDATE - IF YOU TAKE THE TIME TO MSG ME AND I TAKE THE TIME TO MSG BACK, PLEASE DON'T RESPOND WITH NEGATIVITY OR RUDE, SEXIST COMMENTS.... I DO NOT CARE THAT YOU ARE "HORNY" AND I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHTERS OR SEXTING.....IT'S ALL ABOUT RESPECT ** ** I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO HEAVY MEN OR BLACK MEN - NO OFFENSE PLEASE, JUST NOT MY TYPE - NO PICTURE? - NO RESPONSE**I get a lot of *** so it does take some time to sort through them all so please don't take offense if I don't get back to you right away. I am only one person and don't have a personal assistant nor does my cat know how to read or type. PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE!! I am not rude and if you have taken the time to read my profile and send an *** answer. If you have EVER fished you know it takes lots of patience. Thank you!! If you are mean to anyone or anything, into drama, married, fake, a liar, user, do drugs, player, hater or just want someone to take care of you....move on please. If you like being in control of every situation, putting others down, think you are better than the next person or use violence in any way....then please, do not bother contacting me. We will not get along. I refuse to settle for less than I deserve. I've seen all the tricks, been played, lied to, cheated on and had my heart handed to me in pieces. No more. Be who you say you are, the truth ALWAYS comes out and I can see right through the BS.**Now, if you have made it this far, I am an easy going person. Love to laugh and cut up..... just have fun. I don't waste time fighting over trivial things and like to think outside the box. Life is too short to let things get you down, Live, Learn, Laugh and take the next step. I know who I am and what I want out of life and I know I want to share it all with someone special. It's the fishing part of it that's hard but hey, I'm up for that. I have a great sense of humor and it takes a lot to get me down, but if it happens just step back please. Love my old red boots and some would say I grew up in the 70's because of my love for bell bottom jeans LOL...but I do own a few that aren't. It can make a bad day good, a good day great and a great day the best! I listen to mostly classic rock, metal, pop, country.....almost anything. If it's got a kickin' beat I'll listen to it....and probably try to sing and dance (you might not wanna hear or see that tho) LOLI'm a country gal, yes, I have a country accent. I love being outdoors. Hiking is a passion of mine so I try to get out in the woods as much as possible. I also enjoy trips to the beach and love to travel as much as I can but mostly just enjoy hanging out at home by a good campfire. There are lots of things I'm interested in but way too many to put in this little box.If I sound interesting to you drop me a message. We'll go from there! Whatever works for both parties is fine. It's always negotiable.

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