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Vanessa, 41

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I know i can enhance your life, keep your attention, challenge you, teach you and love you. Can you do the same for me? i deserve an equal. I have many passions and hobbies. Never a lack for conversation. Looking for someone authentic I'm intuitive. Can't fool me :)I work for an airline doing reservations, practice reiki, cut rocks, make jewelry, and much more. Love to laugh and be spontaneous. I'm sarcastic. I'd like to think I'm funny. Very witty. If you can't handle some profanity might want to avoid me. I smile and laugh alot. I have the kind of laugh you hear across the room. I also have a diabolical laugh. If you hear that one your in trouble :) I'm a hugger and a good one at that. Since i'm very social I speak to strangers and make conversation everywhere.I give great shoulder rubs. I get along with everybody. I have many clients and friends that are guys. If you are the jealous insecure type, move on..Why am I unique?? Umm I have a ninja sword, I drive around with a huge rosé quartz in my car. I can carry a full conversation without words, just eye contact. I don't put energy on money like most people. I consider it bubbles. Way more fun! Music is a big part of my life. I like many types of music. I like all movies ill watch pretty much anything. If its scary though I'm a squeezer and a screamer. I cry in the chick flicks too I love every kind of food and culture. Love to travel. I love to cook. Havent had much time these days but I can cook just about anything from tamales, fried chicken, chicken parmesan with homemade marinara etc. Just looking to meet new people and experience life. Always up for adventure or just to chill. If you like what you see just message me! Please more than two words. I generally won't reply to "hi". I'm emotionally stable and available. I don't want to hear all about your terrible exes. If we all had amazing exes we wouldn't be on here... just saying... Some information is appreciated but not necessary. I am curvy. I do have some extra pounds. If you have a problem with that I could use a work out buddy. I'm confident with my body however. Not an issue for me. I embrace ALL of me! I have 4 kids. And if your still reading this they are great. And I'm not just saying that. 3 boys 17, 14, 10. My daughter is 11. If having babies is a must for you I'm not your girl. Closed that chapter of my life. I love fortune cookies. Just the fortune. I always pick the best ones! I don't sweat the small stuff. Nothing you say could shock me. Honestly.I've lost people very close to me. Had many life experiences I've grown from. I live each day to the fullest. I hold the ones I love close and I'm grateful for every day of life I'm gifted. Reiki is a huge part of my life. Its a japanese form of energy healing. I have experienced many miracles through reiki. I have the best stories and I love to share them. I also read angel cards. Disclaimers***Honestly im tired of having sex thrown at me or people asking for nude pics. I'm craving romance, friendship and nurturing first. I don't need someone to save me or take care of me. I am financially secure. I own a home and have it together. I work hard. Please don't ask me for money (yes that happens). I'm not looking for another dependent. No addicts please! Not interested in dating anyone I'm old enough to be their mom or daughter. I have lots of old and young friends. Just not romantic interests. Thanks. Sushi, drinks, hike, sunset watching. Or any adventure will do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Justine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello.......so I'm going to be going through some transition in a few areas of my life including my career. I am looking forward to forming new friendships and re-acquaint with old friends.The best way I can describe myself is that I am an "old soul" who loves culture and keeping it real. I have passion for many things in life and try to keep a healthy balance. I compete in running races and most recently have been into triathlons. I am by no means super competitive but I do enjoy staying physically active. I hope to meet someone who I can have great chemistry with and who is on a similar path in life as me...someone that I can learn from and grow with. I realize that at this age there are a ton of people that want to casually date (I guess that can be every age haha) but I am looking for a relationship.....to feel and be a "part" of their world as opposed to just being in their world, there's a big difference. Thanks for reading my profile.** if your profile pics are you posing shirtless..(even though it's great eye candy for me), your "only" pics are with sunglasses or I simply can't see what you look like, or list your desire as "dating but nothing serious"...I won't find any interest in reading your profile when you ***'s a waste of my time....so please don't bother :) Obviously the first meet would be something quick ...wherever.....doesn't really matter, we both could decide what works with our schedule/location. But for a first date......although that doesn't matter either, take the lead..surprise me...that means more.

  • Magdalena

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    We are all on here for the same reason ....to find a companion or even possibly love. These sites are full of dishonest people so if you post a picture that is from 10 years ago or are not honest about your profile what is the sense of being on here, once you meet the truth comes out and its wasted time. So please no married men or any in a relationship looking for a good time. I am too old for the games.Its funny how this site asks what "are you looking for". We are all on this site to find some sort of companionship -but every relationship needs to start with friendship because we don't have chemistry with every person we meet. With that said if you are looking to "hook up" move on. Im full of sassiness,energy and have a great sense of humor with a little sarcasm-you can't be serious about everything, life is hard enough without laughing and having a good time -when appropriate.One thing I am looking for is someone in shape....active and close in age.I love sports as well...live sporting events are heaven for me!I like to exerciseI love love love music - I can listen to almost anything but really twangy country and hard stuff but my mood dictates what I listen toI am financially stable and am extremely independent - with that said Im not looking for someone to take care of me nor am I looking to take care youI also am extremely pickie and if you find me shallow by saying that looks are important then so be it.....and maybe important isnt the correct terminology because everyone has different definitions of attractive....but when someone across the room catches your eye - that's a physical attraction which is human nature-it happens to EVERYONE. I believe everyones eyes can tell a story - we all come with "baggage" its just depends on how u have packed and zipped it ;-) Drama free is the only way to live! I am currenty job searching and house hunting. Lookin for fun in the sun :-)**If I don't respond it means I am not interested - no reason to be upset and keep *** We all have different tastes/attractions so please don't take offense to me having no interest.**Please don't take the above of being rude, I am probably one of the most honest and caring humans you will meet, but I know what I want and don't want -and when I keep getting repeated *** why I don't answer it becomes extremely frustrating. each first date should be unique

  • Meghan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have no idea what to say to you guys anymore... so enjoy profile edit number 3...lolIf you don't like my profile or can't read it with the humor in which it was intended then please don't *** tell me.Fair warning my hair is short again.**I do not chat on here so don't im me on here because i won't answer you.**Ideally i want to see someone ***to 2 times a week. Talk to them 1 to 2 times a week. Do activities, or just sit around and watch tv or talk, or have sex and not necessarily all of those things every time...lol. You have to start a relationship somewhere. I am not looking to meet someone and move in together tomorrow. I am also not looking to spend all my free time driving. So please either be willing to drive or be within 30 to 40 minutes of me.You have to have a brain and be able to hold up your end of the conversation.You also must not be jealous, insecure, and/or arrogant. If you don't understand that it is rude to just send someone a picture of your junk unasked then don't bother contacting me.Pictures of you with dead animals are not attractive to women. So unless you are trying to attract men or a taxidermist, you might want to think about posting you doing something else like standing there looking cute without a corpse in your hand.This profile is marked long term for a reason. I expect you to stick around..lol not hit it and run..I am short and curvy. I like to walk the beach, read, and hangout. Caring, passionate, easy going, intellectual, (I am more mental than physical), gemini with the duality to go with it. I am friendly, open, way too honest, blunt, emotional but tempered with logic and restraint most of the time...lol. Most people say i am too real. How can you be too real? You are what you are.Sorry to disappoint any of you all but 1. I am fully dressed in all my photos except the one that shows my tattoos. 2. It is not original to ask what is under the blanket. 3. I am not on here for your viewing pleasure so please do not ask me for more photos. There are other websites for that so go find one...lol (edit- I have three tattoos but i have removed some photos due to showing any skin on here is like throwing chum in shark infested waters)Public service announcement: If you don't understand the risks you are taking by having physical contact with random people, then just pass me by. Seriously people it isn't my job to educate you. At our age you should know...lolCustomer service help:1. When you upload your photos there is a little square box that you can move around to frame in what your thumbnail is going to look like when it comes up. So if you don't put the little square box on your face where ever you leave the little square box is what will come up any time your photo is not looked at full size. Lots of background, elbows and such showing up in your thumbnails people...lol2. You can upload photos here and mark them so they stay private (actually it is unmark the box that says public) and not part of your profile. That way when some one asks you to attach one to your *** but not show the rest of the world what you look like. You can see what i look like. if you can't be bothered to show me what you look like then I can't be bothered to talk to you. seriously it isn't that hard and if you insist on making it hard then you should probably go find another forum to meet people in beside computer dating.3. Every word you misspell will have red dotted lines under it..All you have to do is right click on the misspelled word and the computer will give you suggestions on how to spell it correctly then you just click on the one you want and it will fix the spelling in your *** like coffee for a first date or something short and simple. You get a good idea of what the person is like. Second date i like dinner and a movie or some other event.

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