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Freda, 41

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About Me

I'm a feisty red head looking for an intelligent, young at heart guy. I don't like most guys, but... I am not interested in most guys and perhaps that is what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. About myself - restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adriana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love to laugh, I'm sarcastic, very positive person, I'm loving. My daughter is my world, she's the reason I breathe. I'm a disabled single mom. I have blood clots in both legs and stomach. I'm lucky to have my legs and my life. I can do most things, just need to rest. I look "normal" It seems very hard for me to put myself out there, I was 17 and with the same guy until we separated. I'm ready to move on, I don't want a fwb. I am looking for it all!!! Best friend, respect, soneone to truly enjoy me as I will him. I want pampered, to an extent. As I will satisfy my man in every way. I'm tired of this site, I'm tired of texting, but want to take it rather slow. Although I tell guys don't take women out for dinner and drinks for a first date because there are alot of serial daters and thats all they want. But for me, make an exception, please :) I don't want a drunk, I wouldn't be on here if I did. I could go to a bar for that. I truly believe live and let live. I don't want to tell a man what to do, and I for sure don't want a man telling me what to do. I'm an honest faithful women,i want to enjoy our time together. I want my best friend, soulmate to make laugh with, to make me feel safe, to enjoy each other. I want someone to go shopping with to pick out our matching rockers for our porch, for when we grow old together :) I don't want pics of anyones junk, so if you get my number, don't abuse it!! I will add to this later :) I'm looking for a type of pittbull personality in a man. Someone who is very loving passionate, loyal, knows how to treat women with respect but also can protect me if and when needed. Need to feel safe. I was with 1 man since I was 17, until 3 yrs ago, it's over, never again over. I may look a certain way especially when I go out, but I always go home alone or sleep in the car with my very best friend Melinda. I'm Not a cheater, I have no time for games. I am almost divorced, so any questions please ask, don't hold back, cause I can tell. I just don't want to spend days talking to someone and then bam, some little detail and that's it.I'm looking for everything. everyone has a story, if you want to know mine just ask First date maybe dinner and or drinks, maybe a walk I'm perfectly fine with a sweet tea and conversation at Mickey D's. Just an FYI guys, if all the girls you take on a date seem scared, its you!! NEVER TOUCH A WOMAN ON A FIRST DATE!!SHE WILL LET YOU KNOW ONE WAY OR ANOTHER IF SHE WANTS TO BE KISSED OR TOUCHED!!!! I'M TRYING TO GIVE YOU ALL THE BENEFIT OF DOUBT. I REALLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP, THIS IS TOO SCAREY :(

  • Patrica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Okay let me start by saying....please do not message me if you are still married or if you are not interested in a relationship. If you are looking for dating and nothing serious then best of luck but I want more. Not interested in "who knows I might change my mind", I only want to meet a guy who knows what he wants. I am a widow and had a loving successful marriage for 12 yrs, I have been on my own since ***. My standards and expectations are very high, and I do have a tendencies to compare men to my late husband. I know that saying that will scare quite a few of you away but I know what I want and dont want. I really do love my job and give 100% to it, I am a workaholic (looking for a reason not to be). I travel around PA a lot but no complaints, I've made great friends. I do miss flirting and having fun with that one special guy, please don't misunderstand, I don't participant in casual sex. Its important that the chemistry is there so that a romantic relationship can unfold or who knows, catch us off guard. I am not looking for any more "guy" friends, I have lots of those. I have a bit of a devilish side and the smile of an angel so I promise we will have lots of innocent fun. I know I am getting long winded here but its important to say. If you have children I welcome the opportunity to eventually meet them. I say eventually because they are your pride and joy and need your protection. Children should not have to be exposed to or endure our adult choices. I stayed single for a long time to raise my kids, now its my turn to enjoy a good man in my life. I am a lady with girlish behaviour and a tomboy twist. Hoping you have a dry sense of humour, a natural born leader, an intellectual, social, easy going, and loving, a guy who doesn't sweat the small stuff and can laugh at yourself and me. You're compassionate, spontaneous, and playful, you're a protector of your girl but not controlling. You will appreciate that I am patient and loyal. I am looking to build friendship and trust, honesty and respect - it all goes hand in hand. What I am looking for: • Smart – school smart or street wise – as long as you can participate fully in a conversation (willingly not to appease)• Successful – someone who likes what they are doing and does it well (and proud of it).• Considerate – this includes kind and sweet….your family and friends would say you are a “great guy” for all the right reasons.• Loyal – knows how to be with one person (and isn’t keeping one eye out for something better)• Positive and fun – someone who has a good outlook on life and who knows how to laugh at himself and enjoys the little things (not looking for the class clown or a head cheerleader)• Attractive - I like a man who is "clean shaven", sexy (in his own way) preferably taller than me (I am just shy of 5'8) and enjoys being very active (which means be in shape- and round is not a shape) • Loving – ask me if you are not sure. I hope you enjoyed my sharing and have a great day.Please have a photo if you want a response. Please have photos that show how good looking you are, show your fantastic smile. And I don't go out with married men (separated is still married - sorry guys) Let's see if you are really reading this profile....I WILL NOT check your profile if you send an *** "WANT TO MEET YOU" option so please dont!!!! I only delete them.“That which is loved is always beautiful.” That sentence perfectly sums up true love, beauty and the transformational power of truth, trust and love. “You’ll Learn To Love Her. Warts And All.” ....p.s. I dont have much patience left for online games, so if you dont want to get to know me, not to worries I can handle it. I have learned to move on and getting better at it unfortunately. lets plan it together....Best first date ever.....we sat in a coffee shop with our iPads and search great songs...the hours went by quickly then we realized it was 1 am....we shared almost every part of our lives as they associated with different songs we found...I've never opened up like that so quickly with someone I met online. We are still good friends to this day. second favourite quote..."I dont need a man, I need a champion".....is that you?

  • Vicky

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to keep busy. I belong to a boxing gym and box/kickbox 5 days a week during my lunch hour. I like boating, motorcycles and road trips to hidden joints. I spend time hiking in parks, making a mess in my kitchen and attempting to learn new things - like woodworking. Some attempts workout better than others! I come from a large family and I think I'm hilarious.My goal here is to find my best friend - someone to share interests with, someone to call when you've had a great day or a bad one, someone to celebrate their victories as if they were my own, someone to have a great physical connection to. I like funny, outgoing people who can laugh at themselves.I admit I am a mix of things - I can sit in a fancy restaurant or a dive bar and blend in. I grew up on a fishing resort so I can fillet a fish faster than most people I know (sexy right) but I don't handle spiders very well. I can be very quiet and introspective at times - sitting on the deck watching animals in the woods. Get me out in public and I'll blab to complete strangers. I like to take care of myself, dress nice and look pretty but I'm not one to spend hours on myself - I'll run out the door in jeans, a tee shirt and a baseball cap. I'm open, honest and would do anything for someone I cared about. For a first date I'd say drinks or coffee. You know right away if there is chemistry and would like to spend more time with the person. You can always extend the date!

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