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Gertrude, 51

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I like; art, hiking, yoga, blasting music and dancing while I clean house, or just going dancing, bike rides, making my kids listen to oldies radio in the car, getting my grandniece to laugh, getting anyone to laugh when they feel like crying, reading a good book on a stormy afternoon or taking a walk in the rain, learning new things, wind, lilacs, warm weather and dark chocolate. I am an artist, glass is my favorite medium. My family is a very high priority in my life, people matter, material things don't. I have many pets (dogs, cats, birds...) We would be a bad match if you are very allergic. I'm liberal minded. I have been told that I overthink everything, but I think that can be a good thing, however the word over does have a negative connotation, or am I just overthinking it. "" I really enjoy philosophical type discussions. I could debate for hours and don't even get me started on string theory. When I'm driving and there is a turtle on the road, I stop and move it off of the road. If you think this is a stupid thing to do, then we probably would not be a good match. I am a bit unconventional. OK, maybe more than a "bit". It's just that I don't see the logic in doing things according to a set of rules that exist solely for the sake of having rules. There are some rules that I do believe in, like; live a centered and balanced life, don't take yourself too seriously, all life has value, create positive energy, let empathy be your first response, choose happiness, life is an adventure,.... You get the idea Something casual, coffee, tea, someplace quiet so we could talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cynthia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for a Romantic Drama free relationship. I want to find the Love of my life. A serious, committed relationship. I want this relationship to last till the Good Lord takes me home. I am a disabled American Veteran (Marines). I no longer work so I have all the time in the world to spoil the right one. I love Dogs and have two of my own. I am not looking for a sugar Daddy. My trailer is paid for and I pay my own bills. I can dress up in a beautiful gown or dress down to fishing gear. I do have an education so I can hold my own in conservations. I would like to find a tall man, with no more than a few extra pounds. I have lost 28 pounds recently and will be loseing quite a bit more soon. You guys must remember that a big chested woman needs a few pounds on her to hold it all up. Lol. If you would like to know more, just ask.If your not serious about getting to know me. Then please leave me alone. For those of you who don't know what a Leatherneck is, it's a Marine. My pictures are very recent. What you see is what you get. I ask the same out of you. Meet somewhere we can talk and get something to drink. If the chemistry is there, then we can decide together what we want to do next.

  • Tameka

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Im a very outgoing person some would say Im loud and a bit hyper. Others have told me Im to deep I guess I am a very emotional person and the little things mean alot to me, I have feelings and I like to show them and feel them and if I want to speak them I do that to, I dont think that is wrong, I think if you feel something no matter what it is you should tell that person, you never know when it will be to late, so why not say it.Another told me I was reserved still trying to figure that one out. I love to laugh so if you can make me laugh and keep me laughing you have made some points. I love conversation about anything doesnt matter what I just love to chat but more so I love to listen. I enjoy people, especially the ones I can make smile, I love to see others smile and if I had a part in making that smile that makes me smile.Im a very honest, faithful, caring person, I care about how your heart feels, I just want everyone to be happy. I dont know a stranger. I love trying new things. Kayaking was new and it was work but fun. Finally got my nerve up to go on the boat and didnt get sick so Im good to go cuz I love the beach especially the private ones, so relaxing. I also love to bowl, swim, play volleyball, putt putt golf, ride motorcycles, play darts, cards, good scrabble game, love to listen to country or oldies music. Take walks. Love to workout. Love to get up early and have a cup of coffee with someone special with some great conversation.There is one thing Im not which is spontaneous, Im a detailed person and most definately like to have plans, not the spur of the moment gal, meaning I cant just pack up and go whenever.I am a God fearing woman and I dont do wild and crazy things never know who is watching, and I can promise you, you will not be able to talk me into anything, you will not win, so its best to be on your best behavior at all times, God is #1 in my life, I attend church on a regular basis and if there is a function going on at my church I will be there and I do attend other churches when I know of a function they are having, especially if it is a gospel sing. I have one son he is 24 he was a US Marine, now in college, thank God for that. He deployed to Iraq twice, he is my pride and joy and will always be #1 in my life right after God. He was a miracle from God given to me 24 years ago he is my gift from God. I was given the blessing of being a mother. Thank you God for that chance.Im looking to share my life with a man that knows how to treat a lady and knows how a lady deserves to be treated, I dont want to even associate with anyone that knows they are a player, I think that is down right WRONG, sorry but I dont think a woman is here to be treated as an item of pleasure and then tossed away like a bag of trash. I want a partner I can trust and know in my heart we are only for each other and no one can ever enter our world and destroy it. I want to make some cherishible dreams to have some wonderful memories, wonderful things to remember from time to time that keep that endless smile appearing on our faces. I want a man that is confident in himself, and very proud of whatever it is he does in life, I want him to let me be a part of helping him reach his goals and make his dreams a reality. A man that knows how to listen when a woman has something to say, let her opinions matter and mean something, let her thoughts and ideas mean something *** just brushed off in a laugh. I want a man that has a sensitive side and knows how to show tears, and especially knows that tears are not a sign of weakness. I love hugs from some strong arms it makes a woman feel so secure wrapped up in his strong arms. Little sweet kisses are just awesome, like I said before the little things mean alot to me, I love feeling that school girl giggly feeling, I think that is just great. I know in my heart the man Im looking for is out there and I know in my heart he is close by and my heart tells me my eyes have already seen him in my vision of dreams, now Im waiting for the day God leads me to meet him face to face so we can make all our God given visions a reality. I know in my heart God is working hard putting all the final details in place, he needs to complete the picture, and present to us something only we know HE can create, which is TRUE LOVE and a life of happiness. GOD IS AWESOME. I HOPE YOU WILL ALLOW HIM INTO YOUR HEART. I PROMISE IT WONT BE A MISTAKE. Also guys something that I feel is also important to us ladies, we know you do have a heart so don't try to be so hard all the time, its not wrong to let us know you appreciate the things we do for you, lets us know in someway you are satisfied, you cant have it all your way there has to be some compromise, and if you hurt our feelings and we tell you so, put your pride aside and find these words to say, "Im Sorry". It doesnt make you weak to say those words, I think the ladies would agree with me. You MUST love animals even ones in the house. My dog is my companion, she depends on me, I took on the reponsibility and no way will I put her feelings aside or ***, if I go she goes. She is crate trained and while at work she is in it, and most nights, sometimes she sleeps beside me. ***update I like someone that knows how to think in a positive way. Get rid of all those negative thoughts. Have some faith in someone and trust someone, dont give up before it ever starts, friendship takes time, there is alot to learn of each other you cant just jump right in after you have had a phone conversation and say hey lets make a committment to one another even thought we havent met, come on what is up with that junk. Lets make plans to meet and share some smiles and laughter with one another several times and then figure out if we want to try a relationship. The exiciting part is learning about each other so lets share some excitment together. When our eyes meet for the first time we will know if we click or not. There is alot of fun stuff two people can do to have fun, and I dont mean jumping in the sack either. Enjoy life and take it one day at a time. If God wants us to be together I promise he will make sure it happens. We need to "Be Still" and wait for our time. Meet in public, maybe a coffee shop, to sit a bit and talk and then maybe go bowling or play putt putt, some form of activity so we are just not sitting, hard to see a person true self when you just sit and try to find something to chat about, that is very hard the first time meeting, I think there needs to be an activity to have some fun, let your true self shine.

  • Wilma

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    My friends describe me as "outgoing and fun" I enjoy being outdoors...doing just about anything. My favorite thing is riding but I also enjoy the lake, golf, bowling, volleyball, swimming and just hanging out at home with friends. I also enjoy competing in cowboy mounted shooting and occasionally sorting.I am not looking for someone who has the EXACT same interests as me. What I am looking for is someone who has the same core values as me....someone not afraid to try new things and someone who can have fun no matter what we are doing. Something casual...

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