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Bernadine, 52

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About Me

Here's what I'm looking for: You are spontaneous, not set in your ways, capable of eating Poutine for breakfast once a year, just to say we did. Will be open to being fed Häagen-Dazs in bed, just to say we did.You would not be upset when I give my last $20 to a homeless person, you are capable of jumping into a lake with me in your clothes after a hard day at work. Money is a means to an end but not the reason for living for you.You NEVER make it home with a hot baguette in your car untouched. You dislike routine in your life, but you're well grounded.I'm a career woman who is passionate about my career and my 3 adult sons. Not a stereotype, I'm friends with my ex and have a peaceful, completely drama-free life. Love music, love people.Can see the best in anyone, but know what I want and can't settle for second best.Addicted to: Children, and red wine. :) In that order thankfully.This was recently edited: No longer a "Real Smoker". My adult son gave me the gift of an electronic cigarette - it's amazing. Has nicotine but will cut down quantity as I go. Life changer! :)Bad habit that I had picked up 8 years ago, very silly of me.Passionately dislike hurting anyone, but we need to have chemistry.I can't do pretty, but I'm kick-ass cute.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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