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Benita, 54

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About Me

I like the outdoors,hiking,waterfalls,bowling,playing cards, open to watching most sports and participating in a few. I enjoy cooking, watching t.v., dancing, social drinking,making people happy, just hanging out, road trips,holding hands, most anything. I am a very accepting person, I appreciate nature and learning new things. I enjoy country music,rock,blues,just about anything but rap. I accept people for who they are, not their income. I am spontaneous and playful, I am a positive person.I am raising my 12 year old grandson and NOT looking for help in any way, I take great care of him on my own, I have my own income,NOT looking for a 1 night stand or to be "friends" with benefits.Not looking for Mr.Perfect....just perfect for me :) I think the 1st date should be informal and comfortable, a place to talk and get to know each other, its not just about the money spent on the date, but getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeanine

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am your basic girl next door looking for a "cyber connection" the same as you. I am not into casually dating. If I don't answer your ***, please don't take offense. It isn't because I don't want to, it is because when I do and say "thanks but I do not think we are a match", I've gotten mean *** My preferences for my "future cyber connection":1 Still has a career or if retired, very active in something.2 Loves his family and is close to them. 7 Close to my age a little younger or older is fine. I feel I look and act young so looking for similar.8 Doesn't have small children. Sorry, been there done that. As for me, I'm a CFO/CPA for a retail diamond company by day and a CPA by night. I keep busy, but for the right "connection", I find plenty of time for us.I have traveled the world and still love to travel, but I keep it close to home these days due to all the unrest in the world of flying. (Unless you talk me into somewhere...lol)I am not into *** or talking on the phone alot. I like to meet and see if the "chemistry" is there sooner than later. Drinks somewhere quiet (with appetizer because I can't drink w/o having something on my stomach).I do not drink coffee.

  • Deirdre

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi! I'm easygoing, rarely in a bad mood, down to earth, friendly and fun. I can be a little crazy and playful but I can be romantic and sentimental too. I want a life filled with pleasure and joy, laughter and love. I look sexy in jeans and a t-shirt or "all dolled up" as my mother would say. You can feel safe to bring me home to your mother ( as long as you don't live there too!) My friends describe me as having a light in my eyes, smiling all the time, thoughtful, respectful and loyal. I am passionate, affectionate and feminine with no baggage and no drama! In my lifetime I have learned many lessons such as Don't put a nice Shiraz in checked baggage. You can trade sunglasses and c. Don't say " All In" Funny how we get on this site with the goal being to get off it! I want us both to feel like the luckiest person in the world. Life is so much more healthier, richer and more gratifying when two are together and passionately in love I think it's important to have friends ( yours, mine and ours) but you will be my best friend. I make a great sidekick and ally for this crazy but wonderful world. The internet is a good place for an introduction but it can't replace a few minutes of conversation. I would much prefer to talk on the phone and then meet person to person. Thanks for taking the time to read all this. If you made it this far I'd like to meet you for that alone! Good Luck! Be kind, Lots of love. We decide together!

  • Blanche

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    The best things are the simple things, don't you think? Good friends, engrossing conversation with bright people, live music, campfires, good meals, flowers blooming: the list is endless, really. Your list may differ, but think about it. Doesn't it all boil down to attitude? I've heard as much as 95% of our life can be attributed to our attitude. And I agree. If you choose to look at the positive side you are someone I'd love to meet. My life is good; full of fun and interests and friends I love and respect. You may infer something's missing from my good life, I'm not in a panic about it, but let's see what happens. You? A new friend? Could be one of those simple "best" things. However, let's be clear: grey hair, receding hair, no hair? I don't care. A good physique? I care. Call me superficial (but no more so than any man); I work to remain fit and slim. I'd appreciate the same effort from you. Please be aware I'm tall. And I adore high heels. That usually puts me at, oh, 6' in height.-existent I'll be romantically interested in someone short.Thanks for stopping by, and in the interest of being straight-forward, some of my photos date back to July ***. Not much has changed.... Let's not expect too much. Casual is good. A game of pool, a beer or glass of wine, conversation? Weather permitting, a walk around the reservoir?

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