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Benita, 54

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About Me

I like the outdoors,hiking,waterfalls,bowling,playing cards, open to watching most sports and participating in a few. I enjoy cooking, watching t.v., dancing, social drinking,making people happy, just hanging out, road trips,holding hands, most anything. I am a very accepting person, I appreciate nature and learning new things. I enjoy country music,rock,blues,just about anything but rap. I accept people for who they are, not their income. I am spontaneous and playful, I am a positive person.I am raising my 12 year old grandson and NOT looking for help in any way, I take great care of him on my own, I have my own income,NOT looking for a 1 night stand or to be "friends" with benefits.Not looking for Mr.Perfect....just perfect for me :) I think the 1st date should be informal and comfortable, a place to talk and get to know each other, its not just about the money spent on the date, but getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Candy

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    This is a mystery, how does one express the multi-faceted three dimensional in a two dimensional form? And yet, here we are!I am happy because I choose to be! Life is an adventure, enjoy the ride! I am complex not complicated. I need, I am not needy. I am self aware, adaptable, easy going, tolerant and loving; that doesn't make me a door mat. Passion does not equal drama, I am looking to create a life of passion. Everyday is an opportunity to create something new. It doesn't matter where I go, it matters who I am with. Take me to the symphony one night and a dive bar the next, it's all good. I have the personality of a cat and the soul of a dog. If you understand animals that will make sense.I am here to meet my best friend. I am here to find my life partner. Someone I can have fun with doing absolutely nothing. Someone to climb mountains and explore the world with, who can also lay on the couch and watch a movie. It doesn't matter what you have, I want to know who you are and how you treat the people in your life. You prefer talking about ideas and action more than people and things. I want to know who you are, not what you do. I want to know if you know who you are. If your profile is incomplete, I can only assume you don't. I need a man of integrity who knows the value of being his word. "The only way you know you love yourself and others is by the commitments you are willing to make and keep", Dr. I am whole and complete, I do not need someone to complete me. I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, and dependable. If a friend in need calls at 4am, I am there. I am the friend who will help you move, lol. I am looking for a mate that has those same kind of friendships in his life. I am silly and playful, but please don't doubt that I can be serious at times as well. I enjoy a good banter. I have conviction with out the need to be right. I need to feel attracted, but that doesn't mean that magazine cover looks are required. Beauty is in the "heart" of this beholder. I am passionate about life and love. I am constantly growing and evolving, I want someone to grow and evolve with. Everyday is an opportunity to change for the better. I have a massive capacity to love. Relationships may be work, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun!!My pictures are current, I weigh ***lbs, and I am really 51........ 'cause why would I lie about that!!! lol.I appreciate all those who are interested, but honestly, I will only respond to those who are geographically desirable and have photos posted. If you do not have a clear full face photo posted I will not respond. There is only one real way to know if there is a connection and that is to meet. Love is always thirstyand looking for a thirsty lover.Love and lover follow each otherlike day and night.- Rumi --Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Depends.........second date, that is another story!

  • Lorrie

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am an attractive woman with a love for the quieter things in life. I enjoy road trips, traveling (traveled the world but would now like a partner to share that with); I love to go on road trips and explore back side towns. I like the water, the snow (although I no longer ski), and having a lovely drink and appie by the water. I've had a very interesting life, having written a book, traveled the world, and enjoyed a wonderful career. I'm not rich but I can take care of myself financially and have no debts. I work my own hours and in my spare time I love to nest at home;*sob*). I am afraid of large dogs...and allergic to fur. My girl is a Malitpoo and has hair.I do love to relax by watching movies and television. I love to go out with my girlfriends and sing along at Karaoke (can't sing, just love to do it anyway). I also enjoy playing cards and some boardgames. My music preference is oldies, and oldie country. I also love Cuban music and the blues. Comedy clubs are the best place to enjoy an evening! I have a very small family but enough friends to keep me happy. I am not desperate to find Mr. Right...but would love to find a partner who shares some of my interests (although I sure don't need a duplicate me!). I've been told I am quirky (and I have my quirks!), have a great sense of humor, and am passionate about some social issues.I will close by saying that I hope to meet an honest, financially secure person, who carries no baggage from previous relationships. I am a believer in moving forward and it would be so nice to do so with someone who shares similar values.Thanks for reading my profile! I'm looking forward too hearing from you! Don't be shy! Meet for drinks or coffee and take it from there!

  • Dorothy

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    There's plenty that one person could say here about what their about and what they expect from the one they would like to meet or spend the rest of their life with. But all the true emotions and characteristics of both people come out once the relationship has begun. But the one main thing for me would be to find that one person to be compatible with. Someone that can share the same beliefs of a true relationship with me and enjoy what we can share with an open mind and leave the game playing behind. I want to share with you words from a man that knows exactly what I'm talking about when it comes to a relationship.These are some of his words, and what I'm trying to say is what I desire in a man. First I write these words as I have learned that I must allow myself to be vulnerable to find her, and that she can touch my heart. I wait and pursue her that she is missing from my soul. To touch and be touched is the essence of my being. I desire much from myself and my lady. I can cook everything and have that candle lit dinner waiting. I seek that which is precious,delightful and simple.The simplicity is that no matter what you do together it feels good.It feels good whether taking small/long trips. Just being, or deep passion in your arms, and love making. Being your own person. Having a sweet tender side that shows her man, which allows me to open up more. She is mature and I find her to be the most delicious woman because she has my back and heart. We flirt with each other and we love with great passion. We are tender with each other and support/lift each other up. She is mine and I am hers to endure this life together. I am a gentleman, a man’s man-that is a man who knows the worth of a woman, how she desires and deserves to be treated; A man, who knows what he wants, desires and pursues it,and her with a passion. One who is willing to be open and honest in every area of life. I am looking for a female to invest the effort and time for us to be. Depending on the season we would plan accordingly. Spring/Summer time could be a good time for a walk in the park or along the lakefront with a packed lunch. Or dine out with a movie afterwards.Autum time would be nice to walk through the park and enjoy the multicolors of the trees. Enjoying some good conversation. Winter time could be a nice dinner in and maybe be lucky to have a fireplace to snuggle up to.

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