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Melva, 54

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About Me

I enjoy eating out, catching a live performance, watching the sun rise and set, (bonus if it's on the same day), volunteer work, cooking (more enjoyable with two sets of hands), and traveling! I think of myself as spontaneous, and am willing to try new adventures, at least, I promise I'll consider it! :) I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. I dream in color and am a good blend of traditional and modern values. I am a firm believer in God and have an optimistic attitude.I recently returned to college to complete my degree ....more for personal satisfaction than professional. It is important to me to be able to carry on a conversation whether the subject is serious or silly. Knowing enough about life so you always have something to say is a definite bonus.I am looking for an emotional man who is responsible, open-minded, has a love of art, and a good sense of humor. A smile goes a long way - make someone happy today! Please show a recent photo. We all wish we looked and felt the way we did 10 years ago. The truth is, you and I both have aged - hopefully, gracefully, lol! My idea of a nice first date would be coffee, lunch, or on a warm summer evening enjoying frozen yogurt and perhaps a walk along the river.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I love music , dancing, outdoor concerts, going for walks, movies, wining and dining. I look forward to meeting someone who would like to share this with me. I enjoy being with my friends and family, and I appreciate quiet time too.

  • Chelsea

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I enjoy hanging out at the beach or the lake, most outdoor activities, travel, watching movies, exercising, sitting around the fire pit on cool nights, listening to live music, reading, enjoy jet skiing, boating, classic cars, & I even enjoy watching some NFL games... and I like to do a bunch of other stuff, too : )I already have an awesome life- great job, wonderful son, and a nice home... just looking for a great guy to get to know & hopefully share the rest of my life with! If you would like to know more, let me know... My ideal first date would be great conversation and laughter over a light dinner, & then maybe some slow dancing ; )

  • Beatriz

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I work to live in the moment and appreciate every day. I am a true optimist. I have a great sense of humour and I am generally easy going. I am also passionate about many things— now there's a subject for conversation! I practice Vipassana meditation, and strive to live my life fully SInce my degree, training and much of my life has revolved around music, it forms a big part of who I am. One of the passions in my life. Not one you need to share necessarily, appreciate perhaps, participate in even better...I love listening to jazz, blues, folk, and classical music of many kinds from chamber ensembles to gregorian chant –don't groan– only in the morning, or maybe late at night– I can use headphones. I also like silence. I usually prefer a book to a movie but I can be convinced to watch if I am in the mood. I do enjoy quirky–– movies, documentaries,and english comedies. I'm not much of a tv watcher either except for english murder mysteries.I enjoy discussing a lot of subjects– an intellectual but not a snob. Who doesn't enjoy travel? Exploring new places together, seeing unique sites, animals, cultures, architecture, history, museums, plays, music. Going off the beaten path. Designing our own bike tour or just taking off? (I tend to be a spontaneous person which probably means I benefit from someone with his feet pretty solidly on the ground??). Going on a paddling adventure out my back door. Near or far, exploring new places and things together keeps us young and vital! After working as an educator within the school system for many years I am now taking time out to write a book – yes, it's a murder mystery (of course), although a sci-fi/fantasy was my second choice. I am generous and loving, very loyal and honest, creative, courageous but not reckless. I enjoy exploring new ideas and pursuing a variety of different interests which makes me interesting and independent. I hope you are too. I love time spent together sharing things we both enjoy and enjoying alone time, although having you nearby doing your own thing but still on my radar is rather nice. If you are optimistic (or at least a hopeful pessimist ), confident without being arrogant, compassionate and caring, smart and curious, and have a sense of humour, I would love to meet you. I am easy about the chemistry thing – it either is, may be, or won't be. No harm done. Polite and we move on. OKay with you? Cheers Something active sometimes makes it easier but a thermos of tea and a favourite spot or the local Bistro for a chat works well too. I'm open to suggestions.

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