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Elena, 52

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About Me

I am looking for a kind, intelligent person to build a relationship with. I would like someone that I can have a good conversation with, and enjoy doing things together. I grew up in a very large family that loves to dance. It does not matter what type of music. I am also looking for is someone who is confident with himself, but not controlling of others. I have been financially and emotionally independent for too long for a controlling type of relationship (no I am not basing this on past experience with other relationships; I just know what I like). I want someone as an equal who I can have an intelligent conversation with.Another good quality is a sense of humor. My favorite saying is you have to be able to laugh at life, because you know it’s laughing at you. Humor has many good qualities in itself. It can make getting through a tough day easier.My dream guy? First you would have to understand what I had growing up. My parents are soul mates. Some people may think this is silly or not real, but I have watched them over the years and know that it is true. We were working with my Mom at my parents place planning their 60th wedding anniversary. My father walked through the room and my Mom looked at me and said that she still gets butterflies in her stomach when my Dad walks through the room. My Dad will walk through on his way out the door, stop by Mom, touch her check and give her a gentle kiss. They have always been a loving couple, but most of all they are each other’s best friend. They understand that they each have their own flaws, but do not try to change each other, but are willing to understand that it is part of their makeup. So yes I am a romantic. I want someone who will bring the butterflies. I want the gentle touch and kiss for no reason. I want a friend who will listen and not judge. I want someone who has made life’s mistakes, but has learned from them, and does not dwell on them. Too many dwell on the past…the past is a springboard not a hammock. I enjoy going out and being active with the person I am seeing, it can be good to see how they react to different situations, but I also don’t need the outside stimuli. I really just like spending time alone together, snuggled up before a fire talking and getting to know the person. Another thing I need in a relationship is someone who can understand I have children. They are older and are very independent, but there are times when they are around and we very much enjoy each other’s company. Adding to the family with my parents have 49 grandchildren and 23 and counting great grandchildren). We all love to laugh, dance and enjoy being together. We all support each other no matter what we may be going through. Meet for a cup of coffee or a drink and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Colette

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I\'m self-confident and independent. I enjoy snuggling with my kids, eating ice cream and drinking red wine. I’d like to find an intelligent and fun person. Please be ready to move forward in your life.

  • Cassie

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Live, laugh and love!!! what more is there!!!! i enjoy all life has to offer!!! the simple things in life are huge!!! a walk, bike ride, conversation over a cup of coffee or a good glass of wine!!!!! i truely enjoy the outdoors.....i like sports and family!!! my family is a huge part of my life!!!! Life is an adventure....and you only have one!!!! there is no room for negativity..because negativity is wasted energy!!!!!I I also believe that a connection should be mutually felt!!!! If the chemistry and connection is there...let it grow and see where it goes!!! i am a very happy person and independent!! I enjoy being around people..so my partner would need feel secure and be trusting!!!! A relationship never stops growing....it's about sharing,communication and so much more. i am somewhat of a romantic....love the simple sweet gestures..... I enjoy gardening, working outside around my home, I love to cook....I love to just hang out and watch a movie, a football game in the comfort of home....I also enjoy going to for dinner or listening to music at those small town festivals!!! I have 3 wonderful children...the youngest is 15....(WOW)..they are all busy in making and doing in life what they are looking for!! it is giving me time to get back to me!!!! and enjoy time with someone that enjoys the same things as I do!!! Thanks for taking the time to read about me....;) There's is so much more...if something catches your eye or you want to learn more about me...drop me a line or two... happy thoughts... let's keep it simple and fun!!!! Someplace for coffee or a drink. A walk in a park, a campfire.....or whatever we both decide. i think it's important to talk and share in a quiet relaxed setting!!! if a connection or a positive feeling is mutually felt!!!!!! Then i am sure we would get together again....:) :) :)

  • Michele

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm a very simple person. I now work, sleep, eat. I need to change that. I would rather get a 6 pack of Coronas and sit by a fire pit or tv than sit in a bar. Looking for someone who is honesty and not looking for just a one night stand. That's not what I'm about. I have a very big heart and what to share that with someone. I miss the feeling of someone's special phone call, touch, or just sitting around doing nothing. Some where for coffee or drink just to meet.

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