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Elena, 52

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About Me

I am looking for a kind, intelligent person to build a relationship with. I would like someone that I can have a good conversation with, and enjoy doing things together. I grew up in a very large family that loves to dance. It does not matter what type of music. I am also looking for is someone who is confident with himself, but not controlling of others. I have been financially and emotionally independent for too long for a controlling type of relationship (no I am not basing this on past experience with other relationships; I just know what I like). I want someone as an equal who I can have an intelligent conversation with.Another good quality is a sense of humor. My favorite saying is you have to be able to laugh at life, because you know it’s laughing at you. Humor has many good qualities in itself. It can make getting through a tough day easier.My dream guy? First you would have to understand what I had growing up. My parents are soul mates. Some people may think this is silly or not real, but I have watched them over the years and know that it is true. We were working with my Mom at my parents place planning their 60th wedding anniversary. My father walked through the room and my Mom looked at me and said that she still gets butterflies in her stomach when my Dad walks through the room. My Dad will walk through on his way out the door, stop by Mom, touch her check and give her a gentle kiss. They have always been a loving couple, but most of all they are each other’s best friend. They understand that they each have their own flaws, but do not try to change each other, but are willing to understand that it is part of their makeup. So yes I am a romantic. I want someone who will bring the butterflies. I want the gentle touch and kiss for no reason. I want a friend who will listen and not judge. I want someone who has made life’s mistakes, but has learned from them, and does not dwell on them. Too many dwell on the past…the past is a springboard not a hammock. I enjoy going out and being active with the person I am seeing, it can be good to see how they react to different situations, but I also don’t need the outside stimuli. I really just like spending time alone together, snuggled up before a fire talking and getting to know the person. Another thing I need in a relationship is someone who can understand I have children. They are older and are very independent, but there are times when they are around and we very much enjoy each other’s company. Adding to the family with my parents have 49 grandchildren and 23 and counting great grandchildren). We all love to laugh, dance and enjoy being together. We all support each other no matter what we may be going through. Meet for a cup of coffee or a drink and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    A little about me...How do you put who you are in a few short sentences?I like rock and roll music, old cars, pet dogs and the outdoors. I enjoy live concerts. I like to entertain and I think I have a pretty good sense of humor, dry wit. I have worked most of my life and I have learned there is a time to slow down and smell the roses so to speak. I want to travel and see the world. I believe in the golden rule, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. About the one I'm looking for...I am looking for someone who is secure, both mentally and financially. I guess I am looking for someone who is grown up enough to be responsible to themselves and family, but to still be in touch with the child inside themselves to have some fun. Life is a about learning, and if you are not learning you are not living. At our age we have all had some "stuff" happen in our life. I want someone who has dealt with their stuff and is ready to look for the best that is yet to come. I want to be able to look past all the superficial stuff . I really don't like head games, and I say it like it is, I would prefer someone that is s the same.I am not interested in a long distance relationship.Thanks taking the time to read my profile, good luck fishing.***\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***It would be nice to skip to the second date, coffee I guess.

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a simple person who enjoys the simplicity in life. I do have an adventurous side, but you will have to find that out on your own. I enjoy hiking, walking boating, bowling, comedy clubs, weekend travel trips, BBQ's with friends and families. Autumn and Halloween are the best time of year for me. Love the crispness in the air, the leaves changing colors, the spookiness and fun in Halloween. Bonfires, hayrides and smores. I am looking for a man who will make me laugh and will laugh with me. Someone who is honest and respectful. Will open that door for me and let me walk in first. Someone who will walk with me rather then ahead of me. Someone who is comfortable getting silly and serious as well as being comfortable in silence. First meetings are always awkward. Your choice weather it's coffee, lunch or somewhere mutually agreed upon. I appear to be quiet at first, but if the conversation and energy is there, then I am not so quiet.

  • Denise

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    i like all the usual stuff, i like to go out to nice places for meals, i like a social drink, i love weekends away, i love holidays, i like beach walks, i love music especially sixties and seventies, i enjoy going to concerts,shows, cinema, ect, and what makes me unique is i am a very honest and kind, i have a very kind and good nature x i would like our first date to be special, may be a romantic meal, and then a drink or two, in a nice hotel,and some nice conversation, and some craic,and go with the flow, and i would like us to decide together,and he would have to be, honest, kind, careing,respectful ,and some one that knows how to treat a woman well,i would like you to be the perfect gentleman, i am very down to earth, and very easy going, so a little t.l,c. would go a long way. xxxxxx

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