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Elena, 52

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About Me

I am looking for a kind, intelligent person to build a relationship with. I would like someone that I can have a good conversation with, and enjoy doing things together. I grew up in a very large family that loves to dance. It does not matter what type of music. I am also looking for is someone who is confident with himself, but not controlling of others. I have been financially and emotionally independent for too long for a controlling type of relationship (no I am not basing this on past experience with other relationships; I just know what I like). I want someone as an equal who I can have an intelligent conversation with.Another good quality is a sense of humor. My favorite saying is you have to be able to laugh at life, because you know it’s laughing at you. Humor has many good qualities in itself. It can make getting through a tough day easier.My dream guy? First you would have to understand what I had growing up. My parents are soul mates. Some people may think this is silly or not real, but I have watched them over the years and know that it is true. We were working with my Mom at my parents place planning their 60th wedding anniversary. My father walked through the room and my Mom looked at me and said that she still gets butterflies in her stomach when my Dad walks through the room. My Dad will walk through on his way out the door, stop by Mom, touch her check and give her a gentle kiss. They have always been a loving couple, but most of all they are each other’s best friend. They understand that they each have their own flaws, but do not try to change each other, but are willing to understand that it is part of their makeup. So yes I am a romantic. I want someone who will bring the butterflies. I want the gentle touch and kiss for no reason. I want a friend who will listen and not judge. I want someone who has made life’s mistakes, but has learned from them, and does not dwell on them. Too many dwell on the past…the past is a springboard not a hammock. I enjoy going out and being active with the person I am seeing, it can be good to see how they react to different situations, but I also don’t need the outside stimuli. I really just like spending time alone together, snuggled up before a fire talking and getting to know the person. Another thing I need in a relationship is someone who can understand I have children. They are older and are very independent, but there are times when they are around and we very much enjoy each other’s company. Adding to the family with my parents have 49 grandchildren and 23 and counting great grandchildren). We all love to laugh, dance and enjoy being together. We all support each other no matter what we may be going through. Meet for a cup of coffee or a drink and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am family oriented and love to spend time with kids and grandkids. I like to go out to movies and dinner. Can"t bowl but love to go out and have fun trying to bowl. I love some old school music. I go to church. I like to go out with friends for a couple drinks occasionally. I am a laid back kind of person love to have fun.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a good person and alot of fun to be around. I am honest to a fault. I like men who are real and honest. The less baggage & drama - the better. I would like a man who has class and style and I can feel proud to be with. Meaning, the ability to dress down without looking like a slob. If you are just interested in "hooking-up", there are plenty of fish out there for that.I want someone who is prepared for:Uncontrollable laughterWalks on the beachMy friendsRandom dancingWhistlingMy family - (OY!)My imaginationMy dreamsTears of sadnessTears of JoyMy catRandom textsSpontaneous momentsUseless arguementsDeep talksShallow talksand the acceptance of the real me.! I know my football pretty well - for a girl! I would like to meet someone who has that group of Bears fan friends and enjoys getting together for the games to party & hang out. I miss that. I would enjoy tailgating the games again too. I just love football - period. Almost no matter who is playing!Some of the things I enjoy the most are: Concerts, beach, of course - travel (who doesn't!) hanging with friends/family. Love antique & junk shops! Dining in or out - doesn't really matter to me. I would love to have someone in the kitchen alongside me with glass of wine or drink, while we share in preparing food for the soul! That is the best pastime of all! I am a member of the Art *** is one of my favorite places to go.I am a lover of art, architecture, interior design and gardening (well sort of gardening). I also like to travel in a motorhome, camp, bonfires, etc.I am a major Bears fan! My son-in-law gave me a Bears tailgating chair for my bday and now I need to find someone who has one also, so we can tailgate together! I love Aerosmith - but not much more classic rock tho. I am listening more to College Indy, RB & Country music than anything else right now. But I'm pretty versatile when it comes to music. LIVE music is always the best!I have a great career that I am often passionate about. I am also passionate about interior design/re-design. I sometimes paint & faux paint as a sideline for extra money and personal gratification. I find furniture & paint it & fix it up. I just discovered re-purposing glass as my newest obsession/hobby.I miss having someone to share my days & nights with. I am not looking forward to another winter alone. I am comfortable with myself and enjoy my down time, but I also like to have someone to go places with and experience different things with. There is such a thing as too much "girl-time". I want special time with someone special.I have a 31 yr. old daughter who is married. I have a adorable ***yr. old grandaughter - she's the twinkle in my eye!I hope you find all that you are looking for. If my profile interests you, feel free to send me a message. I won't do the texting and *** believe you need to meet in person right up front, just so noone is wasting time.GO BEARS!!! I would like to find someone who enjoys casual movie/dinner dates for enjoyment. I see chick flicks with the girls. I want to see some action films or romcoms with a guy friend to get to know one another. Is that you?

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm looking for my Gentleman, that is respectful, honest, loyal and someone not looking for Ms. Perfect or Ms. you have to look like a model before I talk to you. I'm single, 51 and have curves. I'm describe as a laid back, easy going, fun loving person. I don't get too excited about much unless it has to do with college basketball. I'm a huge fan of the OU womens basketball team and Sheri Coale and follow them during the season. Basketball has always been my favorite sport but I also enjoy football. I enjoy what most people enjoy; movies, music, concerts, dining out, going to the lake, and hanging out with my best friend, or my family. I don't have any children of my own. One of my goals on a daily basis is to try to make someone smile or laugh. I'm a person that enjoys people and being there for them and I'm a great listener. What is unique about me is I am loyal, honest and loving. I am a simple person and have been on my own for a long time and I'm ready to meet someone to finish my journey. I am looking for a best friend first then everything else in a relationship second. Just call me old fashioned but I seek, friendship, honesty, companionship, passion, and romance. In this day and age of what I call 'disposable relationships', I'm skeptical there is anyone out there with these qualities that wants a long term relationship. I would like getting to know someone on a personal level before getting intimate. Things like a nice smile that comes from the heart make me happy and so does a hug that is unexpected. As far as music I like most genres. Love the 70's and 80's classic rock, also like pop rock and enjoy myself some good country (some of this new age country isn't real country)... I used to dance some, which would be a country 2 step and waltz but I'm out of practice and willing to get back into the dancing again. First date would be going out and having a coffee or tea together so we can see each other face-to-face and talk a bit to see if there is chemistry with no expectations. Contact me here or at *** sometimes the *** chats are unpredictable here. Thank you for taking time to look at my profile and good luck with YOUR fishing.

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