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Rochel
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Hi and thank you for your time.If you are or were in the Military, I want to thank you for your service first and foremost.Just sorta getting back into the dating thing and wanted to give this meetville a whirl. Its been a little while since I had visited this or any other dating sight. I am ready and after 2 years of being single, outside of a few dates here and there I have decide to give this a chance. I work full time and I also attend online college. I love out doors and love to fish, boat, ride motorcycle etc. I enjoy clamming and crabbing and most any type of travel, exploration etc. Honest and Communication are a must. I have grown adult kids and am a grandmother. I enjoy all types of music. Love watching football! I have two teams, lol I know, I know.... But I cant help it. I have to stay true to my home team, The Sea--bay fan through and through.I am very laid back, a country girl stuck in the city for the moment, but that will eventually change. I love to laugh and to make others laugh. I am very tall, 6'2, No, I am not kidding.. lol So if you do not like a tall lady, please keep moving on. I do not want to sound like a meanie, but I am here to find love and a life time partner. I just do not believe in wasting peoples time. Thanks, I mean no disrespect what so ever and wish everyone here equally great times and best of luck. Everyone deserves to have someone special in their lives. I have goals and I am working on them daily. I recently started running 5 K and enjoy it, but I am still new at it. Lots of fun though. O K I would like to find someone that is equally interested in the same things I have listed. This is only a small amount of what I like but it is a good start and if it sounds like something you are interested in, please give me a line, lol and see if we can share some good fishin stories, Ya never know....We might make a great catch ...!Tight lines and Happy Fishing. First dates should be semi short, and planned for a place that allows you to talk and share thoughts. If things seem good then maybe an extention and a plan B but maybe for the first meeting, a coffee shop or the waterfront, sport a walk or maybe even meet at sports bar and play darts or something, just to break the ice. I am not a huge drinker and do not like to hang out at the bar but I do like to play darts and pool on occation, even though I am not the best, lol it is fun and I like a good challenge. lol
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Tikva
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I live a full life and I am grateful for it. While I am competent and independent, I also know that I would enjoy sharing my life with someone. It would be nice to participate in each other's interests, find common ones, or at least cheer each other on from the sidelines. Here are some things that interest me. For one, I changed careers about 5 years ago and became a math teacher. I'm now working towards my master's in math so that I can teach at the community college level. I love my job and my students tell me that they appreciate my style of teaching. It's very rewarding to see someone "get it" after struggling in the past. Although I consider myself to be pretty hip, that's my geeky side!Second, I attend my fair share of concerts and like discovering new music. Here's a taste of what I've seen lately: Civil Wars at the Berklee Performance Center, The Black Keys at the Garden, Meiko at TT the Bear's and Gotye at House of Blues. It's fun sharing a passion for music and listening to great stuff.Third, I like to stay in shape. For a while, I was a runner exclusively. Now, I have more variety in my fitness routine. If I can get in two runs and three classes (spin, yoga, weights) a week, I'm happy. Sometimes life gets in the way, and that's okay, too. After belonging to the Y for years, I'm finally making good use of my membership!My friends would call me considerate, compassionate, and caring. I come across as gracious and calm, but I do have a spunky side. I'm also quite stylish, think a cross between boutique and consignment. In fact, that is a good description of me in general.I have two kids who make me very proud to be their mom. They are at great ages ***and ***independent, but still like to hang out with me. Being involved in their interests is a priority for me... I love being both a soccer mom and a dance mom. I have a pretty consistent parenting schedule, so that when my kids are with me, I can concentrate on them; but when they are at their dad's, I have time for me (and my partner).I'm looking for someone who is kind & attentive, attractive & athletic, intelligent & down-to-earth, and who (like me) has a certain joie de vivre.
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Nya
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Crap. How do I sound charming, witty and fascinating? That's an awful lot of work, and I feel fairly certain I could only carry it off for about 23 minutes. I guess I will just be me *** at an interesting place in my life. My husband and I are separating. It's been an ongoing process for a while, but we are legally staying together in order to settle our finances and sell our home. It sucks and is pretty annoying to end a marriage. I wish there was something less painful, like bamboo being shoved under my nails, or being seared with a branding iron. But I never luck out that way.All that aside, from an emotional standpoint, things are changing for us. We are good friends and will always be, but I think our passion and desire for each other have left the building. Nothing says "Hey my marriage is down the toilet" more than being separated and on an online dating site. I'm too young to not have passion in my life, but too old to be an innocent, wide eyed girl who clings on some guys every word. Being single at a time in your life when you weren't really expecting it is like walking along with the sun shining and the birds singing and you step in the cross walk and get ran over by one of those Portlandia Bike enthusiasts. It doesn't kill you, but it hurts like hell. You know you will make it through, but you have to heal.I am established in my career and financially independent. I have a serious job, so in my spare time I really want to cut loose and have fun. I'm kind of sarcastic and quirky ( which is the nice way of saying I'm a smart ass), and I like a wide range of music. I sing with a women's chorus. I am also deeply passionate about animals and serve on the board for a non-profit that advocates for wolves. I have a dry sense of humor and really appreciate intellectual conversations. SMART MEN TURN ME ON. I'm in the process of losing weight, so I am pursuing a healthy lifestyle, eating and exercise wise. I have posted a recent, full length picture. I like to be upfront about my size. I understand that we are all attracted to different things. I'm not a 24 year old model. Never have been one, never will. I hope that at this point in my life the most interesting and memorable thing about me is not how I look. I am shooting for reaching a normal weight as I want to be healthy and active for as long as I can. Right now Im a size ***. Sometimes men don't get sizes...I don't like using cute phrases like "I'm curvy" or "I'm big and beautiful". I'm overweight, not happy about it and trying to change it. If you aren't attracted to larger women, then my pretty face and beautiful lips won't make a difference. And as we are on a "fish" site there are plenty of thinner fish out there if that's what you want!:)In short, I'd like to have fun. I'd like to define "having fun". It doesn't mean having a one night stand or that you should contact me to just hook up. Although I'm not looking for anything really serious...I'm not looking for meaningless sex either. That also does not mean that I want to wait 6 months for you to hold my hand. I like things to happen naturally...there is no specific time or pressure on when that should be. Im not a nun. I like sex, I would like it on a regular basis with the right person. I'm not just wanting to date for the stimulating conversations on world politics!I can't deny that I like to kiss. A lot. So...friendship with tongue? Is that a thing?I love to talk with people, but please note that the only pictures I have or will send are exactly like the ones in my profile! ;)UPDATE: I have been out here for about 6 weeks. I have met some really cool people. I have been contacted by some odd people. I have learned that younger men have either watched American Pie or the Graduate and think that all women over the age of 40 are Cougars. I'm going to be honest. I'm probably not bendy enough or flexible enough to do what you think you want to do with me. Unless you are going to pay for my massage and chiro visits after, its probably not going to happen. Sure, you are super fun to look at, and I would like to touch you. It would be fun. But I doubt we could have the kind of conversations that I like to have. I have a 26 year old daughter...so my gut feeling is the first time you smart mouthed me, I would want to ground you or take away the car keys. But, if you are SUPER smart and realize I am not going to be twisted around like Gumby, go ahead and contact me. ;)UPDATE 2: I have been out here a little over 3 months. There are times that I think meetville stands for "Plenty of Freaks"...but there are just enough, nice normal people that its worthwhile. The thing that I'm most happy with, is that I have been able to make some friends. Not everyone is a love connection, but some people are pretty cool...so cool that you enjoy them for their company and you realize that quality time with someone doesn't have to be a big romance. I think people forget the value of there being no pressure...and just having fun. Im still in the drama of divorce crap...so me finding "the one" probably isn't going to happen for a while. In the mean time, I'd like to meet interesting and fun people. Life is too short to not have fun. So for now, my eyeballs are in tact and I forge ahead... Let's wear berets and smoke those smelly french cigarettes and eat a lot of cheese. OROption 2: Probably a coffee date. Just hanging out, talking and seeing if we are compatible. I'm not that picky about someone's looks, although I do prefer someone who is clean and pulled together. For me, it is all about personality and conversation.