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Zebinah
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Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47
Searching for a partner, lover, teammate, better half, confidant, and playmate. I am new to the desert and there is so much to see and do. I'd love to share these experiences with someone significant. A weekend road trip, shopping, dining out, concerts, hiking, vacations, cooking, yoga, curled up on the coach watching a movie, people watching while discussing how crazy people are and how much smarter we are than most.I'm a Midwesterner who has lived in the deep South and even in Europe for a year. No drama, decent job and what I think is good taste. Chivalrous, respectful but no push over by any means. Common sense, quick wit, knows the difference between to and too, you're and your, and knows when to use them, fit, active and looking for someone to share a serious, commited relationship with. Now where would I find something like that? If a guy offers to take you to a movie on the first date, run. Happy hour or a light meal while we talk and get to know each other works for me.
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Clarke
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Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46
The bullet points: * I have all my hair. * I have all my teeth & they aren't a mess. * My eyes are not crossed. * I have a good job & own my home. * I'm happy with my life. * My body type is true "average" not Wal- I am not too far off "Athletic" but didn't want to misrepresent myself.* I've got 2 kids (both girls, 7 & 8) and they are NOT part of my dating life.* I like to have fun as much as possible.I've been on meetville for some time now, off and on. I've met some great people, made some good friends, even had a couple relationships all because of this site. I've had an overall positive experience with "online dating." With that said, please do not waste your time or mine by not accurately representing yourself on here. I've been "fooled" more than once and it is just an awkward situation to be in. You don't have to be a twig, but if you weigh more than I do...well...that probably won't work out. Sorry, but honesty can suck. Also, if you're going to message me, please say more than: "Hi" or "Hey." If you really want to avoid a swift delete, master the use of: You're, your, there, their & they're, too, to, two, then and than. I'm looking for a woman to date. By "date," I mean we actually go out on dates, we get to know one another. If that leads into a relationship, that would be great. If it just turns into a friendship, that is great too. To be clear, I'm not looking for a random hook up or just causal sex. Nor am I looking for a wife, or a mother to my 2 daughters, they have one. In fact, she and I are still friends and we get along just fine. To take it a step further, she is remarried and her husband and I get along just fine. So if you are not adult enough to respect this or understand how it is possible, then we are probably not a good match. Don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to marriage one day, but I've learned that getting to that point takes TIME. I'm a slow mover when it comes to getting into a relationship. I'm not going to settle just to be with someone that "sort of" fits. The way I look at all of this dating stuff is, you will just "know" when someone fits. For that long term relationship, I want to just know...in the meantime, I'm here on this dating site to do just that...date. It really is a numbers game. You need to message X amount of potential dates to get Y amount of 1st meetings then hopefully have Z amount of real dates that can turn into something more. It is a process, and anyone who has been on here for any amount of time will understand this!Please feel free to ask me anything, I'm as transparent as they come. I'm all about being honest and clear. Forget the 1st date....let's call it what it is, a meet & greet. I think meeting for coffee, a drink, dessert, or something short to see if there is any chemistry, attraction, compatibility is the best thing to do. THEN if that works out, let's plan an actual date. No body wants to be "stuck" with someone they just met & realized they have zero in common & can't carry a conversation.
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Elsdon
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Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43
Here’s a little bit of the nitty gritty about me to weed out some of the riffraff. First and foremost, I am a proud single (yes, really single, not internet dating website single) father of the absolute best 7 yr old boy on the planet. Still there? Ok, cool. So I was being a wise ass about the absolute best boy comment, as I know some of you will challenge me on that, but seriously he is pretty awesome. While being a father and raising my son correctly is the single most important thing to me, it is not the only thing that defines me. Trying to stay out of the penalty box during an ice hockey game or flying down a two foot wide trail at 35 mph on my mountain bike are a couple of my favorite ways to get my blood pumping. Hiking, camping and fishing are a few more of my favorite pastimes. To relax, I love to take the cap off my jeep and take a drive out east or out onto the outer beach. I love my friends and family and they are a huge part of my life. No longer into the bar scene but I love a good dinner whether at a nice restaurant or on paper plates at a secret hole in the wall restaurant with insane food. I don't really cook but I can make a mean burger on the grill. I will say though that I do dishes better then...better then...damn it, I can’t think of a witty synonym for a super duper strong dishwasher. You get the point. It's hard to put my ideal woman into perspective using words, because I have yet to meet her. I can say personality is most important to me. Also, someone that possesses wit and intelligence, has a sense of humor that pushes boundaries and does not easily get offended, believes sarcasm is a spice of life and takes care of herself mentally and physically. Someone who cares more about who she is with then where she is, down to earth, trustworthy, affectionate, and who thinks about me as much as I will think about her. I would say that these are the attributes I look for in the perfect woman for me. I want to stare in your eyes like a weirdo, and kick your feet to try and trip you when you walk in front of me. I want you to open the doors for me and if you're lucky I'll get the tip at dinner...Seriously though, that’s tough to say at this point. I'd rather come up with something we'll both enjoy after speaking on the phone. I can guarantee one thing though, that whatever we decide will be the best time EVER.