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About Me

Here’s a little bit of the nitty gritty about me to weed out some of the riff­raff. First and foremost, I am a proud single (yes, really single, not internet dating website single) father of the absolute best 7 yr old boy on the planet. Still there? Ok, cool. So I was being a wise ass about the absolute best boy comment, as I know some of you will challenge me on that, but seriously he is pretty awesome. While being a father and raising my son correctly is the single most important thing to me, it is not the only thing that defines me. Trying to stay out of the penalty box during an ice hockey game or flying down a two foot wide trail at 35 mph on my mountain bike are a couple of my favorite ways to get my blood pumping. Hiking, camping and fishing are a few more of my favorite pastimes. To relax, I love to take the cap off my jeep and take a drive out east or out onto the outer beach. I love my friends and family and they are a huge part of my life. No longer into the bar scene but I love a good dinner whether at a nice restaurant or on paper plates at a secret hole in the wall restaurant with insane food. I don't really cook but I can make a mean burger on the grill. I will say though that I do dishes better then...better then...damn it, I can’t think of a witty synonym for a super duper strong dishwasher. You get the point. It's hard to put my ideal woman into perspective using words, because I have yet to meet her. I can say personality is most important to me. Also, someone that possesses wit and intelligence, has a sense of humor that pushes boundaries and does not easily get offended, believes sarcasm is a spice of life and takes care of herself mentally and physically. Someone who cares more about who she is with then where she is, down to earth, trustworthy, affectionate, and who thinks about me as much as I will think about her. I would say that these are the attributes I look for in the perfect woman for me. I want to stare in your eyes like a weirdo, and kick your feet to try and trip you when you walk in front of me. I want you to open the doors for me and if you're lucky I'll get the tip at dinner...Seriously though, that’s tough to say at this point. I'd rather come up with something we'll both enjoy after speaking on the phone. I can guarantee one thing though, that whatever we decide will be the best time EVER.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

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