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Barry, 55
United States, Missouri, O Fallon

Offline, last seen Sat, 21 Feb 2026 01:36:37

About Me

..you and I...... When the evening is spread out against the skyLike a patient etherised upon a table;Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets,The muttering retreatsOf restless nights in one-night cheap hotelsAnd sawdust restaurants with oyster-shells:Streets that follow like a tedious argumentOf insidious intentTo lead you to an overwhelming question …Oh, do not ask, “What is it?” Let us go and make our visit.- T. S.;The Love Song of J.; -I am looking for a genuine woman appreciates an authentic friend in the man they choose to spend their time with (i know that’s a dangling participle, but who really wants someone to say “the man with whom they choose to spend their time” ...? Spontaneity keeps things interesting, and humour and integrity are the things that our time fun and emotionally safe. I love the outdoors, but I have to admit that summer is my time!!!! Warmth and colour set all the good things in us free!!!!Even though my interests seem a little unusual to some, (one woman actually messaged me to let me know that they might scare some women !!?) they are the things that make for a rich life. I value and I am inspired by ideas and passions, and I am fascinated by people.;How can love survive, in such a graceless age?"... I have lived life with insight and integrity, and the rewards of giving of myself and my kindness are the things that have been generously returned as they were offered. It really is a FASCINATING world. Ordinarily, the conversations which are most inspiring don't include so many " I's " in them, and it would be great to hear YOUR ideas ... and maybe share some of your passions!As for being 55 ...;;:We are not now that strength which in old daysMoved earth and heaven; that which we are, we are;One equal temper of heroic hearts,Made weak by time and fate, but strong in willTo strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield. A casual drink and effortless conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian English Irish Mexican Basketball Shooting Sports
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