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Deana, 50
United States, Connecticut, Meriden

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About Me

I am 49 years old. Don't smoke and am not interested in dating a smoker, so if you do, well, sorry. Just being honest. I love my family and friends. Both kids are on their own. I have a 7 year old grandson who is a huge part of my life. And a 9 month old Granddaughter. Love my dog. My horse is one of my best friends. I love spending time with them. Love music, the theater, movies, the cider mill, yard sales, flea markets, thunder storms (the louder the better), amusement parks, fishing, hiking, camping, street festivals, pretty much anything that takes me outside. And although some people find it strange, I enjoy wandering, respectfully through a cemetary. Mostly older cemetaries. I find History to be facinating...and hey, there is a lot of history to be learned in a cemetary. I actually do more than just play with my horse on the farm where he lives. But I don't have many pictures of myself. Seems I am usually the one taking the pictures. I am a bit on the old fashioned side. Therefor I respect myself and need to be respected. And I highly respect the man in my life. I had been working at the same job for over 22 years as a school bus driver. I loved that job, but it was outsourced this year and we all lost our jobs. I have since started a new career woring as a Courier for Fed Ex Express. I am still really green at this job. I haven't even finished my training and I am in "Information Overload" at this time. I enjoy working hard so I am sure I will do fine in this job. But you should know, I work afternoons. Starting at around 3:00pm and not getting off work until after 9:30. Making me mainly only available on the weekends. :( I also have a farm/in-home pet care business. People are not traveling as much these days though. I was married just over 21 years when I filed for divorce. I can go the long haul...just need an equal commitment. I believe that the greatest gift we have been given in life is our time. How we use it or share it is up to us alone. So our time is also the greatest gift we can give to another as well. I love to laugh...so a good sense of humor is a must. My folks have been married over 54 years and they say to make a relationship work...you must have God and Respect. Then the rest, like attraction, laughter, love.. just falls into place. I hope I can find someone to spend the rest of my life with. I want a sounding board, confidant, buddy, playmate, lover, partner and best friend. However, to be honest, I am not sure I ever want to actually remarry. Will have to play it by ear and see what happens. Just so you know, I do not live on the farm where the pictures are taken. If you are looking for a wealthy girl, I am not her. LOL I tried to go back and edit my profile to add that I don't want to have a long distance relationship, but it doesn't want to offer me that option anymore. Just too busy to do a lot of driving and gas is far too expensive. This is not a hard rule, if you are close to that 30 mile distance. Also, correct me if I am wrong, but isn't "currently seperated" the same as "currently married"? Please, be single or divorced.I just don't get into dating someone married. Just a recipe for disaster if you ask me.I'm a Handful-I am strongwilled, independant, a bit outspoken, and I tell it like it is. I make mistakes, I am sometimes out of control, and at times hard to handle, but I love and give with all of my heart. If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure don't deserve me at my best. Love going to lunch or dinner. Somewhere we can sit and chat. Without having to yell over the music.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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