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Jocelyn, 47
United States, Connecticut, Meriden

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how in the world can a girl get a date on this web site..we are all crazy to some extent, theres no such thing as normal and I have learned its the inward attitude that matters more than the outer appearance.I had a friend tell me she couldnt understand why so many worry what they look like naked in front of their prospective suitors when they get a good idea of what you would look like with your clothes on.....this is why people are so vain.....outward is good if your a model and that is your meal ticket. ...I still prefer the inward much more.I was told this evening that the filter from my brain to my mouth rarely ever works, but they were glad it was that way at least I am honest and shouldnt be misunderstood when I speak.let me say that I am straight forward, I am a short statured woman that is chubby, not fat, ...chubby... get over it..its me and thats me, so if you cant be with or around a chubby woman who has a heart of gold and kindness , then kindly move on....I am lovable, snuggable, simple person, but not simple minded, I like things to be neat and orderly but not over obsessive about, I work, have a job, and like what I do,.I am looking for someone who holds up their end of the bargain, who really does know what they want, one who has his priorities in the right place, someone who doesnt play with the feelings of others, and someone who knows what it is to have a decent meaningful relationship and maintain it, communication is a must, lovable, snuggable, is employed, supports his family/children, loves animalsPlease note that just because someone has been married more than once doesn't mean they are damaged. ..do not judge the reasons of divorce until you know the whole story depends on the person and the situation, but I am happy with simple down to earth things, small camp fire, chairs, chilling on a blanket you and me looking at stars, bed of a tail gate, with a cooler of what ever is liked, or hand in hand on a park bench learning more about each other...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

British Caribbean Portuguese Spanish Archery
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