Total users: 60,607,793 Online users: 217,960
Carolyn, 48
United States, Connecticut, Meriden

Offline, last seen Sat, 27 Dec 2025 15:52:54

About Me

Life is a gift. It will always be my desire to love and be loved. Like most singles , the time moved from being admired by those I had no affection for, to pursuing with great earnest who I wanted - only to find that in the end it wasn't the match/compatibility that was good for both of us. I'm sure we've all been there. How it hurts at the time... but is remembered as a beautiful part of life learning years later. Looking for someone to share the rest of my days and nights with. Work full time day shift for the last 24 yrs in a chronic care nursing home.Adore my 2 teen boys 19 & 17, Love the elderly, and my co-workers which have become like family to me. I'm a well put together type person, avoid conflict, a very peaceful soul. My Core Motivation that guides me through life is "Peace." This is not referring to a political agenda or the absence of war. It is, however, an absence of inner conflict, much closer to the idea of serenity, and an acceptance of oneself and others. I have a strong and compelling need to keep things in balance in my life so as to maintain an internal feeling of tranquility and comfort. With this said though, I'm not a perfectionist, i am laid back, neat and tidy, but not uptight. I'm not happy around uptight people. People who stress over the smallest things...No thanks...life is too short....enjoy each moment! Make good memories! I am a loyal and honest person who appreciates the same in my partner. If you respect me and treat me with compassion, then I will always do the same for you. I'm looking for someone who would enjoy being around his woman, spending quiet times and enjoy what life has to offer. ****** Jokes to brighten your day! **** My silly side.....1, Man: Your place or mine?Woman: Both. You go to yours and I'll go to mine. 2, A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, "Mypenis," and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, "Error. Not long enough." Ha! 3, What did one saggy boob say to the other saggy boob? "We better get some support before someone thinks we're nuts!" :) 4, A blonde, a redhead, and a brunette were all lost in the desert. They found a lamp and rubbed it. A genie popped out and granted them each one wish. The redhead wished to be back home. Poof! She was back home. The brunette wished to be at home with her family. Poof! She was back home with her family. The blonde said, "Awwww, I wish my friends were here." ( my mushy side) My attitude: Feast on Life! Know yourself, and enjoy who you are. The time will comewhen, with elation,you will greet yourself arrivingat your own door, in your own mirrorand each will smile at the other's welcome,and say, sit here. Eat.You will love again the stranger who was your self.Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heartto itself, to the stranger who has loved youall your life, whom you ***, who knows you by heart.Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,the photographs, the desperate notes,peel your own image from the mirror.Sit. Feast on your life.There are so many reasons his poem is so moving: the idea of nurturing (instead of denying) yourself with food and drink, the idea of re-meeting who you were (and who you still are) despite all the years of disconnection due to ego and its insidious double, insecurity. Most of all I love this idea of feasting on your life, from the wonderful moments (the love letter) to the revealing moments (the photographs) to the painful moments (the desperate notes). Let's all feast today, even if that feast takes place while we're buying coffee filters or "making" a premade rotisserie chicken for dinner. Reflection happens everywhere—even in the aisle of the supermarket. When your ready come and get it.......:) . Something casual, just a coffee , keep it simple. Love to go out to see a movie, hang out with friends and family. A nice evening out for dinner would be nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country House British Martial Arts War
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Marjorie from Meriden | Woman | 47 years old | Leo
    Marjorie

    Online

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    we would all cast nets....Rarely do I look at the "Meet Me" clicks. Send *** summer to winter. Enjoy anything outdoors, reading, spending time with my family and friends, a cold beer and grilling ... I am laid back, low maintenance, honest, outspoken, independent ... enjoying life. I stay within my own race. Keep your negative *** to yourself ... we all have our preference(s). Employed with the same company for 12 yrs now ... I manage commercial and residential properties. Also handle collections, tracking and court which is the interesting part of my job. This would be decided together.

    Chat
  • Margery from Meriden | Woman | 50 years old | Virgo
    Margery

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I FEEL I MUST REPEAT MYSELF...IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND...PLEASE MOVE ON TO THE NEXT PROFILE!!! I enjoy traveling, the outdoors. Cuddling. Going out to eat. Going out for drinks. Bonfires with friends. Just sitting at the house chilling. Must be spontaneous. Right now I'm looking for someone just to hang out with and do things with and have some fun. If something more comes out of it then thats just a bonus. ;) Not interested in 1 night stands. So if that's what you want go on to the next profile. I'm ready for some fun in my life and want someone to have fun with. I feel like you need to be friends first. If this sounds like you drop me a note. If u have ne questions feel free 2 ask I'll answer anything. I'm an open book. Not hiding ne thing. I am who I am - faults, passions, abilities, mischievousness, soft and gentle, playful and naughty, good and bad. I am me. Love me as I am. I am an original. Whatever we decide on.

    Chat
  • Juliana from Meriden | Woman | 48 years old | Sagittarius
    Juliana

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am very happy and I live my life with a positive attitude. Summertime I spend a lot of time at the lake, river or anywhere that sounds like fun. My dog is my buddy and she's always ready to go play. I love my job as it keeps me challenged & I know that I'm making a contribution to this world. I have the music always playing because it's good for the soul. I'm always ready for a new experiences and adventures. I am assertive and will give it my all, especial when I believe in what I'm doing. I look for the best in people. Maybe to a fault but....so. What I am looking for... A man who is every bit the gentleman yet, a bit of a knuckle-dragger just to keep it spicy! ;)~ He should be focused on life and can be serious when necessary but definitely spontaneous and has that sense of adventure. At any given moment either of us could say "Hey lets go and..." and the other is ready and excited to go. I am looking to share my life with that someone special, that has similar values, who is responsible, and has direction. I want to find my new best friend. The one who loves to make me laugh, the one who holds me when I have a bad day. The one that can send me into another realm with a simple glance from across the room. The man who rocks my soul. I know you're out there...I just gotta find you! Something simple....

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: