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Bertie, 49
United States, Ohio, Newark

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About Me

Hi, so I feel a little silly as I had to DELETE my profile earlier as for some unknown reason, I appeared to be the tender young age of 21. Oh to be 21 again!!!!Ok, so onto the good stuff. I'm a 48 year old mother of 2 AMAZING boys/men. I am profoundly thankful for the amazing men I turned out to this world. My joy and pleasure is to sit back and enjoy the beautiful and amazing bond I share with both of them.Sooooo I'm outgoing, love to laugh- did I mention LOVE to laugh??? I am loyal, probably to a fault. I am all about taking care of what's mine, weather it be a relationship or a posession, I VALUE that which I love, and find myself grateful even for the most simple of things. I like that about me :) I LOVE music, mostly rock, classic rock and some of that old stuff from the 70's that take me back to wonderful memories. I believe in a "happily ever after", I just do. I've decided that I won't settle for less than that. I'll give ***fold to anything that is worth it.....which does include, for me that "happily ever after". My parents have been married for 53 years - I KNOW IT CAN BE DONE!It should be said, in all fairness- I AM VERY BIG ON AND SERIOUS ABOUT RESPECT. I, for whatever reason, have been tested in previous relationships with regards to how much LACK OF RESPECT I WILL TAKE.......well, I'm on a dating site, so I can assume you see how that worked out. DON'T EVER say to me something you would NEVER want said to your mother, your sister, your daughter, your favorite aunt. I'm someone's all of those too. Oh, and it's not one sided either, I WILL RESPECT YOU/THE RELATIONSHIP LIKE NO OTHER. I am seriously passionate, about big stuff and also really small stuff. I can cry easily when I see pain in the lives of others that have it so much harder than me. My natural *** to help, in any way I can. I LOVE to play hard, the beach, the beach, the beach, oh and yes I LOVE to be on the back of a bike (preferably a Harley), I love being spontaneous. I've been told MORE than ***times that I'm very HIGH ENERGY :) however, I also appreciate the quiet times at home reading a book, watching a movie or preparing a beautiful meal for those I care about. My friends and family just think I'm "IT" haha but don't all of ours? I'm blessed, truly blessed but would love to share all of me, my heart, my life and my future with my "happily ever after" - hope I find him because I'm confident that t'll be amazing :) HMMMMMMM.........well I find myself having a little bit of cold feet..........I'm old school and learning that online dating may be the only medium left hahaha! That being said, something simple.........a drink, coffee, dinner (nothing fancy at least to start!) I think that sometimes so much emphasis is placed on the "date" that it's easy to not be yourself in fear of time constraints, expectations etc.......I say go somewhere where it is relaxed and welcoming.........to see if there is really any kind of spark :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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