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Ivy, 49

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About Me

Integrity and honesty are values I appreciate dearly. Single in my forties had not been part of the plan, but one learns to adjust. And I’ve adjusted pretty well. This is my second time around on this site, I joined when my marriage ended. It helped me ease back into the dating world & even gained a couple of new friends. Then I left meetville for a year and a half. With the New Year, I decided to try this one more time. About me- I am very passionate about life. I still believe in love and romance. I love sharing the good in my life, even if that's just quality time or a home cooked meal, with my loved ones. I enjoy being helpful when I can (even overly helpful at times) and do my best to always lend the ear or shoulder when needed. I love being outside. I grew up on the coast so I especially love beaches. I love to cook and am quite talented at it. I am very independent, always have been. I have my own home in the woods that I had built over 16 years ago. I am one of the nicest people you will ever meet & strive to see the good in everyone. I am truly Southern, raised by my Grandmother, with very strong values and beliefs. I have a very tight group of friends and have a fairly active social life. I am not bored, not lonely, not a booty call and not looking to be rescued. I do not have a problem meeting men, or being asked out on dates, I’m just so tired of the dating scene. I would just like to meet someone I can connect with, and that we will have mutual desire to learn about each other and build from there. I am looking for a relationship. I miss belonging to someone and them belonging to me. I am a hopeless romantic and I want it all. Love, laughter, trust, chemistry, passion and romance. **I do not usually respond to messages from profiles with only one picture or not recent pictures. And not pictures of your truck, cat, dog. etc. I wish you all the best of luck in your search for love."I think every man should learn the true definition of what romance is. It's how you stimulate her mind. It's through real conversation and showing her how original you are.Intelligence is sexy. It has nothing to do with sex." --MrNever Give Up A quiet drink or dinner somewhere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tamika

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I want to laugh first and foremost with someone special who is bright, attractive, witty, silly, sexy, hot, athletic and into staying in shape.Best part of being with someone you have great chemistry with is you just want to be together no matter what you do...I'm not settling till I find the guy I feel this way about...Whether we stay in cooking din,watching movies and spooning or getting dressed up to go out and have fun together wherever that may be...Where is my babycakes? lolSidenote: I hate to sound mean but I'm not into *** the second I sign on!!! loland honestly, I have no desire to interact with a blank faced profile! I will not even open those.:-D and no offense but if you are sporting a Duck Dynasty beard or you wear "Affliction" tee shirts on a regular basis... I'm not going to be Interested..... just sayinnnnnnn...seems to be a lot of that goin on at this site lol Meet for Coffee or a drink to see if we have Chemistry, then go from there

  • Rebecca

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    "Love is like a friendship on fire. In the beginning, a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only a light flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable".,.. Although I don't feel that I need someone to complete me, I am now looking for that special person to grow old with. I am very outgoing. My friends call me the life of the party. I love to cook, entertain and keep a very cozy home. I have 2 children, both of which are grown***gone and one on the way. Life gets boring, so hit me up and let's have a drink or 2 or 5 or fall down.... :) Meet for a drink--something casual and a quick way out, just in case. hahahaha

  • Tameka

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Someone you never saw, someone you never knew turned out to be the someone for you?What If that Someone turned out to be Me?I had a Profile on here before, and I decided to delete my Profile.I was tired of the whole online Process. I'm sure you all have been there right? We keep the *** back n forth, we pass our #'s out to a few people, and if we are lucky enough, we may go out on a few dates here an there. Out of those dates, we might keep one, maybe two of those around for the lonely times ( come on ya'll all have done this). If you deny it, shame on each and every one of ya'll.Anyways...I'm not back on here to be a Debby Downer...just bein real..Cuz those who remember my last Profile will remember that's all I wanted from a "Guy" was that he be Real. So here's to all the ole timer's that have been looking for lust, love, friends...companionship...How long does it take us? How long do we stay in the Pond swimming around...looking? I'm often asked is it that I'm picky, selective? Why is it that I am still here. I'm here, I came back because I rarely go out, I don't do the whole bar scene. So were does a single girl meet a guy these days. Heck I have tried the whole Home Depot thing, Grocery Store, etc...yeah that doesn't work. Guys are to shy, and so am I. To shy to say more then a quick hi and smile. So that brings me back to the Online Party. Where I am not picky, I am just being cautious. I want to make sure that the guy I meet, is the guy that will be around, next week, and the week after that, and so on. I know that there are no quarantee's in anything. but what I do know is this:When I meet someone, and the converstion flows freely, and the laughter feels the air, my hearts pounds out of my chest with excitement, my eyes dance each time he speaks and smiles at me, and when he talks, I love to hear the sound of his voice, and when he puts his hand in mine, it meshes just right. These are just a few things that tell me that this is the guy...this guy will be back tomorrow, next week...and I hope many times after that. Its a feeling I get.I have been single for a very long time, 4 years to be exact, Divorced for 11 and although many have seen me online, you will be shocked (maybe not) to know that I have not been on many dates while on this site. I can count on 1 hand the meet-n-greets and dates I have been on within those years. I'm not sure how many women that have been single and who have been searching could say that. If they can...Congrads Sister!!Okay..so there ya'll have my story...sorta.. I'm looking for it all. and I haven't found it.. lol.. That's why I'm still here. I'm suppose to tell ya'll about my hobbies. I love Sports, All of them... I'm so glad its Football season.. Go Titans & Tn Vols. I love Summer. Its my favorite time of the year..but I do love the fall, that smell it leaves in the air! Halloween is one of my favorite time of the year, next to Christmas. I love decorating for the Holidays. Going to Tahoe for Christmas. Having Snow on Christmas Day...its amazing! I learned to Snowboard a couple years ago..fun times, oh and ice skating to... :)I love Hot Rod / car shows, boat shows. Love going to Concerts. Rodeos, Festivals, Winetasting, back road weekend getaways. To be honest here...there isn't really to much I don't like to do. from backyard BBQ's with friends & family, Friday nite cuddling on the couch movie nite with a glass of wine. Ole man winter and cracklin fireplace. So many things we could list. But all these things are pretty boring and kinda lonely with one person. Sure would make nites & weekends easier if they where shared with two, *** one.This is all I have ...now that you know a lil about me... I hope that you don't judge me for being honest about my views and what I'm searching for. I wish you all the best of luck in your search for happiness & love! No Coffee!! :)Walk in the Park with Our Coffee, Jumba JuiceHow about a Hike, Go kayakingGo-Cart Races..ready Set Go!Anything ...we can think of Something thats fun...to get some great conversation in...Laughs...and who knows what else?

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