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Dale, 41
United States, New York, Hempstead

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Feb 2026 04:26:24

About Me

Well, as a single mom of a 3-yeat-old, my time is rarely my own. Hobbies are something I hope to resume as my child gets older and more involved with school activities. In other words, school activities will likely become my hobbies in a couple years. :-)I really don't want to spend a lot of time trying to convey who I am here when a phone call or two and/or meeting for coffee would tell both of us *** there's any chemistry worth pursuing. That said, I must also tell you that I have very limited availability. Babysitters cost money, and as a 1-income household, we don't have an overabundance of that. So I choose who gets that very precious time with great care. If you don't have pics up on your profile, or are cagey about means of contact, I will not reply. And in the interest of full disclosure, let's get right to the heart of it: I don't require rescuing, but after the # of guys I've talked to that have all been taken advantage of most grievously by conniving, selfish women, I've concluded that guys say they want an independent woman, but at the end of the day, they want to be the hero.-do list. Oh, and he also has to sweep me off my feet. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marci from Hempstead | Woman | 43 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Interests: boating on the weekends with friends, hiking with my dogs, gardening(if you would have told me ten years ago this would be one of my interests I seriously would have laughed in your face, but I'm pretty good)..Refurbishing furniture, decorating inside of my house....Having get togethers with friends...love throwing parties..Best Features: Eyes, smile,sense of humor, being able to make fun of myself before I make fun of you..About Me: I'm a very honest and loving person, I don't like it when people lie to me. I have a daughter who is 21 and still is my baby... Only have 2 men in my life and they have four legs...BEST men I've ever met they listen to me and don't ever tell me no......Don't like talking about myself so I'll have to think of this one a little more....

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  • Martina from Hempstead | Woman | 42 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    hummmm...have no idea really to explain myself except that I am forward, upfront, and do not allow b.s. in my life...therefore this should tell you i also do not put up with it.I enjoy the water and outdoors life alot.Going and doing is always on my mind. Its on my mind however spending lots of money isnt what i mean. Couch potatoes do not bother.Also if u don't have a picture don't bother....:-)Update: i must admit that im an open book if u want to know ask me and more likely im not going to speak first if i do and i do not get a response that tells me your not interested and thats fine too.... I dont chase men...This site so far has only bored me so come at me with excitement not just a Hi....happy fishing... idk! something fun

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  • Katelyn from Hempstead | Woman | 45 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I do not do drama. I do have a good sense of humor. I am a good to my friends. My family always comes first. I really hate filling these types of things out. I have no patience for this...lolUpdate : I know if I were to put more here it would be nice but honestly I have no patience for it. If you like what you see and if you want to know something ask. I am an open book , I have nothing to hide because I am who I am. Send me a message we can chat and decide if we want to meet ( face to face is really how you know if you want to continue) and we will go from there.Good luck in your search.Update #2 : I have decided to add this bit of information here because it has been brought to my attention that I may be missing out on some very nice guys on here, and I may very well be, that being said here is clarification for those of you who may be interested in contacting me. I work very hard to stay in shape, I try to eat right and work out/ run ***days a week. I am not interested in meeting someone who is overweight and out of shape. If that sounds shallow to you I am sorry, it is just my personal preference.I am a forward person, if I contact you it is because I am interested in learning more. If I am not your preference , that's ok , you're entitled to the right to *** or say no thanks, either way it's cool. I am a patient person, I am willing to wait for the right man, I will not settle to avoid being alone. I am strong and independent, I am not looking for someone to complete me, I am looking for someone who compliments me. If I have offended you then we probably won't be a match. If you understand where I am coming from please contact me , we may enjoy each others company. Best of luck finding exactly what you re looking for. UPDATE #3 : ok so everyone who wants to pick me apart and tell me how shallow I am PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE send me your hateful messages, I will respond :) dinner and drinks

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