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About Me

I'm at a great place in my life, I own my condo, have a good job, great friends and a truly wonderful (if slightly wacky) family. I haven't made time for dating in a while, and I'd like to change that. My friends describe me as funny, honest, loyal, independent, witty and blunt. Sarcasm is an art form and my sense of humor occasionally trends towards the dark side. There are too many other interests and hobbies to list them all, but include getting out for walks with the dog or friends, reading, movies, cooking, travelling, Eskies football, Oilers hockey and Canadian camping. As for what I'm looking for in a match, it's pretty simple. I want to meet someone with a sense of humour, sharp wit, an appreciation for sarcasm, the ability to roll with the punches and a desire to keep learning. Being able to communicate in complete sentences is a must. If your communication skills are limited to "" we are not going to be suited. If that sentence made you laugh, maybe we should talk :)Be happy with yourself before you can find happiness with someone else. If you hate where you are in your life, don't expect someone else to love it. Keep it simple, since the goal is to figure out if we want a second date, right? Let's go for a coffee or a beer, maybe a game of pool, and see if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Iris

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Life can be complicated and I'm looking for someone to make it a little less so...First and foremost, I am a mom to two pretty fantastic kids who keep me busy with sports all year round, so finding someone who understands my time constraints is necessary. I share custody of my children with my ex and he and I have an amicable relationship - you must be understandng of that also. So who am I? I spend my days at a job I love and my evenings and weekends are a pretty good balance of fun and relaxation. I am athletic and can/will play most sports - but be careful, I'm pretty competitive! I love a great patio on a warm summer night, that first cup of tea in the morning and spending time with friends and family. I'm up for most anything once so long as the company is good. I have a good sense of humour, am often sarcastic and I'm not easily offended by the same. What am I looking for in a guy? You've got a job you love but that doesn't control your whole life. You're not afraid to choose the restaurant. You think kissing is a conversation, and you like to talk. Ultimately, you think your already-pretty-great life is better when shared with someone and you're not afraid to put the effort in to establishing and creating a relationship.

  • Tammy

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    So here is the part where I sell you on how amazing I am and what I am looking for etc... I'm not a big fan of being the same as everyone else so let's go a different route. Let's be honest.. you aren't going to get a real feel for who I am in a few sentences on here. We all say the same things..I like to laugh.. Who doesn't? Are there women on here saying please don't make me laugh I prefer to be angry or sob uncontrollably for no reason? I think not. I am fun to be around... ahh man I was looking for a debbie downer... etc etc So *** tell you all the things that kinda suck about me... I am stubborn. I have been called eccentric.. I think I'm just creative and artsy. I have a mild case of OCD... its not like I have to slap you 8 times before I can walk through a doorway.. more like I hate when my hands are sticky.. lol I have a little ADHD... expect me to interrupt you at times.. I hate laundry.. well not so much the washing, folding, sorting.. I just hate putting it away. Bizarre?? Yeah maybe but I hate it just the same. I love snow. Yeah don't make that face.. it's actually really pretty and I love the way time seems to slow down after a big snowfall. I have three kids.. they aren't really the sucky part ( actually I really kind of like them), but my availability is.. its means that if you are dating me, I can't always be free..but it doesn't mean I am not willing to make time for you.. Let's face it.. if I end up in a relationship eventually you will have to meet them.. Hmmm what else?? I am sarcastic.. and remarkably witty at times... you should probably accept the fact that I will occasionally rib you about.. well anything that's amusing to me really. I love to cook.... I like to actually cook, not heat stuff up. I make everything from scratch.. so it might take longer but it will be amazing I promise. And finally I am not a fan of PDA... I will hold your hand. I will kiss you. I will let you wrap your arms around me...I am actually quite affectionate... but I don't want to make out with you at a restaurant.. We can make out later.. when we don't have to stop or risk a public lewdness citation. Next part. Well for the most part I think we are all looking for the same thing. We want someone to accept us for who we are and get us. Basically I feel like you can't expect more than what you are willing to put into the relationship. I can accept the good and bad, I can make you a priority in my life, I can try my best to make you smile everyday.. I'm just looking for someone willing to do the same. p.s here are the answers to my most frequently asked questions.. :) 1. yes i am a real redhead. 2. no i will not send you a "pic of my girls".. 3. yes I have three kids.. no I do not plan on giving them away.. I am a package deal.4. A few extra pounds means I am curvy.. and I do not have a flat stomach.. I am not thin or skinny. I go to the gym 5 times a week. And I am always improving but I am always going to have big hips, a big butt and big boobs.. if you are looking for a skinny girl.. It will never be me.. think more ***'s pin up... if thats not your cup of tea it's all good. I am up for just about anything. Something casual and low key so we can talk is better than a movie or a club obviously.oh and fyi... if you message me just hi.. or with sexy, hun, baby, etc... im probably not going to respond.. pet peeve what can I say?

  • Kathie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Greetings and Salutations! So at the moment I'm just looking to make some friends and find some things to do. If something more than that happens great, but my main thing is just getting out and doing stuff. All I seem to do at the moment is work and then go to school. The Basics: I like and crave adventure, I always have. Doesn't matter what it is I'll probably try it just to say that I did. I don't play games and I don't accept lies ( again have you ever actually seen anyone admit that they do). I enjoy a good dinner out, great conversation, and football is my all time favorite sport. I'm currently in school for two bachelor's degrees. One in Health Care Administration and one in Early Childhood Education. I get along with everyone but I've always been the tomboy who gets dressed up to go out. I'm a goofball I will say or do the most random things just to get a laugh or keep them guessing. I like to cook but haven't really figured out how to cook for just two, so there's always leftovers. I love the 80's. Trivia is fun just to pass the time. I love all types of movies but my favorite genres are Sci/Fi, Action, Horror, and Comedy. Music is varied as well, although I didn't get into country music until I moved here ( so if you're a big country fan if it didn't come from ***on up I probably never heard of it).What I Want/What I don't Want: I expect good banter ( if you haven't caught on by now sarcasm isn't lost on me, in fact I welcome it). I want to meet someone with a sense of humor, knows the difference between your and you're, will say bless me when I sneeze, and loves the outdoors. If you like concerts, sporting events, movies, camping,and amusement parks but also can stay at home and enjoy a good meal, then we probably have some common ground to work with. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile! There are three types of first dates in my opinion. I'm happy with any and all of them.Typical dates: Movies, Coffee, Drinks, Dancing, Dinner.Dates people say they want, but I have yet to see: Picnic, Walk on the beach, Walk around they city.Date I'd love to go on but isn't really first date material: Go to an amusement park, share a meal there, walk, talk, and ride until they close.

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