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Barbra, 39
United States, Illinois, Skokie

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About Me

I am strong independent female who is also very kind and compassionate. I would like to find someone who believes love is about taking care of each other during the good and bad times. I want someone who wants to hear about my day and can hug me when I have had a rough one. I would love to be able to be there for that same guy when in needs to be reminded that he loved and that there is someone is this World who truly cares about him. I love to run and am looking forward to nice weather so I can run outside. I also LOVE a boxing fitness class i go do ***times a week, but no worries I only enjoy hitting the back not people. I am the youngest of 8, so I have tons of nieces and nephews who I adore. I am a Special Education Teacher who specializes in students with behavior and emotional disorders. I look more like a kindergarten teacher, but I am fairly feisty and tough so I can hold my own with the toughest of teenagers and men ;) . I love my job. I am so lucky to have found the career I was destined to have. My students may seem a little rough around the edges, but they are amazing. I am not materialistic at all. If I won a ton of money I would spend it on loved ones, good causes, and traveling around the World. I believe people and experiences are far more precious than objects. Life is meant to be lived not owned. The top thing on my bucket list is a Safari in South Africa, so I defiantly have an adventurous side. I think laying on a beach is nice, but I am more of an explorer than a beach bum. If I am near water I would rather be in it than laying in the sand. I am not great at small talk, but rather enjoy meaningful conversations. I also have a very playful side to me. I find guys who can be sarcastic and banter with me attractive. I am looking for a guy who wants to explore the World with me. Honesty is very important to me. I am far from perfect, but I am pretty amazing in a number of ways. :)If you find me interesting shoot me a message, if not good luck on your search to find what you are looking for!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching TV English Irish Thai
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