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Lucinda, 40
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

Offline, last seen Thu, 27 Nov 2025 12:11:24

About Me

Think I'm ready to give up on here.When I think there is a nice one and maybe a promise of it a start of anything,It don't turn out.Starting to think there is no one out there and they judge right away without knowing about the person..I deserve better than the losers I have met around here.I'm really not a drama girl.Just want to be happy with someone. I'm single mom raising two kids. Looking for honesty,someone who isn't lazy,works ,has his own car,own place. Wanted to be treated nice and want to find someone who is understanding supportive and can have a heart.I'm somewhat quiet. Do anything i can for my kids. I don't put up with guys that don't treat a woman right.I'm independent and I think that's why some men are not interested.I want to be taken care of this time .Don't want to play games. Finding it hard to find someone in my area..Ask me a question to get conversation started.I have nothing to hide.Looking for someone around my age or younger.Want to find someone to date steady and then go from there..Tired of getting played and getting hurt.So if its all a game I'm not interested.I'm a great girl who no one wants to take a chance with around here..Most of the men judge by looks and want a pretty face and a great body..I'm not perfect but i know how to treat someone right. I'M pretty and not flaky. I want a man who takes care of himself and is not insecure..I'd rather be alone than in bad company. Miss having a partner, but it's better than being in a miserable relationship.Everyone of my friends say I'm a great girl and the ones that fall for me are not my type or just turn out to be liars and users.Please have a picture...This year want to work on finding someone to be in my life..I'm a really great girl:).no one takes a chance.I'm not full of drama..i hate that.I keep my guard up.because i been hurt... Think you look my way and pass me by without a chance..im a sweetheart . im just sayin too much on here i think.I wanna date someone and see where it goes and find someone who is not afraid of commitment.together we could work it out what we want from each other. Some of you that do contact me judge to fast and not even give this a chance.I'm a great girl who makes mistakes.Chatted with a nice guy on here and decided before even meeting me to not talk to me anymore.Never met and he judged me as nuts I guess, think some women on here I heard are nutty.Don't know where things would've gone because think he had some issues going on because of the nutty girls hes been chatting with on here.I'm just a simple girl whos looking for someone to make me happy again and have companionship. Maybe a casual dinner, movie, drinks.Guess it all depends on who I meet, then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Trying this again!! I would love to be in a happy, healthy relationship again with the right person. That is my goal. At my age i'm being more selective because i want to go out with the right guy not going on a million dates with the wrong ones. Communication is a must!! Yes i have tattoos and a couple piercings so if you have a problem with that so sorry! I say never judge a book by it's cover. I'm a very laid back chill girl yet fun at the same time! I like to go out to the bars on occasion. What's life without a lil fun crazy bar action every now and again. I'm in my 30s but i look young and have great genetics. I'm always told i look like i'm in my 20's when people meet me in person. I'm a good girl and looking for a wonderful guy to spend my time with. I want a man not a guy that is overly sensitive about everything. If i wanted to date a chick i would become lesbian. I'm not looking to date anyone with kids. No offense if u have them but I've been down that road already and it's difficult. I'm a die hard Bears fan. Family is super important to me and it has to be also with whoever im with. If you're gonna message me please make sure you have clear recent pics and not wearing shades so i can see your eyes and face i mean lets keep it real it's all about attraction first!Anyhow im keeping this short and sweet anythin else you wanna know just ask =)Also guys save the cheeseball pickup lines for a different girl...lol seriously!

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  • Jerri from Petersburg | Woman | 36 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    O.K now that we have established I am sarcastic, but never boring..:) ....if you are active, intelligent, good humored, content with life and like to act like an eight year old (on occasion) feel free to message me :) Disclaimer: Shall EXCLUDE perverts that like to show their junk and overall losers who are on here for kicks. Haunted house. No wimps allowed.

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  • Ruth from Petersburg | Woman | 39 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Princess Leia, not Rapunzel. I tried this site a few weeks ago and have to admit I was disappointed by the shallow results. I am not here for a random shag. I don't need to advertise for that, were that the kind of woman I am. I'm a single mom of one teenage daughter. Her dad passed away a few years ago and I have had one boyfriend since. I have a degree in Anthropology, though I have been an ER veterinary technician for much of my life. So you could say I love people and animals, not necessarily in that order. ;-) I love music, rocks, bones, wood, travel, water... I love making or refinishing furniture and am working on learning upholstery. I sew quite a bit. I enjoy keeping a tidy, comfortable home where people can relax and are well-fed. I am tired of being single, for sure, but mostly, I'm bored out of my skull! I'm self-sufficient. I don't need anyone to take care of my daughter or me. I just want adult conversation and someone to do things with. The caveat is that I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship. So if you think you're going to drop in, with the moon in one hand, stars in the other, and I'm going to cave, forget it. I've been single for almost 4 years. I know what I want. I'm not going to manipulate anybody and I don't want to be manipulated. I just want to have fun, and if it turns into something more, great. While my IQ and education on paper look important, I would much rather be a mother, or working on furniture or taking care of animals. I find a man who can do things that I can't, who can fix things with his hands, who can remain calm in rough waters, who knows what family means and how to take care of one... A man who is a little old fashioned, with integrity, honor and respect, is a man worth his weight in gold. If that man has a relationship with God, I am over the moon. I attend church regularly. I would like to see one of my entrepreneurial projects (or more) take off. Farming and fishing for survival seems like a really great idea right now.; a dream I gave up to be a mother. Currently, I settle for antiquing, but, you know. You've seen the movies.Music: in many languages, classic rock, classic country (love Merle! as did Bob Marley, just so we're clear... Musica nortena, mariachi, cumbias, rock en espanol..... I love martial arts films, and cowboys. I also have a number of tattoos from my younger days. I'm not big on sports, or sitting still watching balls go back and forth for any amount of time, but besides that, I'm up for about anything... Or even a car. I would really just like to find someone to hang out with. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I wish you well in all your endeavors. Be excellent!Ademas, hablo espanol, asi es que si no hablas ingles, o quieres prefieres leer la novela en espanol, mandame mensaje y se lo traduzco. No hay problema! ;-) Coffee is always good. Somewhere easy to talk to each other.

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