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Lucinda, 40
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

Offline, last seen Sat, 04 Jul 2026 16:24:05

About Me

Think I'm ready to give up on here.When I think there is a nice one and maybe a promise of it a start of anything,It don't turn out.Starting to think there is no one out there and they judge right away without knowing about the person..I deserve better than the losers I have met around here.I'm really not a drama girl.Just want to be happy with someone. I'm single mom raising two kids. Looking for honesty,someone who isn't lazy,works ,has his own car,own place. Wanted to be treated nice and want to find someone who is understanding supportive and can have a heart.I'm somewhat quiet. Do anything i can for my kids. I don't put up with guys that don't treat a woman right.I'm independent and I think that's why some men are not interested.I want to be taken care of this time .Don't want to play games. Finding it hard to find someone in my area..Ask me a question to get conversation started.I have nothing to hide.Looking for someone around my age or younger.Want to find someone to date steady and then go from there..Tired of getting played and getting hurt.So if its all a game I'm not interested.I'm a great girl who no one wants to take a chance with around here..Most of the men judge by looks and want a pretty face and a great body..I'm not perfect but i know how to treat someone right. I'M pretty and not flaky. I want a man who takes care of himself and is not insecure..I'd rather be alone than in bad company. Miss having a partner, but it's better than being in a miserable relationship.Everyone of my friends say I'm a great girl and the ones that fall for me are not my type or just turn out to be liars and users.Please have a picture...This year want to work on finding someone to be in my life..I'm a really great girl:).no one takes a chance.I'm not full of drama..i hate that.I keep my guard up.because i been hurt... Think you look my way and pass me by without a chance..im a sweetheart . im just sayin too much on here i think.I wanna date someone and see where it goes and find someone who is not afraid of commitment.together we could work it out what we want from each other. Some of you that do contact me judge to fast and not even give this a chance.I'm a great girl who makes mistakes.Chatted with a nice guy on here and decided before even meeting me to not talk to me anymore.Never met and he judged me as nuts I guess, think some women on here I heard are nutty.Don't know where things would've gone because think he had some issues going on because of the nutty girls hes been chatting with on here.I'm just a simple girl whos looking for someone to make me happy again and have companionship. Maybe a casual dinner, movie, drinks.Guess it all depends on who I meet, then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Debra

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    It's impossible to fill these damn things out. Best I can do is throw out some basics and hope that I don't sound like a nutcase, stage 5 clinger, control freak; emotional disaster; etc...hence why I am not cutting and pasting from someone else's profile... ALSO- Let me advise that I am insanely sarcastic...most find me absolutely hilarious. (True story) So if I respond to an inquiry with a smarty pants reply...please do not take it to heart...Me:Not bitter. Not selfish. Not needy. Simple. Easy going. Cynical!! Ironic and fun. Add** SARCASTIC I work hard. I love my job and dedicate an immense amount of time and effort towards it.I give everything I have to everyone around me. I tend to be the one who takes care of everyone else and the first to jump in when something needs done. Im quiet...but opinionated. I tend to watch versus join...not to say I won't, but I savor the lost art of being observant.Objectively, I am looking for the complete package.(Who isn't...right?) I want the fireworks and the passion. Its important that my counter-part is a good communicator because I tend to lack in that department (one of my flaws). I need someone who is responsible and hard working, with goals and dreams! I am hoping to meet someone who is inspiring and that I can learn something new from. Having similar interests is important but I think its just as important to have individuality. I don't live in the past and my future relationships shouldn't either. I don't do drama and require honesty in all situations! I would have to say that is my number one...HONESTY.I am a sucker for a great personality, killer smile, blunt honesty, dynamic sense of humor *** something that makes you unique. I have shallow tendencies...but I'm also very defiant to my own idealistic perceptions. Just trying to figure it out : ) (Perhaps I have been focusing on all the wrong things...this I can neither confirm no deny)I'm kind of a homebody. Not intentionally. Perhaps I lack inspiration? You:Should be unselfish. Friendly to others. Being successful is a great thing; but I'd hope that you still have some humility. You should be secure with who you are and what you want. The ability to communicate would be an amazing plus. I'm here to be surprised. To be inspired into something new and amazing. I'd like to meet someone who is easy to hang out with. I want my date to take charge of the situation and make the decisions. It does not have to be over the top or crazy! I am a simple girl!

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  • Shauna from Petersburg | Woman | 36 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm of French and Scots/Irish descent ....very passionate! I love to have fun and appreciate finding balance in life. Most of the time I'm friendly and outgoing, but sometimes I can be shy. I'm very genuine, a deep person with a huge heart. I'm an all or nothing kind of girl. My faith is very important to me.-my time was 3:55. After business school I came to realize what I've known all along; I belong in health care/nursing. I learned a lot and loved working there. I am currently a Neonatal ICU nurse and have found my true calling in it. I look forward to what the future holds. Politically, I consider myself independent with conservative tendencies. I'd also have to say I'm more a collector of experiences than of things. I feel like a NE Coast (NY or DC) girl trapped in a Texan's body. I'm looking for my best friend. Someone to do life with :) Why am I still single? He hasn't found me yet. I'll be happy when he does :) (Also, just coming off of graveyard shifts at the hospital (Nov 1st) for the past 5 yrs. This and working with mostly women makes it difficult to meet a good guy.

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  • Edwina from Petersburg | Woman | 37 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a simple girl who loves to hunt, fish and go mudding... I am looking for someone who can hang out and have a good time with me without trying so hard. I have 2 kids and 2 dogs. I love all 4 of them very much!!! If you are ready for the challenge then I look forward to meeting you. A first for me isn't fancy restaurants. Keep it simple and fun!!!

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