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Lucinda, 40
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 07:50:47

About Me

Think I'm ready to give up on here.When I think there is a nice one and maybe a promise of it a start of anything,It don't turn out.Starting to think there is no one out there and they judge right away without knowing about the person..I deserve better than the losers I have met around here.I'm really not a drama girl.Just want to be happy with someone. I'm single mom raising two kids. Looking for honesty,someone who isn't lazy,works ,has his own car,own place. Wanted to be treated nice and want to find someone who is understanding supportive and can have a heart.I'm somewhat quiet. Do anything i can for my kids. I don't put up with guys that don't treat a woman right.I'm independent and I think that's why some men are not interested.I want to be taken care of this time .Don't want to play games. Finding it hard to find someone in my area..Ask me a question to get conversation started.I have nothing to hide.Looking for someone around my age or younger.Want to find someone to date steady and then go from there..Tired of getting played and getting hurt.So if its all a game I'm not interested.I'm a great girl who no one wants to take a chance with around here..Most of the men judge by looks and want a pretty face and a great body..I'm not perfect but i know how to treat someone right. I'M pretty and not flaky. I want a man who takes care of himself and is not insecure..I'd rather be alone than in bad company. Miss having a partner, but it's better than being in a miserable relationship.Everyone of my friends say I'm a great girl and the ones that fall for me are not my type or just turn out to be liars and users.Please have a picture...This year want to work on finding someone to be in my life..I'm a really great girl:).no one takes a chance.I'm not full of drama..i hate that.I keep my guard up.because i been hurt... Think you look my way and pass me by without a chance..im a sweetheart . im just sayin too much on here i think.I wanna date someone and see where it goes and find someone who is not afraid of commitment.together we could work it out what we want from each other. Some of you that do contact me judge to fast and not even give this a chance.I'm a great girl who makes mistakes.Chatted with a nice guy on here and decided before even meeting me to not talk to me anymore.Never met and he judged me as nuts I guess, think some women on here I heard are nutty.Don't know where things would've gone because think he had some issues going on because of the nutty girls hes been chatting with on here.I'm just a simple girl whos looking for someone to make me happy again and have companionship. Maybe a casual dinner, movie, drinks.Guess it all depends on who I meet, then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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