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Debra, 37
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

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About Me

It's impossible to fill these damn things out. Best I can do is throw out some basics and hope that I don't sound like a nutcase, stage 5 clinger, control freak; emotional disaster; etc...hence why I am not cutting and pasting from someone else's profile... ALSO- Let me advise that I am insanely sarcastic...most find me absolutely hilarious. (True story) So if I respond to an inquiry with a smarty pants reply...please do not take it to heart...Me:Not bitter. Not selfish. Not needy. Simple. Easy going. Cynical!! Ironic and fun. Add** SARCASTIC I work hard. I love my job and dedicate an immense amount of time and effort towards it.I give everything I have to everyone around me. I tend to be the one who takes care of everyone else and the first to jump in when something needs done. Im quiet...but opinionated. I tend to watch versus join...not to say I won't, but I savor the lost art of being observant.Objectively, I am looking for the complete package.(Who isn't...right?) I want the fireworks and the passion. Its important that my counter-part is a good communicator because I tend to lack in that department (one of my flaws). I need someone who is responsible and hard working, with goals and dreams! I am hoping to meet someone who is inspiring and that I can learn something new from. Having similar interests is important but I think its just as important to have individuality. I don't live in the past and my future relationships shouldn't either. I don't do drama and require honesty in all situations! I would have to say that is my number one...HONESTY.I am a sucker for a great personality, killer smile, blunt honesty, dynamic sense of humor *** something that makes you unique. I have shallow tendencies...but I'm also very defiant to my own idealistic perceptions. Just trying to figure it out : ) (Perhaps I have been focusing on all the wrong things...this I can neither confirm no deny)I'm kind of a homebody. Not intentionally. Perhaps I lack inspiration? You:Should be unselfish. Friendly to others. Being successful is a great thing; but I'd hope that you still have some humility. You should be secure with who you are and what you want. The ability to communicate would be an amazing plus. I'm here to be surprised. To be inspired into something new and amazing. I'd like to meet someone who is easy to hang out with. I want my date to take charge of the situation and make the decisions. It does not have to be over the top or crazy! I am a simple girl!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Italian
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