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Crystal
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Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
I like adventure and spontaneity. Life is too short and too damn serious.... have fun and enjoy the ride! Looking for energetic guy that is over playing games and knows what he wants. I am a quality girl looking for a great guy that has his head on straight. I have a lot of energy and enjoying life and all it offers these days. I never thought life would look like this today but I am glad it does! I feel fortunate to have the life I have but sometimes think it could be missing something. As for intent I don't like any of the choices provided on this site. I'm looking to date and eventually develop into something overtime but no pressure right off the bat. But definitely not here just to just hook up so if that's ur mo keep moving. I have a great laugh and I love to use it. I can be silly and goofy and would love someone to be right there with me on the same page. If you are all serious all of the time....probably not the best match for me...unless you are looking for someone to drag the FUN out of you...because I will! Id Love to find A playful guy n compatibility is key but not always easy to find. My ideal guy could be described as Clean cut, ambitious, stylish, solid character with an edge. Bonus points if u speak Spanish! I work out daily. Mostly run the bay by my house. I love it...it keeps me sane. Other than that I go to the gym or take an occasional hike. I would like "my guy" to share this athletic lifestyle but don't want a guy that lives at the gym either. Balance guys!! I don't want to have to compete with the gym to spend time with my guy. I believe in forever love and hope that I am lucky enough to find it. My parents are still happily married and I would like to follow their example.A fav quote..."a real woman can do it by herself....but a real man won't let her."That quote nicely sums up me and the man Id like to find...something short and sweet to test the waters.
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Ivy
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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-41
I'm going to try a different approach. Here is a list of things I want to do with someone. If all of these sound like fun to you, and you're cool with the "Rules and Stuff" at the end, then message me!1) Go the State Fair. I haven't been to the fair to just walk around and eat and go on rides since I was in high school (do the math, that was a while ago). I want to eat some deep-fried Oreos, win a couple stuffed animals, and make myself sick on some rides.3) Go to a Cardinals game, tailgate with some fun people, and make myself hoarse from cheering so much.4) Explore new and fun places to hike and hope for some great views along the way (and maybe some cute photo opps as well).5) Order in dinner, cuddle up on the couch, and watch movies or play video games...).8) Try a bunch of new restaurants around town (not all in one day silly).9) Go horseback riding.***Road trip to Vegas (would you believe I've only been there once, and I ended up with a migraine and couldn't even go do anything!).***Road trip to Disneyland!!..hint hint.) RULES AND STUFF This list is in no particular order. I did put the stuff that would require overnight stays towards the end, cause let's face it, that's not going to be happening for a while.You have to be ok with the fact that I have kids. Don't worry, they won't be tagging along for any of this. My girls are very special, I won't introduce them to any guy unless I trust he'll be sticking around for a while. You have to earn the privilege to meet them, after all, I only have them 50% of the time, so if I'm sharing my time, it's gotta be for someone pretty awesome.Last but not least, you do have to possess some additional qualities, a few of which are listed below. I can't just be running off on these fun adventures with someone I don't get along with...Always honest, know how to treat a woman, great sense of humor, enjoy life, love music and movies, value family and friends, take pride in how you look, great at texting...I think that's a good start. :) I want to be taken out and shown a good time (and no, not like THAT lol). I really believe in a traditional first date - the guy asks the girl out, he plans the night. Something fun, where we can talk and get to know each other. You can never go wrong with a yummy dinner! :)
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Cristina
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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-41
The most wonderful notion of knowing what you need romantically.No longer do you go open eyed into every encounter you have with an attractive member of the opposite sex. *** stand armed with a checklist of things that are necessary, unnecessary or forgivable.First, forgive me for all my romantic ideals, for my commands. I just want someone to challenge me, as well as meet and overcome all the mental obstacles I build around my heart. I demand, I desire, I deny. I am a Rubik’s cube of romantic opportunity. I am all intentions, I have plans, I have plans about plans. I will fight, grab and want. I need for you to do the same. Do not tell me you don’t know, tell me what you want. Tell me you want for nothing. Tell me that it is working, or it isn’t. I can’t read you mind, so I say what’s on mine. Blunt, perhaps. Or maybe I just know that moments are precious and if I have expectations then I won’t spend trying to find out what I want. Or finding out you don’t really want me. Fight for me. I want a confidante. I want someone who will grab me up and laugh loudly with me. Be foolish with me. Touch my elbow, or arm. Let me know that you, like me, sometimes just have to reach out and touch. Double check, that this, us, is as real as it’ll ever be. I don’t want the moon, don’t throw a lasso over it and bring it to my door. Don’t bring a boombox under my window. Don’t even pick me up after my sister’Just indulge me on my silly requests. Get my jokes, even when they are horrid. Understand me. Listen to my music. Kiss me often. Do something with me. Let’s build something, or make something. Hell, let’s invent something. I just want it to be about challenging each other, or understanding the horrible days. Let me cry, I am not pleasant nor pretty when I am snotty and weepy, but just let me get it out. Love my pets. Get along with animals, if you don’t I just may have to kick you to the curb. Unconditional love from an animal is something a lot of people don’t understand, but a hell of a lot of people do. I will cook for you, I will come home from a long day and throw on some sweats and botch. I will try to be positive. Our lives are not a J.Crew weekend Lookbooks. I am not always beautiful in the morning; usually I am not, in fact.I am sarcastic. I am sassy, when need be. I will stand up for what I believe. I will fight my own fights. But you having my back is always nice.I drink beer, and please don’ I drink tequila. I eat meat. I devour salads. I dance, enthusiastically and wildly. I want to have a garden. I don’t want to have more kids until I am emotionally, and financially ready. I want to fall head over heels and yet I don’t want to give up my independence.I call it romantic despair, and it really just gets more despairing. Honestly, I know you, sir, are out there. I know. I feel it when I finish books like The Age of Innocence, I know that once I find you, or you find me, or we are thrown together by the universe that it won’t be perfect. It will be hard, and work. I can’t wait, though because once you get to know me you know if I want something, really really want something, I work damn hard to get it, or as close as I can get.