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Essie, 34
United States, New York, Bay Shore

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About Me

!! Actually, I don't fit the stereotype. You won't see big hair and a heart tattoo with "Vinny" inscribed in it on this girl! ; ) I can come across as shy at first when first meeting new people, but my true self comes out to play once I get to know you and feel comfortable with you. I am fun, comical at times, caring, easy going, and honest. My family is very important to me and yours should be too. I fly out & visit them about twice a year. My current passions in life, aside from my family friends and faith, is my career. I just began working for a local company that I have wanted to work for since I've been in school. I love my job and learning new things! I work with severely physically disabled children in occupational therapy. I get to teach these kids how to particpate in their self care and enjoy age appropriate play despite their disability. I feel so blessed to work with these children!! They are so resilient and happy!! They inspire me and influence me all the time. It is fantastic to be able to look forward to what I do for work. I also like to go to restaurants, hiking with my dog, spending time with my awesome friends and family. I would love to find a best friend that I am attracted to and have a unique chemistry with. I obviously need to be with someone who can be honest, knows how to communicate and also has a passion or a drive in his life. You actually have to be able to do/be these things, not just say you do. Do you love what you do? Do you have a great sense of humor? What do you do for fun? I like people who are down to earth but also have a creative side and a willingness to go out & try new things once in a while. If this sounds interesting or if you have any questions for me, drop me a line & lets see where it goes!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Middle Eastern Turkish Action Biography History Sci-Fi Boxing
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