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Paulette, 52

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About Me

I have been a single mom for over 10 years focused on raising my daughter who graduated college this year. I am at the point in life where I am looking for a relationship with someone that has common interests, shares same values as I do and does not live too far away. I spend my free time with friends and family as often as I can. I have been at the same job for over 30 years and do some travel with that. I typically migrate to warmer weather destinations when planning vacations. Love going up north but not a fan of the snow. Would rather go from late spring to early fall. Also spend time on Cape Cod. My next house will be near or on a beach someday. I exercise at least 5 days a week. Prefer to run outside but have gym membership when weather does not permit. I love all music except for rap, even started listening to country. I love to cook and entertain. I am looking to start a relationship that could possibly turn into a life long partner. My preference would be to have a drink in a quiet restauraunt or take a walk on the beach to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Michelle

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Internet dating is bizarre...Personally, I connect first with most people’-versa to the many men that have passed by my photos as well. However, supposedly Internet Dating is the now-a-day way to meet someone…but I’m not buying it. I still believe there has to be a better way but until I figure out what that is; I’ll try and make the best of it…Shall I start by saying how I love to travel and list all the things I want in a man...Blah, Blah, Blah....Look- what I've found from a lot of experience is, Chemistry is chemistry, it's a mystery. Why we find sparks with one person and not another-who knows?...But, compatibility is the next layer of chemistry and you have to discover that part of someone’s personality over time, not over a vente half-caf latte with non-fat. So I'd prefer to try and give you a bit more insight about me so we don't waste each other’s time.I enjoy good conversations about all types of topics. Nothing turns a girl on like a great mind-great conversation- now that's sexy! I am very creative and enjoy writing, painting, graphic design, and I’m always coming up with new ideas for my business. I'm passionate in all areas of my life, I enjoy being, spontaneous and adventurous with my partner and love passionate flirtatious banter. I enjoy doing some hiking, I go to the gym but only because I have to but can't really say I love it...yep, there I said it. I'm a beach girl - love the ocean but the mountains too. But I'm not 20 years old anymore and I'm never going to be a size two again...But I take my health serious and love to eat healthy and stay active but I enjoy life moment-by-moment-so some days I enjoy Chocolate and Champagne, possibly just after finishing my Kale and Spinach smoothie and an hour and a half of yoga! I have a lot of very close friends and I love socializing and donating my time to charities that I'm passionate about. So basically: I'm creative, funny, I can be sarcastic at times and I hate long drawn-out explanations...just give me the bottom-line...Now that's Irony... isn't it... being that my profile is so long..., LOL. However, I truly am loving, caring and have a big heart and I'm extremely honest and I just don't have a lot of patience with arrogance, or someone who doesn't treat others with complete respect. I have fun writing, hence why this is so long. (Thanks for hanging in there) I've been published a few times in non-fiction but recently I wanted to try fiction and I'm having so much fun writing a romantic comedy. I love being around other writers, great storytelling is a wonderful gift and so is making someone laugh. I'm only looking for men who are happy with their lives and truly know how to laugh and of course, a loving, kind personality. I’m a sales account manager for Industrial buildings’ energy efficiency, as well as, an international speaker/advocate for brain tumor patients. I help educate medical professionals and raise public awareness about pituitary and brain tumors. This has kept me very busy for the past 13 years and I love it. I deal with a lot of people with very serious health concerns so I really don't have time for drama in my spare time-I make sure I surround myself with people that know how to enjoy life and do their best even when life throws them challenges. I appreciate quality time spent with someone that I have mutual interest with; I'm into quality verses quantity. And, I see humor in mostly everything.- So please... if it bothers you that on many topics my views maybe more left than right, then we are not obviously a match. I seem to receive a lot of mail from men who have beautiful Harley’s or other types of nice motorcycles, so I just want to be polite and tell you I'm not a motorcycle person-at all, so we probably won’t be a good match. I see a lot of people with Traumatic Brain Injury-so I’m not a motorcycle fan, but that’s my deal not yours, so ride on and enjoy, just be safe.I'm not a big drinker either, I like a nice glass of wine here or there and I enjoy socializing with friends where we enjoy a drink but that’s about it. I have a passion for learning about new things so I look forward to good conversations and as I said, I love humor and I love a good laugh. My favorite is the kind of laughing that makes your sides hurt and you snort trying to catch your breath.So In a nutshell, I'm just your normal girl, who doesn't have children, who lives a wonderful, interesting but normal life, who is looking for someone I click with to have fun, laugh and enjoy each other and see where our relationship takes us. I believe there is an ass for every seat and there is someone out there just perfect for me. Most likely not “perfect” but perfect for each other. And for those that have read this entire novel -Thank you! Just trying to weed out a few whack jobs...So thank you for taking the first step to getting to know me. I look forward to getting to know you as well. A first date is a lot of pressure and can be not nearly as much fun as the second date, so I prefer to just meet for a casual drink or coffee, with not a lot of fluff. I’d rather someone feel comfortable, it’s much easier for me to think of fun date ideas after I get to know someone.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Age from 45ish-55ishLive within 75 milesNo casual "encounters"No drugsNot marriedNo smoking

  • Jean

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have been out of the dating scene for a long time. My son is in college and still lives with me. I have always set a good example for him. I am a lady but I have a lot of Tom-boy in me. I have my own business and I'm very independent. I am considerate of other peoples feelings and I would like the same in return. I take very good care of myself. I love to hike and to enjoy the outdoors. I'm honest and do not play games. I expect the same. I don't like pushy people. They scare me. I have to move at my own pace. I'm very sensitive but strong at the same time. Most of all, I have morals that I live by. I'm old school.

  • Anita

    Online

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I welcome the simple indulgences in life. I enjoy dressing up and feeling feminine, but I am just as comfortable in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with my hair pulled up. My focus is more on enjoying the moment than how I look. I take pleasure in dancing and singing (although I am not necessarily good at either). I enjoy the beauty of the outdoors and partake in long walks, hiking, backpacking, kayaking (own a 2-seater!), fishing, camping, biking and snowshoeing. I've competed in various sports throughout my life and attended college on a basketball and academic scholarship. My free time is filled with attending sporting events, movies, reading, volunteering, the attractions of the city, and visiting with friends or family. I also relish "down time" and the pleasures of cuddling in front of a fire while listening to music or watching a movie. I'm open to exploring other's interests and activities. I'm well-balanced, educated, optimistic, out-going, affectionate, and a good communicator and listener. Frequently I laugh at myself, as I appreciate a sense of humor. I have a sound job, am financially stable and am proud of my accomplishments. I have lived a meaningful life and wear my wrinkles and scars with pride. My greatest success in life is having raised two amazing kids, who are now 21 and 23 years old. What do I want in a relationship? I am interested in meeting a man who is positive, intelligent, successful, affectionate, open-minded, with a sense of humor who can put up with my silliness and who enjoys many of the same activities that I do. I want someone who cares about others, is friendly and outgoing, is secure in who he is and is giving, respectful and trusting in a relationship. He should be proud enough in our relationship to hold my hand, hug me and kiss me in public without caring what others think. I am attracted to tall men and I need to feel that chemistry and passion between us. Please only contact me if you are seeking a relationship, as I am not inerested in casual dating. I want to find my best friend, companion and lover. I am happy with my life. I would like to share it with someone and learn and grow from each other. I look forward to what the future has to offer. Contact me if you are interested in a similar journey! Surprise me....

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