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Anita, 54
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

I welcome the simple indulgences in life. I enjoy dressing up and feeling feminine, but I am just as comfortable in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with my hair pulled up. My focus is more on enjoying the moment than how I look. I take pleasure in dancing and singing (although I am not necessarily good at either). I enjoy the beauty of the outdoors and partake in long walks, hiking, backpacking, kayaking (own a 2-seater!), fishing, camping, biking and snowshoeing. I've competed in various sports throughout my life and attended college on a basketball and academic scholarship. My free time is filled with attending sporting events, movies, reading, volunteering, the attractions of the city, and visiting with friends or family. I also relish "down time" and the pleasures of cuddling in front of a fire while listening to music or watching a movie. I'm open to exploring other's interests and activities. I'm well-balanced, educated, optimistic, out-going, affectionate, and a good communicator and listener. Frequently I laugh at myself, as I appreciate a sense of humor. I have a sound job, am financially stable and am proud of my accomplishments. I have lived a meaningful life and wear my wrinkles and scars with pride. My greatest success in life is having raised two amazing kids, who are now 21 and 23 years old. What do I want in a relationship? I am interested in meeting a man who is positive, intelligent, successful, affectionate, open-minded, with a sense of humor who can put up with my silliness and who enjoys many of the same activities that I do. I want someone who cares about others, is friendly and outgoing, is secure in who he is and is giving, respectful and trusting in a relationship. He should be proud enough in our relationship to hold my hand, hug me and kiss me in public without caring what others think. I am attracted to tall men and I need to feel that chemistry and passion between us. Please only contact me if you are seeking a relationship, as I am not inerested in casual dating. I want to find my best friend, companion and lover. I am happy with my life. I would like to share it with someone and learn and grow from each other. I look forward to what the future has to offer. Contact me if you are interested in a similar journey! Surprise me....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Horror Martial Arts Romance Thriller Dirt Bike Racing
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    You are probably wondering what I have to offer you, right? Well, I am a fun loving woman who loves to laugh, has a great sense of humor and a man who can make me laugh is very sexy! I love to go to sporting events and am a Giants and Niner's fan. You will never hear me complain about your watching sports! I enjoy live music, going to concerts and taking day trips to explore places I haven't been before. You could find my nose in a good book, going to the movies, talking walks, dancing and generally up for anything fun! I am looking for a man who I can be myself around and being the hopeless romantic that I am, I would love to find a man who when looking at me, makes me feel like I am the only woman in the room....ahhhhhhh!!!! I love to get dressed up and feel girly but also don't have a problem getting dirty or heading out without hair and makeup done.- that's ok....I will keep busy while you are gone!!I am very affectionate, outgoing and young at heart. I have a great sense of humor and don't take myself seriously. I have learned to not sweat the small stuff and enjoy what life has to offer. I love to snuggle, cuddle and will always make the man in my life feel special.I am very close to my grown sons and their wives and love spending time with them. Nothing is more important than family!You don't want to miss the opportunity to meet me (ha, ha,)!!! If you don't, I wish you only the best of luck in your search and thank you for reading my profile. After talking or texting a couple of times, I think it's best to meet.....and coffee or a glass of wine works for me!!!!

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  • Diana from Irvington | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello! Right off just want to say! WHAT THE HECK! Things sure have changed in regard to dating since last I was. JEEZ!!! lol I'm a Mom of 2. One lives on her own and my son just moved back in, temporarily. I love to listen to music. I enjoy most music except for RAP! I'm an EAGLES FAN! Would love to find someone with that in common. Can't believe the number of men who really don't watch football!YES, those are recent pics, YES, I have my own teeth, that's just how I smile. Oh yeah! I don't wear false eyelashes! THANKS DAD! :)I'm not materialistic so, what you have won't impress me! I would like to find someone I have a lot in common with and also have that SPARK! (wouldn't we all?)If you're interested in getting to know me, send me a message. If you aren't - Good Luck finding that special someone! :)

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