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Anita, 54
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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I welcome the simple indulgences in life. I enjoy dressing up and feeling feminine, but I am just as comfortable in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with my hair pulled up. My focus is more on enjoying the moment than how I look. I take pleasure in dancing and singing (although I am not necessarily good at either). I enjoy the beauty of the outdoors and partake in long walks, hiking, backpacking, kayaking (own a 2-seater!), fishing, camping, biking and snowshoeing. I've competed in various sports throughout my life and attended college on a basketball and academic scholarship. My free time is filled with attending sporting events, movies, reading, volunteering, the attractions of the city, and visiting with friends or family. I also relish "down time" and the pleasures of cuddling in front of a fire while listening to music or watching a movie. I'm open to exploring other's interests and activities. I'm well-balanced, educated, optimistic, out-going, affectionate, and a good communicator and listener. Frequently I laugh at myself, as I appreciate a sense of humor. I have a sound job, am financially stable and am proud of my accomplishments. I have lived a meaningful life and wear my wrinkles and scars with pride. My greatest success in life is having raised two amazing kids, who are now 21 and 23 years old. What do I want in a relationship? I am interested in meeting a man who is positive, intelligent, successful, affectionate, open-minded, with a sense of humor who can put up with my silliness and who enjoys many of the same activities that I do. I want someone who cares about others, is friendly and outgoing, is secure in who he is and is giving, respectful and trusting in a relationship. He should be proud enough in our relationship to hold my hand, hug me and kiss me in public without caring what others think. I am attracted to tall men and I need to feel that chemistry and passion between us. Please only contact me if you are seeking a relationship, as I am not inerested in casual dating. I want to find my best friend, companion and lover. I am happy with my life. I would like to share it with someone and learn and grow from each other. I look forward to what the future has to offer. Contact me if you are interested in a similar journey! Surprise me....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Horror Martial Arts Romance Thriller Dirt Bike Racing
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  • Shelby from Irvington | Woman | 55 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I’ve spent a lot of years raising my kids and building a career. Now the kids are pretty much doing their own thing and my career is moving along, so I think it’s time for me! I have the same best friends that I had in elementary, junior high and high school, and enjoy as much social time with them as possible. I have a great family and also love to get together with them as much as I can. While my life is full, busy and basically really great, I would love to develop a relationship with a man who also enjoys his life, but is ready for a companion to spend great times with.I respect a man who is successful in any area, whether in his career, sports, art or music. I want a man who also has good friendships and preferably close ties to family, as well as a relationship with God.While I am a strong, self-sufficient woman, I have old-fashioned morals and love a man who is a gentleman and hope to find that some chivalry still lives!I know that my man is out there; the one who is secure,fun, loving and adventurous, not controlling, who will encourage my active life, as I will his, and then, we will have fun together and live our lives happily!I am hoping that there is a man left in the world who is actually strong and secure enough to plan a date and court a woman! When it comes to a good date, I love it when someone thinks about something nice to do and plans it out. I like a first date to be a good time to get to know each other, so part of it should be wining and/or dining for that opportunity to have a good conversation, but then, something fun, romantic or memorable is nice, even if it's something simple, like watching the sun set or walking or even sitting on the beach.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, or personal use-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile information or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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  • Eileen from Irvington | Woman | 54 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a laid back person with a sense of humor. I enjoy going to yard sales and finding " unusual" things. I also like to find old furniture and restore it. Im into painting, decorating,working in my yard, or hanging out with friends and family.I am a very caring, compassionate person. I cant stand to see someone go hungry or do without something they need. As far as my taste in music. I enjoy oldies and Old Rock a n Roll. Journey, Toto, etc..Love to cookout with friends,or just stay home and watch T.V Also working in my yard in the summertime..Anyway, good luck to everyone on your search, I hope you find your soulmate!! BTW if you only want to hold a conversation once with me, please just move along to the next person..Thanks First date.. Hmmmmm.. Probably something simple , lunch, dinner ,

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  • Elisabeth from Irvington | Woman | 53 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I like to help people, I try to help people everyday! As you get older, we realize that the most important things in the world are not materialism, but family, friends and making Beautiful Memories!!! I am A Strong Christian, and I do try to Live my Life in a way that is pleasing to God!! If you are looking for a friend with benefits, or a one nighter....then Move on to the next one!! Im not into Games,and playing with one's emotions! I consider myself to be a high energy person that will take the good out of the bad! I like to be positive, and am optimistic about a relationship with the right person! I like to be spontaneous and am open to trying different things in life! I look forward to meeting my soulmate for the so called '"Golden Years''.... So take a chance and hopefully you and I will do our dance...for Happiness :) Just one more thing, if you do not believe in Jesus Christ, knowing that he did indeed die for our sins...then please MOVE ON..! To have lunch or Dinner together, then maybe have coffee and take a walk & talk!

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