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Carmen, 43

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About Me

I love the sun, summer time's my favorite!!! Thank you for swimming in my pond! I'm looking for long term! I like funny, honest, and a man that want's a relationship with one person! Smells good, doesn't smoke, or has to have a drink everyday! is comfortable with who he is. Confident. Easy on the eye's!someone who just keeps it real! I don't mind someone that has children, and not looking to have anymore! You won't be disappointed! take a chance, hook yourself a sunfish. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Mamie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Passionate, caring, committed are just a few of the adjectives that describe me. I\'m an outgoing person with many interests. I aspire to be content, happy & fulfilled with or without money, material success or the approval of others.

  • Judy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok so this is me: You get what you see. Authentic. Fun. Easy going. Independent, Confident and Free Spirited. I have great girlfriends that I spend a great deal of time with. They have gotten me through the worst and best times of my life and they will get a chance to give their opinions on you :) Don't be nervous! You will love them all. I have had my own business for twelve years as an interior designer. I love it. It is my passion and its where I spend A LOT of my energy...that is...AFTER I am the mom of two beautiful teenage daughters. They keep me on my toes and they are reason I get up every day. You must love girls if you will be part of this house :) We do have a boy... My little Shitzu. He is not always stranger friendly but a good judge of character! My friends would say that I am loyal, a confidant, strong and determined. I know how to have fun. I have been referred to as the energizer bunny because I am usually the last one standing. They also call me "DJ Ne" because I love all kinds of music and I am the girl with the ipod :) I love to dance!I LOVE to cook. I want a man that will cook with me. Not just eat! I love good wine. I love fine dining. I love entertaining. The parties, the barbeques, the get togethers...are almost always at my house. I need a guy that loves that too. I almost forgot! I LOVE COFFEE! It's a must in the morning! Grande Latte with 3 Splenda...or...at home it's the Keurig! If you are a coffe drinker...you know it!I love the sun, beach and water...laying out, boating, a picnic, jet skis. I am not very athletic (i was not blessed with that gene even though I try) but I love to watch and I will be right in the middle of it all. I just won't be the star and I am SO fine with that. I would really love to learn to golf and if you have the patience to teach me...well you just might be the one :) I love adventure. I love to travel. I LOVE rollercoasters even though I am scared to death! I won't be skiing in any type of environment (because I suck at it!As for you: well...I hope you are tall, smart and witty. If you can't make me laugh and if we can't laugh together...it's not gonna work. I hope you love to sit and have wine with me and have long conversations about anything and everything. I hope you have a great family and a set of friends that you can't wait to introduce me to. I hope you are passionate about your career but not overly obsessed. You know how to have fun on the weekend. I hope you are honest and kind and can be open with your feelings. I hope you bring something to the table that you can teach me. I want to learn more, experience things I've never experienced, and just grow mentally and spiritually with a man I respect. Is this all too deep and too much to ask and expect? I hope not. Cuz I am setting my stardards high and you should too... First dates...I prefer to leave it up to him however, to be honest..drinks or appetizers or something impromtu is best when meeting someone blindly. The initial meeting is just to be somewhere comfortable to be able to talk and get to know one another and see if there is a connection. Stress free. If that meeting goes well then lets start planning the fun stuff!

  • Wilma

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    In my free time I usually watch Netflix, play video games, read, dance, go on walks, hang out in the backyard with my neighbor, or go out with friends. I enjoy camping, fishing, hiking, races, bowling, movies, and whatever else a person can come up with to do. I've always liked trying new things as long as I have someone to try those things with. I do believe in God, but I am not religious. Believing in God is a choice. If you do not believe in God and think anyone who does is delusional or you are offended by Christian music then you can continue on your way. I will not push my views and beliefs on you. I will not belittle you for your beliefs. I may ask you about them and why you believe the things you do and I may tell you why I believe the things I do, but I will never try to convert you. My current goal is to become a Registered Nurse. I'm currently on my path of achieving that goal. However, my nursing classes don't start until ***. It's a long wait to get on with my life. I, also, want to write novels. Eventually, I want to get married and have kids. I have one kid and he's 7. His dad doesn't have anything to do with him. I'm very independent and enjoy my space. I don't want someone to fill up my time or is too needy. I am opinionated, honest, loyal, and real. I rather a person know exactly how and who I am right from the beginning so I don't waste their time. I would like to be treated the same. I'm a firm believer of the golden rule, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Sometimes, I slip up, but I'm always trying to treat people the way I want them to treat me. I don't put up with bullshit. I like to take things slow. There is no need to rush things. I don't like needy, clingy men. I don't like men who lie, cheat, does anything illegal, or gets in meaningless fights. I want a man who is honest, loyal, monogamous, humorous, reliable, good work ethic, responsible, is good with kids, slow to anger, understanding, shows me I am special and wanted, not judgmental, listens, caring, not afraid to shower me with compliments even if I am not accepting of them, and laid back. Also, it is a real turn off when I read a message and the guy can't write even the simplest words. Sorry, but we will probably never meet. I like intelligent guys, but not so intelligent that they are obnoxious, arrogant, and make me feel like a complete idiot. Everyone is smart in their own way. I happen to be good at science and really enjoy it. I'm a little old fashioned when it comes to talking with men. I may find you attractive, but I will not approach you first. I feel that if a guy is interested then he should come to me. I will not give out my number right away, that is something that is earned, as well as, meeting. You may end up waiting a couple weeks to a couple months depending on the connection and the extent of our conversation. I am not a cat person. I prefer dogs. There are very few cats that I like. One thing you need to know about me is that if you are married, I will not meet you, ever. Marriage is sacred and I will not come between another person's relationship. If you are married and on here you need to get off and make things work with your wife. Too, many people get married and think it's effortless. It isn't. There is a reason you got married in the first place, I suggest you figure it out and make it work again. I like rock, reggae, jazz, blues, oldies, country, christian, and even some hip hop. I really don't like rap.On another note. I took the time to write all of this out so, I would appreciate you taking the time to read it. I will read yours as well before responding to your first message. If I have directed you to read my profile then you have already made a bad impression. First dates are hard and awkward. The right first date will ease that awkwardness. I think, that the first date should be up to the guy. He can pick restaurant, activity, or whatever he prefers. I like to see what the guy picks to do. It says a lot about a guy. I will tell you that dinner and a movie is not going to be the best first date. How can you get to know someone while watching a movie? I don't know about you, but I love movies and I get so into them that I tune out everything around me. Besides, it's rude to talk in a movie theater. I would like a date to be creative. Dinner is fine, but there should be an activity to go along with it. I want a date that will blow me away.

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