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About Me

The poem quoted below speaks profoundly to me, and for me. I can say this, now, at this point in my life, only because it has taken me quite a while to get here. I do not regret one minute, the men, the years, or the decisions (good or bad) that have gotten me here—now. They were all steps along the way which have not only enabled me to understand the depth of this poem, but have created the ability for me to implement its meaning into my daily life. It represents how I try to live my life in every moment (when I can remember to do so).“To know that I am no-thing, that is wisdom. To know that I am everything, that is love. And between these two, my life moves.”el bistamiBut, seriously, I am not this serious. Just a deeper aspect of myself. I live to laugh. Love to laugh.I am open, self deprecating, and live with integrityI need to laugh at myself daily. And to create all sorts of movement in my life....I try to accept all that life has to offer on a daily basiswith courage, compassion, and kindness as best I can. However, I do miss the world terribly. Working diligently (and at times distractedly) on recreating a new life at home for myself. Taking the time to figure it all out while continuing to work with children in one capacity or another.I sometimes contradict myself because it ultimately expose oneself to finding your true inner desire by facing your own contradictions you didn't know you held? But I do have solid integrity and am grounded for the most part.I am physically active and love to hike, bike, walk, roller-blade, and play a lot of soccer when I am fit. When I am working on getting fit (again) I do all the same stuff daily-- just a lot less vigorously. I also do yoga and pilates regularly because I love how they feel. I need to move daily in one form or another, without it I would go mad. But, I am no longer a fanatic.My life is constantly changing, as it should. I try to remain open everyday to what life brings and work to take action to bring what I want into my life.Looking for love and a LTR if I can ever find that right mix of a guy at the perfect time?? It has proven elusive for far too long.I am spiritual and practice kindness to self and others daily.... Coffee, drinks, a walk, or dinner...or any combination thereof.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Louise

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Do you think there is such a thing anymore where two people stay together through good and bad times and work things out which makes them stronger?If your here to date many women at one time I'm not interested, please continue with your search. I want one man and a monogamous relationship. Must love animals.* Have you ever taken a walk with someone and couldn't stop touching them?* Have you ever went to a restaurant at midnight just to have pie and coffee together?* Do you believe that a man should open a door for a woman?* Have you ever went fishing or hunting together and even though they were in grubby clothes just loved every minute you spent together laughing and playing?* Have you ever just spent hours laying next to each other on a beach or park or on a boat just talking?Please have an job or career. I love to be with someone that has a desire to better themselves and desires to help others. I love a man in uniform or suits. Most of my friends would say that I am very independent, fun and smart. I love touching, caressing and playing. I am the one to keep the spirits up and cheer people up. I find the positive in almost anything. I am an incredible kisser and take kissing very seriously. Kissing is a lost art.I love the touching and caressing. (if you close your eyes and run your fingers over the persons' fingers, you can feel the energy and electricity that the two of you generate together. It will either be good or bad (you will know) If you know how to do that and can create good energy... you just scored huge bonus points)I love to laugh and play as well as be serious and professional.I like to ride on motorcycles and go to the ballet.I love going for burgers and to nice elegant dinners. I love to be spoiled and treated like a lady. I want to feel as though the man I am with will hold me when I am down. Make me laugh when I frown. I want a man to believe in and trust in. I am looking for a man who can't wait to come home to me one that can't wait to be with me, one to adore me, when I wake up in the morning he sees the beauty just as when I went to bed with him the night before. As I will do with him. I have spoiled every man I have ever been with and treated them like a king and enjoy doing that. Sometimes things work and sometimes they don't. Remember the little things and you will be pleasantly surprised. Treat others with respect. Be kind to your fellow human beings. It is your issue, every life you touch and how you treat them has a dominos effect. My perfect first date will to meet somewhere neither of us have been to or some place you want to take me to surprise me because it means a lot to you. Do something that neither of us have tried but always wanted to. Then if all goes well to take a walk along the coast or where ever we are, experience everything from putting our feet in the water to sitting on the shore talking. Maybe a late night comedy or a boat ride to a secret island.

  • Amanda

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Don't read any further if: UPDATED ***You just want to chat and text..Good Morning how are you? everyday for 2 weeks will wear you out. In addition if you are separated and still living in the same house with your spouse...YOU ARE NOT SEPARATED! Clean your house before you even attempt to move on.You have not dealt with the issues from your last relationship.If you are messaging so many women you can't keep your conversations straight.....So what am I looking for? Communication and honesty are critical. I do not have a type.....Jesus did that.I do not believe this happens at first sight. Actually I think it grows over time. It is worth the work and the risk.Now what I am like...Don't read any further if:You need a Savior --You have not dealt with the issues from your last relationship.If you are afraid of success, risk and the future – then it’s not going to work.So what am I looking for? That special someone who makes my world stop when he enters the room. That person who is on my mind and makes me smile every time I think of him. Someone I can talk with about all things deep and silly. And no, I don't think I'm asking too much. I have been deeply in love twice in my life. I'm not settling for less. I do not believe this happens at first sight. Actually I think it grows over time. It is worth the work and the risk.Now what I am like...I am a professional all the time however I do have to dress up Monday through Friday but in the evening I am just jeans and t-shirts. I really do prefer tail gate dates over restaurants and I do not like going to the mall or shopping...not kidding...not joking...not teasingI love my kids and they are my top priority. My son is leaving for college to play football AND complete his education. I do have one at home that is 99% independent. Yes I raised them that way. I love my job and yes it is demanding work. It is not my life. It is an important part. I get to travel a great deal, usually during the week .I love to laugh and my biggest strength is also my weakness which is I am very tender hearted and compassionate. I have more blessings than I deserve. I want to find the right man to share my life with -- I will camp, or attend a concert I want to see, or travel by myself -- if I have to. I am secure enough in my own skin to venture out. But with the right person I know it is so much better. . Really just like to keep it simple. We can discuss it! However if you can back my boat into the lake...still can't master that one...I can grill the best steaks and shrimp ever:)

  • Sophie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    stuck in Oz... Simple country girl looking for a Simple Country Boy. I love God my family and The US of A.God Bless Our Troops! We can figure that out together.

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