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The poem quoted below speaks profoundly to me, and for me. I can say this, now, at this point in my life, only because it has taken me quite a while to get here. I do not regret one minute, the men, the years, or the decisions (good or bad) that have gotten me here—now. They were all steps along the way which have not only enabled me to understand the depth of this poem, but have created the ability for me to implement its meaning into my daily life. It represents how I try to live my life in every moment (when I can remember to do so).“To know that I am no-thing, that is wisdom. To know that I am everything, that is love. And between these two, my life moves.”el bistamiBut, seriously, I am not this serious. Just a deeper aspect of myself. I live to laugh. Love to laugh.I am open, self deprecating, and live with integrityI need to laugh at myself daily. And to create all sorts of movement in my life....I try to accept all that life has to offer on a daily basiswith courage, compassion, and kindness as best I can. However, I do miss the world terribly. Working diligently (and at times distractedly) on recreating a new life at home for myself. Taking the time to figure it all out while continuing to work with children in one capacity or another.I sometimes contradict myself because it ultimately expose oneself to finding your true inner desire by facing your own contradictions you didn't know you held? But I do have solid integrity and am grounded for the most part.I am physically active and love to hike, bike, walk, roller-blade, and play a lot of soccer when I am fit. When I am working on getting fit (again) I do all the same stuff daily-- just a lot less vigorously. I also do yoga and pilates regularly because I love how they feel. I need to move daily in one form or another, without it I would go mad. But, I am no longer a fanatic.My life is constantly changing, as it should. I try to remain open everyday to what life brings and work to take action to bring what I want into my life.Looking for love and a LTR if I can ever find that right mix of a guy at the perfect time?? It has proven elusive for far too long.I am spiritual and practice kindness to self and others daily.... Coffee, drinks, a walk, or dinner...or any combination thereof.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Judy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok so this is me: You get what you see. Authentic. Fun. Easy going. Independent, Confident and Free Spirited. I have great girlfriends that I spend a great deal of time with. They have gotten me through the worst and best times of my life and they will get a chance to give their opinions on you :) Don't be nervous! You will love them all. I have had my own business for twelve years as an interior designer. I love it. It is my passion and its where I spend A LOT of my energy...that is...AFTER I am the mom of two beautiful teenage daughters. They keep me on my toes and they are reason I get up every day. You must love girls if you will be part of this house :) We do have a boy... My little Shitzu. He is not always stranger friendly but a good judge of character! My friends would say that I am loyal, a confidant, strong and determined. I know how to have fun. I have been referred to as the energizer bunny because I am usually the last one standing. They also call me "DJ Ne" because I love all kinds of music and I am the girl with the ipod :) I love to dance!I LOVE to cook. I want a man that will cook with me. Not just eat! I love good wine. I love fine dining. I love entertaining. The parties, the barbeques, the get togethers...are almost always at my house. I need a guy that loves that too. I almost forgot! I LOVE COFFEE! It's a must in the morning! Grande Latte with 3 Splenda...or...at home it's the Keurig! If you are a coffe drinker...you know it!I love the sun, beach and water...laying out, boating, a picnic, jet skis. I am not very athletic (i was not blessed with that gene even though I try) but I love to watch and I will be right in the middle of it all. I just won't be the star and I am SO fine with that. I would really love to learn to golf and if you have the patience to teach me...well you just might be the one :) I love adventure. I love to travel. I LOVE rollercoasters even though I am scared to death! I won't be skiing in any type of environment (because I suck at it!As for you: well...I hope you are tall, smart and witty. If you can't make me laugh and if we can't laugh together...it's not gonna work. I hope you love to sit and have wine with me and have long conversations about anything and everything. I hope you have a great family and a set of friends that you can't wait to introduce me to. I hope you are passionate about your career but not overly obsessed. You know how to have fun on the weekend. I hope you are honest and kind and can be open with your feelings. I hope you bring something to the table that you can teach me. I want to learn more, experience things I've never experienced, and just grow mentally and spiritually with a man I respect. Is this all too deep and too much to ask and expect? I hope not. Cuz I am setting my stardards high and you should too... First dates...I prefer to leave it up to him however, to be honest..drinks or appetizers or something impromtu is best when meeting someone blindly. The initial meeting is just to be somewhere comfortable to be able to talk and get to know one another and see if there is a connection. Stress free. If that meeting goes well then lets start planning the fun stuff!

  • Nanette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Friendship is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship. it's not how much we care in the beginning but how much we care till the end....and Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. “Love is a choice. I choose to find the 1 that loves me back”“"You can have it right or you can have it right now!"”You never lose by Loving, you always lose by holding back. I am an EXTREMELY honest person, and some people think I am way too direct. My intention is to never hurt anyone. Honesty is very important to me. As well as it’s really the little things in life that means so much. Most my friends say I’m the life of the party; I'm outgoing and lots of fun to be with. Never meets a stranger. I’m spontaneous, out-going, funny, trusting, romantic, and passionate, has very strong opinions, caring, generosity, I’m the one who will always be there in the end. Loves the outdoors, and indoors, Dinner and wine is great but movie and popcorn is better. I love kids and animals and kids who act like animals I’m looking for someone to have some fun first and then let’s see where it goes. No hurry but I’m not looking to be a player nor do I want to date one. Just great companionship and who knows what will happen. Wants Someone who I can count on always no matter what, Likes the thought of the man being the strong one. Oh yeah did I say I don’t want a man who wants or needs more then one woman…. Likes the quiet life, the family life, kisses, touching, just because no reason what so ever. If there is something you would like to ask, just ask…you might not always like my answers but you can count on it being the truth. I’m Aware this will not happen over night so my journey begins. Live… Laugh… Love… "Life isn't measured by how many breaths you take but, how many moments take your breath away!"

  • Violet

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I'm a fun loving person looking for adventure and somebody to join me! I love spending time with family and friends, cooking, traveling and anything adventurous. I love going out but also perfectly content cooking dinner and sitting on the couch cuddling and having a night in. I'm an open book, so just message me if you have any questions :-)

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