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Brenda, 44
United States, North Carolina, Burlington

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Mar 2026 02:18:23

About Me

I am blessed to share my life with two kids (one teen still at home), family, and close friends. Amongst many things, I have found myself having to adapt to a disability of nerve damage. A person always built with natural strength and on the go, this has been testing. What has slowed me, will not keep me down! I do know this much... life is what you make of it, attitude and all. I am a playful person and try to find laughter in anything that will allow. I try to communicate effectively and understand that others cannot know what it is I want/need without my sharing this information. I like to get to know a person and understand what it is that makes them special and then find the ability to give through that. I prefer settings to be more on a comfortable bases. I am allowed the freedom to feel emotions without interference of past disappointments and do look for the same. I am a nurturing, compassionate & considerate person. I am very tender & sensual in personal moments. I feed off others & find my interest of others based on the way they make me feel and what they bring out in me.What I look for in a partner. . . Strong arms, warm presence, best friend, late night talks, smiling courageously with confidence, mutual adoration and respect, unspoken words, genuine and down to earth, strong yet compassionate, playful yet responsible, warm natured, gentle soul, passionate and sensual. I am not into dating a lot or looking for a free meal. I am truly searching for that one on one relationship. My heart is ready to fall and love unconditionally. I am not looking for someone who is only interested in meaningless sex or a "good time" If your interested in "chatting", please send me a note.I'd just like to add...Passions... the love shared amongst family and friends; animals; mood altering music; focused eyes that finally meet; inhaling the essence; connecting with others on a deep level.Pleasures... camping; comedy clubs; watching the sun set/rise; sporting events; anything to do with water; playing pool; wrestling around; letting lose when the situation is appropriate; or just relaxing and sharing passions or dreams with a special someone.Simple pleasures... b-que chicken;; a twinkle of the eye;; smooth sheets at the end of a long day; kisses on the forehead; single phrases that bring a smile to others; the taste of seasonal fruit or freshly baked bread; the feeling of water against my skin. Baking the way it was done before modern machinery. Sculpting and creating with my hands.Looking for that ultimate harmonious connection with a heavy dose of laughter, passion, sentimentality, witty banter, and cherished moments. I have so much love to give. Just need to find that someone who will value and protect that..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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