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Silvia, 42
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

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About Me

Personality is passionate - put 200% into all that I do. Transfer this passion into what I hold dear - spirituality, family, friends, work, politics and painting. Value - integrity, truth & honor.Characteristics - (interesting, started writing these qualities to let you know more about me but, then realized what I am looking for as well...***Authentic, Honest, Positive, Steadfast, Confident, Enthusiastic, Gregarious, Conscientious, Loving, Healthy, Intelligent, Sweet, Romantic, Fun, Funny, Creative and Peaceful.Enjoy self-exploration and expansion. In the 5 Love Languages book - my language is "words". Other personality testing shows: MBriggs: ENTJ and on DISC test ***% DI.Appreciate someone who truly knows themselves. Communicator. Subtle mix of bravery with vulnerability. Someone who anticipates an amazing positive life and takes the steps to make it happen.Goal - to live an extraordinary life & currently in that process...I'm decent at the following (in no particular order):Parallel ParkingWorkPresentationsCreativity - Art & ThinkingFriendshipDatingLaughingBeing steadfastBeing thoughtfulDedicatedCan work a room - socialIntrospectiveTwo of my favorite compliments from close guy friends:1. If I was at war, I'd want you on my team (as in, I can count on you to deliver...)2. You don't do anything unless you are "all in."Favorite books: Recent - Pillars of the EarthTypically have a self-help, political and fashion magazine in rotationFavorite movie: Braveheart / Lord of the RingsFavorite Music: Country (Old & New)Favorite Food: Enjoy trying new placesHave a sweet tooth - love caramel corn Here's what I am interested in:You are interested in a positive, deep and meaningful relationship.The top qualities I am interested in:ChristianCommunicationKind / Positive / Generous spiritKnows what he wants & on the path - purpose Flexible co-collaborationFirst date:Coffee / wine meet up. If interested, low key food and music...Heads up dating preferences and for efficiency for both of us: 1. If you are uber-liberal politically - likely not a match. Have plenty o' liberal friends and can appreciate it, however, different philosophies about life. 2. Not much for days of text / talk prior to grabbing a coffeeAlso, I hesitate to put this on here bc I don't want to seem judgmental as everyone (including me) has some issue. I've met a few folks that are fantastic people who are alcoholics. Unfortunately due to my past relationship history, this is not my preference. Then we were both disappointed when it didn't work out. So, if you are an alcoholic (or if anyone else has ever told you that you have a issue) it would need to be a very special case for this to work - would only consider someone who was well-into recovery, a sponsor, done your work around it... With this said, I am a social drinker and good with being in relationship with someone else who is as well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Rock Chinese Indonesian South American Basketball
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