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Beth, 42
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

Offline, last seen Sun, 15 Feb 2026 19:57:57

About Me

I'm starting over in my life! My friends recommended this site so here I am! I like all kinds of different things read above and you'll see or ask me! I also like to sometimes just sit home either with my kids-I've got 5 and watch one of their movies or alone with a book/moive or with my guy I'm dating maybe a movie,order dinner out or one of us cook,hot tub(if you have I dont),fire,maybe cuddling...I've recently over came my fear of heights two separate times. I am proud of myself..Now if I could stop smoking cigs I'd be set! I know I can do it I did it for two days..I did heights for my kids so smoking I need to do for them and myself!!I'm also proud to say I've work hard over the last year to get the body back that I wanted..I walk every night,did yoga/pilates, workout dvd & try eat healthy & drink water..It's a work in progress but well worth it!I'll be working again after years(16yrs) of being a stay home mom and raising my children.I'm not sure what I'll do yet.I may do some college classes too?..I like all kinds of music ask & I'll tell u it may surprise you..80's is my favorite...I'm a very loyal,loving,caring, humorous,creative,protective(espically w/my children!),bold, honest,shy,blunt..I do have some rules don't cheat if you arent happy either talk with me to work on it or end the relationship! Don't lie honesty with me is important I've got nothing to hide so you shouldn't either..I also believe being just friends with a guy can make for a better relationship. I do have guy friends yes a guy & girl can be just friends! Extreme jealously not cool I'll like a guy to have my back,be there for me but I can handle myself!I'm okay with sports I dont mind watching a bunch of you & your guy friends play or watching em on tv or even going to game..If you are looking for a one night stand or friends w/ benefits then im not for you! I feel I deserve better!! I'm also not looking for someone to raise my kids they've got a father :) but remember my children are a part of me & I dont want more if you have children okay but we won't have one together....Right now I want to talk,hang out/date then see where it goes..not gonna rush into anything that's never gone well for me...Dont play games either not in mood or got time for it!! My time is important so dont play games! I'll make time for the right guy!!Also like a guy atleast 5'9 & up(I'm 5'10 & like wear high heels sometimes) and car/job be nice!! Yes I can be picky like I said I'm in no rush!! I think we should make this choice...maybe dinner, coffee or walk...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop
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