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Ester, 41
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

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About Me

Hello there. So here I am on this dating site completely niave to the dating scene and how things work these days. I was with my ex-husband for 19 years so I have very little experience dating as an adult. We have been seperated for over two years and divorced since March, ***. I'm ready to meet new people, date, have fun and see what happens. I am the mother of 3 awesome boys. They are 19, 15, and 9 years old. The teenagers keep me on my toes and my youngest is my sweetheart. I work full time, take care of my home and my boys and that keeps me pretty busy. I want to find someone who recognizes that my boys are my priority and who is interested in just hanging out and getting to know each other. I honestly don't know if I'm ready for a serious relationship. I guess that is something only time will tell. I like to work out and take care of myself. I enjoy running, kickboxing, and kayaking. I would love to find someone who enjoys running and would like to run together. I like to participate in 5K races and am currently training to run in a 10K. I also like to spend time with my friends and go to concerts. I have a great group of friends, many of which I consider family. I absolutley love the beach. Give me sand, water, and sun and I am a happy girl. :) I'm honest (almost to a fault), caring, fun, easy going, and not easily offended. I like to joke around and don't like to be around people that take them selves too seriously. Life is too short to not have fun. I am definatley a "glass is half full" kind of girl and enjoy being around other people who can find the positives out of every situation. I believe that everything happens for a reason and I am a strong, independant, confident women because of life experiences. If you would like to know more about me lets chat. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Shooting Sports
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