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PamOnline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Moving further East in the new year!No pic, no reply.Chemistry just happens....there is no explanation.All I know is one thing. You can fight with yourself but the battle with destiny is a tough one to win! I've been through enough to know what I want and don't want and more importantly what I deserve. I am looking for someone that also thinks highly of themselves, it is an attractive trait. A good guy with a naughty side ; So if you think your deserving of someone good in your life, someone that will make you smile, someone you can trust and respect, then message me, lets see if we get along, have that chemistry for one another and go from there ;) I kind of just miss the simple things of being with someone. I miss someone asking me how my day was, making plans together, sharing a glass of wine together, cuddling on the couch, stealing kisses, knowing you have someone to talk to when you have a good or bad day. Someone that simply cares about you........I miss that friendship.Please don't message me if your intentions are not sincere and not truly interested in dating and getting to know each other. Playing with people's hearts and minds is not where I'm at in my life and neither should you be. You need to respect yourself in order for me to respect you, so no games. Simple. That's what friendship is about and how it grows into something more. Boy's can catch me, but only a real man can capture my heart.Most guys run or are intimidated by someone that knows what she wants but I am not looking for "most guys". I am just looking for one man that I can relate with, date, have fun with and see what develops. Being vulnerable is sexy.I'm only human, I make mistakes but I can absolutely promise you that when I say and do things, my intentions are sincere and I always mean well. Open communication, honesty and having an open mind is key for me. I always try and understand the other side as things are not always what they may seem to be. It is important for me as it shows maturity and an openness that we will be able to support one another even though we may not always agree.Finding someone that is willing to take the time to get to know you, that someone you have that *** with, that person you can talk openly with, is not easy to find these days. Looking for that connection, and if we do, I am open to exploring what possibilities lay ahead.A few traits/characteristics that attract me to a man, here it goes:A man with confidence (in a mature manner, not to over power someone)A man that respects himself (this is shown in how he treats others and respects others)A man that can communicate. (Mentally and physically ;***Misunderstandings can happen (true story) so I thought of this new concept and I like to refer to it as "speaking to each other" I know, I know...it's crazy talk but I think it just may work if both parties are open to giving it a try when needed ;)..then move forward.A man that treats others the way he would like to be treated no matter what (always thinking it's a reflection of himself)A man with a warm, genuine heart and not afraid to let me into his life. ( Cause I can only make it even more awesome! And who doesn't want to have awesome in your life? ;)A man with a beautiful smile, that makes me smile just by looking at him.A man with a sense of humor (love to joke around and be playful with my partner) A man that can kiss for hours and hours. (A kiss is just a kiss until we kiss) A man that can admit when he is wrong, (as would I) and doesn't hold grudges (as would I) (life is too short) and I honestly don't have it in my heart to carry on an argument. (See next line!) A man that loves make-up sex just as much as I do! (see previous line for not holding grudges) A man that isn't afraid to just "go for it" and put it all on the line for love. (No flip flopping in your decision making)A man that can be vulnerable (HOT and SEXY)A man that can forgive and forget (SEXY)A man that is honest and sincere.A man that is not selfish. A man that is open minded.A man that has patience (Sometimes when I really like someone I get nervous and don't think straight, be patient and understanding- The heart can do some messed up things sometimes)A man that likes to play games (keeping it in the bedroom!) no mind games please. Straight honesty and sincerity will win me over!A man that lives by "actions speak louder than words"A man that can be romantic.A man that is HOT and SEXY (many of the above traits will place you in this category with me) I don't think it's fair to say that any man would have ALL these traits, however these are just a few traits/characteristics that separate the men from the boys and that I do find attractive in a man. Finding a man with a few will do...many of the above portrays respect, honesty, friendship and pure Sexiness ;)Although I'm looking for someone to spend time with and develop a relationship with, I also very much enjoy my time alone. I, like yourself have things I love to do and friends and family I would like to spend some alone time with every once in awhile. You and I will have our time together but it can be just as important as our alone time. Through my life experiences, one thing I have learned is that anything can happen at any time and you can not plan it nor it may have been part of your big plan. I do believe everything happens for a reason and that it is usually for the best. Some of the most extraordinary things happen when you least expect it. If we connect and you are open to exploring our reasons for our paths crossing, lets meet and see where it will lead, we will never know till we meet! ;) I am a genuine person, when I give you my word, I am good for it, and when I say and do things, it will come from my heart. I guess that's the Cancer in me I believe in the good of everyone until you give me reason not to. If I am interested in you, I'll give you 100% of my attention. I truley believe that you get what you put into everything you do.I love a man who knows what he wants and goes for it! There is nothing sexier than confidence. I'm very independant and love my own space at times so I am not looking to take away time for the things that you may love. I would just like to just give you more things for you to love :)If your heart is open to a new adventure, I hope to hear from you, to get to know more about you and what we may have in common.
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SilviaOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Personality is passionate - put 200% into all that I do. Transfer this passion into what I hold dear - spirituality, family, friends, work, politics and painting. Value - integrity, truth & honor.Characteristics - (interesting, started writing these qualities to let you know more about me but, then realized what I am looking for as well...***Authentic, Honest, Positive, Steadfast, Confident, Enthusiastic, Gregarious, Conscientious, Loving, Healthy, Intelligent, Sweet, Romantic, Fun, Funny, Creative and Peaceful.Enjoy self-exploration and expansion. In the 5 Love Languages book - my language is "words". Other personality testing shows: MBriggs: ENTJ and on DISC test ***% DI.Appreciate someone who truly knows themselves. Communicator. Subtle mix of bravery with vulnerability. Someone who anticipates an amazing positive life and takes the steps to make it happen.Goal - to live an extraordinary life & currently in that process...I'm decent at the following (in no particular order):Parallel ParkingWorkPresentationsCreativity - Art & ThinkingFriendshipDatingLaughingBeing steadfastBeing thoughtfulDedicatedCan work a room - socialIntrospectiveTwo of my favorite compliments from close guy friends:1. If I was at war, I'd want you on my team (as in, I can count on you to deliver...)2. You don't do anything unless you are "all in."Favorite books: Recent - Pillars of the EarthTypically have a self-help, political and fashion magazine in rotationFavorite movie: Braveheart / Lord of the RingsFavorite Music: Country (Old & New)Favorite Food: Enjoy trying new placesHave a sweet tooth - love caramel corn Here's what I am interested in:You are interested in a positive, deep and meaningful relationship.The top qualities I am interested in:ChristianCommunicationKind / Positive / Generous spiritKnows what he wants & on the path - purpose Flexible co-collaborationFirst date:Coffee / wine meet up. If interested, low key food and music...Heads up dating preferences and for efficiency for both of us: 1. If you are uber-liberal politically - likely not a match. Have plenty o' liberal friends and can appreciate it, however, different philosophies about life. 2. Not much for days of text / talk prior to grabbing a coffeeAlso, I hesitate to put this on here bc I don't want to seem judgmental as everyone (including me) has some issue. I've met a few folks that are fantastic people who are alcoholics. Unfortunately due to my past relationship history, this is not my preference. Then we were both disappointed when it didn't work out. So, if you are an alcoholic (or if anyone else has ever told you that you have a issue) it would need to be a very special case for this to work - would only consider someone who was well-into recovery, a sponsor, done your work around it... With this said, I am a social drinker and good with being in relationship with someone else who is as well.
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VirgieOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Life is too short!!! It's time to do what you want now, not later. I'm looking for friends but if more were to happen, so be it. I enjoy the company of those who like to laugh and who know what is important and what what things can just slide. (or be laughed at) People who are full of themselves or are too serious need not IM or *** first date for me would be to go for a walk, or maybe meet up for a drink. Conversation and hopefully laughter will be involved....email me to find out more