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Carrie, 41

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About Me

Disclaimer: i recently cut my hair as you can see from my photos.! I already have decided to grow it out again! :***it's a girl thing)I am a young 40 something, so first let me say I am not looking to date someone substantially older. So here's me...I asked some friends to *** how they would describe me...(scary but it turned out ok I guess!) "Supportive, good listener, intelligent, artisitic, fun loving", "open, friendly, very intelligent. She has a great sense of humor and demonstrates passion for her interests. She's kind to animals and has a few normal quirks...don't lick your ice cream cone in front of her!", "good-friend, kind-hearted, and driven to improve", "has a huge heart, always doing for others without something in return. she LOVES dogs","tends to see potential in things that others may discard- like old furniture and in people too", (That one was my personal favorite!) "adventurous, very approachable and friendly but has to have her coffee in the morning!". "Smart, beautiful, interesting, independent, sucessful AND fun! Great sense of humor, truly sincere and trustworthy" . "genuine". In my words, I would say I am a very grounded, intelligent, soft hearted, loyal woman, who wears her heart on her sleeve. But I can also be tenacious, tough, and stoic when I need to be.I love to run and I work out often. (three marathons four half marathons and a quilt made from all my smaller race t-shirts). * i can pretty much guarantee i will never get fat, no matter what my age!! So, please like dogs or it simply won't work. ("tolerating" dogs is not the same thing btw :***Trust is imperative. I know I can be stubborn and headstrong, but I will also be your greatest supporter if I believe in you. If you prefer Angelina Jolie to Jennifer Aniston, I'm not for you. I'm definately a Jennifer. I am a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl, who can rock the little black dress. (I think I have the legs for it)I give back what I get....If you want respect, give it. If you want sweet, then be it. If you want considerate, then do it.Why am i still single? It's very difficult to find a normal guy, who wants to be in a relationship, and who isnt insecure about being with a woman who owns power tools and makes her own living! True story... Coffee. Painless, short. Enough to know if a second meeting should follow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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