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Pauline, 46

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About Me

People fear public speaking. And could someone tell me how this differs from public speaking? Really? Talking about yourself to potentially thousands of men reading my profile?Okay, well, with that in mind, I'll just picture all of you naked and get on with my speech...Here's what will get my attention: someone who's emotionally strong, confident, secure, patient, easy going, easy to talk with, active, and has a positive outlook on things. You're as tall or taller than me, you have a nice smile (and you use it), and you have a quirky sense of humor.Not that difficult to imagine, right? I'm not asking you to be a millionaire or look like a swimsuit model. (for that, I'd go to MillionaireSwimsuitmodelplentyoffish.com. Duh...)Here's what will get me to say "move along": Ex girlfriend issues? Keep walking. Think the world owes you something? Turn and walk away. Nice butt? Wait a minute. Walk back this way. I didn't notice it until you started all that "walking away" stuff...I've heard I'm attractive, smart, funny, a good listener, and a great friend. (I overheard it, actually, It wasn't said to my face. I mean, they wanted to, but they knew I'd blush...)Seriously though (bring up the soft music and fade the lights), I'm simply looking for someone I connect with, someone I can talk to about anything, someone who connects with me, someone I want to spend time with and who I know wants to spend time with me. Life isn't about big things such as how powerful you are, how much money you make, or where we can jet off to in a moments notice. It's a never ending string of small moments, which play out in real time. But, if we're lucky enough to be with someone we care about, those moments happen at a pace which seems to defy what is showing on a clock.And with that, I'll leave you all to begin fighting over me. First date? Shots in a bar. Then after that, I'd meet you for coffee...If there's chemistry, if we click (and after the appropriate paperwork is completed, personality tests are administered and the blood work comes back), I'm thinking a nice second date could involve dinner. Maybe I even cook. You like quesadillas, right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sonja

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am blonde and a natural, intelligent woman, so I have been told:). I am in the education field. I love art, fashion and music. I am attracted to someone who knows how to communicate whether we are together or not and just has a great way of communicating and sometimes that can be with words, text etc but just good at expressing himself. I am not interested in someone who has lingering ex wives, girlfirends etc., etc. I am interested in us both starting with a clean slate. Confidence and being able to be happy alone is a very attractive trait in a man....for sure! I am slightly old fashioned on here, so if I looked at your profile, I may *** a later date or you can take the initiative and just *** like that. Being blunt...I like a guy who is a man and calls and is attentive. Of course I do reciprocate but believe a man should be confident enough to know if a woman likes him:). I am not attracted to men who are passive. I always try to see the positive in life. Finding the one man for the rest of my life, to be honest, is what I want. I feel that if you are serious about meeting someone and not being a mystery, then you will have at least 4 recent photos without sunglasses on, so please do respond if that fits you or *** let me know why you don't have them on this site:). If you need help in any level of MATH, you can always *** Although I have been a business owner and hired people and am the one that others come to for advice, I have to start taking my own advice in selecting the right partner for me. In the past, I had to be in control and make huge decisions with my life whether it be going on a car lot to purchase my car, take the car in to be serviced or working on my computer (I understand if computers aren't your thing) and I know that I would appreciate having advice and a man that knows how to help with things like that without being asked to do so...he just wants to be a man that way. I am not on here for just dating around. I would consider myself a laid back 'artsy' type person. I am a positive person. I love music, guitar and writing music for fun, but not professionally. I usually have music on. I want someone who is content and happy with himself, his career and financial status whether good or bad and content with where they are in life and wants to have a partner, to make his life even happier and more fulfilling. I have to admit that I am a hopeless romantic and even like flowers and being taken out to a nice restaurant now and then. If you are in between relationships, recovering from a breakup or living at home and not motivated to move ahead in life, then we are not going to be a match. If you have done a lot in your life and are just simplifying, I do understand but even so I am attracted to driven, self motivated people. I have had a long successful working career owning a business that involves education. I set that up online and dabble with that and do some of it here too. I have simplified my life and moved to this area to finally enjoy my life and perhaps find that special someone....I believe in putting my relationship first and I am interested in finding another who feels the same. I like a connected relationship where we have good communication and understand one another even if we are not talking all the time. In a relationship, I never go to bed angry or unsettled. I seek a relationship that continues to grow.I love and enjoy mostly all music and good food. I love to laugh and am attracted to a guy that is the same and has a great personality. A sense of humor is nice too. I like to go out to eat, cook at home with my partner, dance or just listen to music and enjoy the night.I like a guy who has been there done that and knows that he can attract women but wants to find one special woman to be with and is finally tired of the dating scene. Therefore, a confident guy....a plus for sure.I like a man who is intelligent and a good listener and who treats others the way he wants to be treated and definitely not overly preoccupied with things in his life, so not giving time for each other and our relationship. Communication is so important. I prefer face to face but if we are talking on the phone, I do need someone who is expressive and good at communcating on the phone too and even texting or *** we are not together..... What I’m doing with my life:I stay busy but am basically working on several things which involves my creative side of music and the arts. I have time now to put the priority on finding the right partner and enjoying life.I’m really good at:communicating, listening and caring about others. First we should talk on the phone and then if we decide to meet, we should both pick where to meet. A local place. If we have a second and third date, I like it if he makes the arrangements for the date out for dinner and make it a surprise.

  • Lucile

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi, thanks for checking out my profile. I am looking for someone to spend quality time with. Someone to laugh with, someone to snuggle with. You must be honest, caring, trustworthy, and have a sense of humor. I have two teenage sons who come first in my life, but they stay busy now and I am finding I have time to devote to someone new. I like to try new restaurants, watch movies, listen to live bands, and enjoy the outdoors (weather permitting). I love traveling to new places.Hope to hear from you soon.....if not, best of luck in your search :-) I think a good first date would be dinner out. A chance to get to know each other.

  • Eula

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    My experience back out in the dating world has not been what it's cracked up to be....i don't understand why people lie and want to waste other peoples time, I'm tired of wasting my time...so if your not who you say you are, don't look like you do right now and not 10yrs ago, don't have a job and dont have goals that you actually follow don't message me,I'm looking for someone who's establish, wants a committed relationship, enjoys life and respects a woman....I work provide for myself, just trying to find someone to share life with. Depends on the day and weather

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