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Pauline, 46

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People fear public speaking. And could someone tell me how this differs from public speaking? Really? Talking about yourself to potentially thousands of men reading my profile?Okay, well, with that in mind, I'll just picture all of you naked and get on with my speech...Here's what will get my attention: someone who's emotionally strong, confident, secure, patient, easy going, easy to talk with, active, and has a positive outlook on things. You're as tall or taller than me, you have a nice smile (and you use it), and you have a quirky sense of humor.Not that difficult to imagine, right? I'm not asking you to be a millionaire or look like a swimsuit model. (for that, I'd go to MillionaireSwimsuitmodelplentyoffish.com. Duh...)Here's what will get me to say "move along": Ex girlfriend issues? Keep walking. Think the world owes you something? Turn and walk away. Nice butt? Wait a minute. Walk back this way. I didn't notice it until you started all that "walking away" stuff...I've heard I'm attractive, smart, funny, a good listener, and a great friend. (I overheard it, actually, It wasn't said to my face. I mean, they wanted to, but they knew I'd blush...)Seriously though (bring up the soft music and fade the lights), I'm simply looking for someone I connect with, someone I can talk to about anything, someone who connects with me, someone I want to spend time with and who I know wants to spend time with me. Life isn't about big things such as how powerful you are, how much money you make, or where we can jet off to in a moments notice. It's a never ending string of small moments, which play out in real time. But, if we're lucky enough to be with someone we care about, those moments happen at a pace which seems to defy what is showing on a clock.And with that, I'll leave you all to begin fighting over me. First date? Shots in a bar. Then after that, I'd meet you for coffee...If there's chemistry, if we click (and after the appropriate paperwork is completed, personality tests are administered and the blood work comes back), I'm thinking a nice second date could involve dinner. Maybe I even cook. You like quesadillas, right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Estella

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I\'m a family oriented person, but I love going out and experiencing joys of life. Someone that I’m attracted to, who can keep me laughing, and who can hold an intelligent conversation.

  • Dorothy

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Lets just say I'm a huge outdoors kinda girl. I also enjoy reading, movies, playing pool, bowling, volleyball and lounging around the pool. If you should want to know more just send a message and we shall go from there. We can discuss that later!

  • Edwina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hiya! Welllll... ;) Ha, I can be a feisty fishy who is comfortable in most any situation, I'm pretty self-aware, very loyal and 100% honest (read as: pleeease don't waste my time since life is short!), I'm a mostly strong woman with a high level of energy. I'm abundantly caring and sincere but am also fairly direct (so occasionally a little blunt -OOPS!! But I def *don't* mean to be hurtful.) My personality is usually positive and playfully (devilishly?) bratty...and I hope you are likewise at least sometimes. -Wait, all that stuff except for you too being a woman that is. ;)Though rarely found, here to chat with a quality someone who may eventually become a longterm bf. :) Simple things make me happy. Heck, life has lots more nice, small moments than it does big ones anyway! I'm sporty and adventurous plus the reliable and emotionally supportive type, who enjoys spur of the moment stuff *and* setting some plans in advance so there's also something fun to look forward to. While I'm fairly independent, I unquestionably want to have and appreciate having a man around. I have a vulnerable side so having a bf who values that and offers up some strong shoulders would be great! You should be someone who I can count on. (Otherwise, why even be with me?) ...Who I match best with: predominantly clean cut, athletically trim, tall, slightly younger men (they match my activity/energy level better), who tend to blur the lines between white and blue collar interests and mindset (though leaning more to white than blue.) Oh!, and I very much hope you're an animal lover because if you don't see the HUGE value in having a pet, we're from vastly different worlds that prob wouldn't mesh well. (I know some great pet sitters so traveling shouldn't be an excuse to not have a fur buddy.) Also important is for you to have intelligence with a strong streak of integrity. Men who interest me often have a sarcastic wit and can appreciate multiple styles of music. -Basically I like a well rounded guy, you know, ones with actual depth. ...BIG bonus if you're a cuddler and a hand holder! :) I certainly won't pretend that I'm perfect. Mmh, ok I admit to running about ***minutes behind schedule a little too frequently. Yeah I know, I knoooww. :P And sure, I might once in awhile become impatient due to a current frustration. *sigh* ...Oh! Plus there's also that really cute thing where I'm usually right, which is kind of hard on those who mistakenly think they are, LOL ;) Aw heeyyy, I'm only TEASING, sheesh! Eh, well anyway, I'm a tell it like it is type and I'm NOT a high maintenance girl with most things -phew!!! ;) I don't have an adventurous palate though, so for all you fancy menu men out there, just eat at those places when out with your pals or business clients. But I *do* like to actually eat! :) ...Something a potential romantic man in my life needs to do is to cause an *** of energized interest. Without my feeling mentally and physically attracted right away, I already know we WON'T be sharing sheets later... Can't help it very much that I'll always appreciate physical beauty in my harder to find, quality man. Over time I've paid attention to what DOES *** for me and yep, I'm human. ; For whatever reason, a man's hair is a fairly strong element of his sexiness to me, and I do like 'em sexy RAWR! ~~I am unapologetically selective~~ However, looks are certainly not *everything* because no matter how beautiful you are in appearance, if you're unreliable, dishonest/secretive or an insensitive jerk, then you absolutely won't be for me. (Even though plenty of other ladies do, I'm strong enough to not settle for that bs treatment from any person. It's simply not worth it to me.) ...Respect is VERY important!Sooo...what are YOU like that makes you unique or a better choice, and what do you seek in a woman that makes her move to the top of your list? C'mon, spill it...I wanna know. :) First we'd have to meet up and then maybe afterwards we could take the "date" step if we're on the same page -and hopefully we will be!(I'll only meet men who I feel could be a well matched friend, so then if mutual chemistry also exists between us, it's a great bonus.)Something fun with an activity in it is cool. I'm open for suggestions/possibilities since I'm comfortable in most situations.

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