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Melanie, 43
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

Offline, last seen Thu, 18 Dec 2025 06:36:37

About Me

I'm as real as they come. I believe in telling like it is. I don't want to talk and text forever. If there is an attraction let's meet and see if there is a spark. I'm looking to get to know somebody become friends, date and then have it lead to a relationship. If you are married to your job or have small children and/or custody of your children you probably don't have enough time for me. Your idea of enough time and mine could be very different. My experiences on meetville haven't been very good. So far I've met Mr. I don't have time, Mr. I work too much, Mr. My kids are my life Mr. Player Mr. Liar Mr. Emotionally Unavailable Mr. Headcase and Mr. Cheapskate. If you don't fall into any of those categories then I might llike to meet you.What I'm NOT looking for:-If you are separated/going through a divorce I'm NOT interested no exceptions.-If you are living in the past/not over your ex/emotionally unavailable I'm NOT interested-Married to your job/kids are your life NOT interested-Gymrats. There are a lot of men on this site into fitness and eating healthy. I'm not against that but I'm not quite there with you. -Those that lie about their age, marital status etc please don't waste my time-Not interested in being your f*ck buddy or side chic-If you break a FIRST date with me you probably won't get anotherAbout Me--Laid back, easy going-Bold and confident. I go after what I want.-Sarcastic at times but it's all in fun -Positive attitude and outlook on life -Like to laugh and have fun-Enjoy motorcycle rides to no particular destination. I love the fall sitting by a bonfire having a drink with friends or someone special -Look younger and feel younger but I know when to be serious-I'm a curvy girl not a skinny chic-Very devoted, loyal and loving for the right man-I'm up for trying new things and doing anything you would like to do-I like that bad boy/good guy kind of man. I like a man that can make me laugh. Bonus points if you like to ride, have tattoos and like to shoot. Most of all I want a man that has TIME for me. Meet for drinks or coffee and talk. Take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical
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