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Tamera, 43
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

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Well - I feel I needed to modify my 'statement' since I've been on here a couple of months now. I appreciate most of the *** I have received, however, I don't 'do creepy'- so please don't waste my time (or yours with comments that aren't 'polite' - as I'm being now making THAT statement..LOL). Anyways, I will admit that looks do matter. I am NOT THE PERFECT PERSON and am not trying to be judgmental/critical (or whatever label you wanna call it), however chemistry does mainly start with visual attraction--but not always. I'm being bluntly honest and that's how I usually am most of the time. I'm the kinda girl that will tell you straight up so....Don't ask me a question if you don't wanna know MY answer. Most of my friends say I'm a man trapped in a women's body. Which is sorta true--haha. I feel I am all of the Sex in the City cast rolled into one. Romantic, funny, outgoing, adventurist and independent. Hopefully my new statement is appreciated by the right guy and we can start a new friendship. With that being said...back to my regularly (pre-recorded) statement...heheMy friends call me the tri-cities social director because I seem to be involved in so many events in the area. I have a lot of friends and try to help wherever I can. I am an only child and help my two independent parents when need be. I have a lunch date w/my dad every Thursday. :) I am a proud mom of my two grown children. I love to dance, listen to all kinds of music, play pool, cornhole, darts, ride horses, going to the beach, cooking and being with positive people- cuz life is too short!! First date should be casual- definitely somewhere public-because let's face it, i really don't know you (haha) BUT fun- there's enough pressure meeting face to face for the first time anyway.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass R&B Skiing Comedy History Sport Archery Dirt Bike Racing
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