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Shelly, 43
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

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About Me

I would like find someone to enjoy good times with...No drama....Honesty is the most important to me. I love hanging out with friends and my children are the most important thing to me. 2 of them are grown and one still at home part time. If you are under 35 please look on. I have 3 children 24,21, and 10. I have more respect for myself than you can imagine so if your looking for one thing (and you know what that is) walk on . that is not me..My children come first in my life and always will... So , I love country music, I also like other music as well .I am open minded, Non judgmental ,Fun, Love to laugh until I cry, Hate to argue, I see no need.I enjoy bbq"s ,lake time,hangin out with friends, I will always make the best of any situation and can have fun no matter what Im doing. I have been hurt as many of us have. All I ask is that your honest from the get go. you lie to me once I'm sure you will do it again. I have been taking care of myself for along time, but do not want to be alone forever. I'm not a materialistic person, do not care how much money you have, or what kind of car you drive. I am a real down to earth , Happy go lucky girl. I do not put up with jealousy or bullshit!!!!!I truly would like to find someone to share my life with. Not sure if this is where I should be looking.... But you never know.. I'm willing to try .I WANT TO FIND MY BEST FRIEND !!! Something fun..... light hearted... coffee,,, or a glass of wine...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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