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Melva, 44
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 13:52:27

About Me

Good hearted, responsible, self sufficient, Ephesians woman that enjoys deep conversations, comedy, sports spectating (football, basketball, boxing, MMA, soccer, etc.) and loves to fish for her supper. Yes, I can bring it home and "fry it up in a pan"! LOL! I'm an identical twin but we couldn't be more opposite in life. I am of the artistic nature and love to paint and create art out of almost anything. Traveling is a wonderful hobby and I go when I can.I like the "different kinda guy". I love dark skin. (My preference). Charming in his own unique way. A man that knows how to be a man, responsible, adventurous and realizes that there are some of us special ladies out there that are not gold diggers or always a damsel in distress. I wish everyone the very best in your search. A first date is all about expectations. You are expecting what "what you see is what you get" from photos posted. Men are visual, without a doubt. That's normal. I expect good conversation, a little ol' school charm and my heart to flutter (just a bit). A first real date should (in my opinion) be after a first initial meeting (a glass of wine or cup of coffee) to determine if there should be a first date. Do you agree?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! I've been told I'm the type of girl people just want to take home to their mom or marry. I like to think I have good personal values, I rarely EVER get in trouble, but I also love going out, having fun, hitting a great bar or restaurant, or just picking up and getting a tad bit crazy from time to time. Life is short, and I tend to have fun with it - that's my goal.I'm the mother of the most wonderful seven year old in the world. I'm still very amicable with my ex. I have great friends who I love. Life is good!I'm on here to meet new people. I'd like to meet someone, start off as friends, then take things from there. I'm easy going, and I hope anyone I meet is the same. :) How about a drink?

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello...I never thought I would get on a dating site as this, but being that I don't do clubs and I don't meet many men at work in the nursing field, I figured "why not, it can't hurt anything." I am divorced with 3 children. I love being active with my kids and with their sports and activities. I attend church every Sunday, which is important to me. I enjoy movies, bowling, spending time with friends and family, cookouts/BBQ's, traveling, and lakes/ beaches, rafting, canoeing, fishing. I would like to meet a man with the same interests as me, my best friend. Someone that is family oriented, financially/emotionally secure, honest, and is looking for the same in a woman. I am a fun, witty person and enjoy being around people that make me laugh. I would like to meet my special someone that I can laugh with and live a fun happy life together! I think for the first time, have coffee and strike up conversation..

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  • Erna from Valparaiso | Woman | 44 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    hi there i am a single mother and a grama of 3 beautiful little girls and i am looking for a good man who is of age and a man who isnt just looking for sex i want a man who wants to go out on a date and go from there i am not looking for just sex.#1 in my life. I want to meet a man who i can go camping with long walks go to the movies go out and hang with family and friends if there is any guys out there that is really looking for a good woman please let me know i would like to meet one thanks hope there is some great not All just wanting sex omg really guys there is more to a woman then jus sex well the first date would be for drinks or coffee we will get to know each othere and go from there hope here from a really nice guy

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