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Melva, 44
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

Offline, last seen Mon, 20 Oct 2025 18:43:57

About Me

Good hearted, responsible, self sufficient, Ephesians woman that enjoys deep conversations, comedy, sports spectating (football, basketball, boxing, MMA, soccer, etc.) and loves to fish for her supper. Yes, I can bring it home and "fry it up in a pan"! LOL! I'm an identical twin but we couldn't be more opposite in life. I am of the artistic nature and love to paint and create art out of almost anything. Traveling is a wonderful hobby and I go when I can.I like the "different kinda guy". I love dark skin. (My preference). Charming in his own unique way. A man that knows how to be a man, responsible, adventurous and realizes that there are some of us special ladies out there that are not gold diggers or always a damsel in distress. I wish everyone the very best in your search. A first date is all about expectations. You are expecting what "what you see is what you get" from photos posted. Men are visual, without a doubt. That's normal. I expect good conversation, a little ol' school charm and my heart to flutter (just a bit). A first real date should (in my opinion) be after a first initial meeting (a glass of wine or cup of coffee) to determine if there should be a first date. Do you agree?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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