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About Me

Good hearted, responsible, self sufficient, Ephesians woman that enjoys deep conversations, comedy, sports spectating (football, basketball, boxing, MMA, soccer, etc.) and loves to fish for her supper. Yes, I can bring it home and "fry it up in a pan"! LOL! I'm an identical twin but we couldn't be more opposite in life. I am of the artistic nature and love to paint and create art out of almost anything. Traveling is a wonderful hobby and I go when I can.I like the "different kinda guy". I love dark skin. (My preference). Charming in his own unique way. A man that knows how to be a man, responsible, adventurous and realizes that there are some of us special ladies out there that are not gold diggers or always a damsel in distress. I wish everyone the very best in your search. A first date is all about expectations. You are expecting what "what you see is what you get" from photos posted. Men are visual, without a doubt. That's normal. I expect good conversation, a little ol' school charm and my heart to flutter (just a bit). A first real date should (in my opinion) be after a first initial meeting (a glass of wine or cup of coffee) to determine if there should be a first date. Do you agree?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alma

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a non smoking 40 something educated professional women. I have been divorced for several years. I have two VERY active boys; soccer, baseball, basketball, swimming, track so on.....They keep me on my toes. I also play a great deal of softball in my limited free time. I enjoy, dinners out and going to sporting events. I like to sit on the couch and watch a baseball (Tigers) game or a Lions or Steelers game. I like to camp, and go on the occaisional weekend get away. I love to be around friends, at a bon fire or a barbeque. I love the beach and the lake. I am a mood listener when it comes to music, I like all of it, but not necessarily RAP or hip hop. I can be a very sweet and caring person, but I am very protective of my children. I love to cook, and try new things. My favorite food is sushi, or a nice steak. I have had very little luck in dating, and relationships, so I figured I would try this for a bit...I don't want just a casual fling, so if that is all your interested in, please don't contact me, this is overwhelming enough! I don't want to have anymore children (um really) but I do want the man I meet to have children, family is VERY important to me! I would like a guy that knows when to have fun and when to be serious, and can function comfortably in all settings.....ie: play hard, and also be responsible.*****I am looking for a professional, someone who is comfortable with putting on dress pants and tie, and then the next day wearing jeans and casual shirt or clothes to play in the mud. Someone that is comfortable in any situation and is serious but knows how to let loose and have fun! ********** As flattered as I am, I really am not looking for someone alot younger. I can not have anymore kids, and I don't feel that it is fair, I have lived that portion of my life, I am looking for someone that is raising their children, or have raised them and moved on to another chapter. I am sorry (it does make me feel good though) I think the first date should be a dinner out, as it is the most casual, comfortable, and gives you time to talk and get to know each other. OR feel free to wisk me off to a tropical island for that drink at sunset! jk

  • Brooke

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I’m hoping to discover someone who can bring a smile to my face and share in life’s pleasures. I am happy on my own, but I’d rather share my life with someone special. I have a big heart; I’m active, fun-loving, upbeat, and independent. I can be spunky, sassy, and feisty at times.I am looking for an educated, career-minded professional (but not a workaholic), someone with good values, a good sense of adventure, and a good sense of humor, someone who strongly values education, one who has goals in life, who is genuine, sincere, and honest, and not afraid to let me be me. Finally, I am looking for someone who is seeking a real relationship. I am at the point in my life that I am able to relocate in the future if the situation is right. A few of my favorite things…Laughing til it hurts, music and romance, a sense of accomplishment, new adventures, working out, long walks, the sound of rain, romance, thunderstorms, making memories, family and friends,books, the sun on my face, sarcasm, cheesecake, chocolate, animals, short get-aways, being outdoors, phone calls during the day “just because,” grilling out, the rain forest, nature, the night sky, crisp autumn nights, snow on Christmas day, people with a zest for life, making a difference in someone's life, believing the best in life is yet to come. Can’t stand: Arrogance, selfishness, lying, someone without a sense of humor, control freaks, and cigarette smoke.Note: I have 2 kids: ages 17 and 19. I prefer to meet someone who isn't raising young children anymore. I love kids, but am looking for someone who is more in the same place in life as I am.

  • Maryanne

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Basically what I'm looking for in a man is these simple qualities.... sweet , outgoing, stable, happy, a sense of humor, trustworthy, affectionate, caring, he must like dogs. I like to grill in the warmer months and enjoy dinner at a nice restaurant, but love a greasy spoon or local pub. I like breweries too but know nothing about brews. I have prefected my bitter beer face though! The best way to describe is a GIRLIE GIRL WHO LIKES TO GET DIRTY. I keep my hands and feet done, wear skirts, dresses and heels but enjoy putting on my jeans, a T, and playing in the dirt. Camping, kayaking, walkabouts, etc. I'm NOT looking for just sex or a one night stand. I respect myself and who I'm with. I only want one man, not many. I'm looking for the "real" thing so if your profile says you don't want anything serious then we both know what you're on here for. I'm not into the casual, NSA, FWB thing... Good luck to you! Time... Time is valuable. Saying we don't have the time for anything is a cop out. We are all busy with work, family, and every day life but it's about making the most of the moment together not the hours on a clock that matter. A relationship isn't defined by the hours you spend together. Carpe diem! A first meeting is different than a first date. First meeting would be a quick cup of coffee or ice cream to see if we click. If a first meeting goes well then a first date follows.

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