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Melva, 44
United States, Indiana, Valparaiso

Offline, last seen Thu, 27 Nov 2025 06:06:23

About Me

Good hearted, responsible, self sufficient, Ephesians woman that enjoys deep conversations, comedy, sports spectating (football, basketball, boxing, MMA, soccer, etc.) and loves to fish for her supper. Yes, I can bring it home and "fry it up in a pan"! LOL! I'm an identical twin but we couldn't be more opposite in life. I am of the artistic nature and love to paint and create art out of almost anything. Traveling is a wonderful hobby and I go when I can.I like the "different kinda guy". I love dark skin. (My preference). Charming in his own unique way. A man that knows how to be a man, responsible, adventurous and realizes that there are some of us special ladies out there that are not gold diggers or always a damsel in distress. I wish everyone the very best in your search. A first date is all about expectations. You are expecting what "what you see is what you get" from photos posted. Men are visual, without a doubt. That's normal. I expect good conversation, a little ol' school charm and my heart to flutter (just a bit). A first real date should (in my opinion) be after a first initial meeting (a glass of wine or cup of coffee) to determine if there should be a first date. Do you agree?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Emmagirl from Valparaiso | Woman | 30 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-36

    Hi! My name is Emmagirl. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Valparaiso, Indiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Mamie from Valparaiso | Woman | 44 years old | Scorpio
    Mamie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    So a little about me. I have two children. Youngest is in college. I love warm weather and tolerate the chilly winters. I look for honesty and sense of humor in a man. I am not looking to be kept. I own my own home and love to travel.jBut like life there are some things that I do not particularly like in a man. The list is short..Must not be Atheist. I am not saying you must be of the same religious faith, just asking for you to have faith. Another is being judgmental based upon past relationships. I am not your ex so be open minded and start fresh. I also would like to meet a mature man, a country boy with deep values. I am not interested in game players. Do not ask me for pictures or **** buddy requests. .that is vulgar even to type down but I believe it needed to be said. One more..please..if you are listed as divorced I would like that to be finalized and in the past and not looking for "lifestyle" hookups . I am one of the honest ones on here and what pictures I have posted are recent. I believe on building a relationship on a solid foundation..not of sand lies. So if you still are reading and get to this point..then maybe something I rambled on about is a value or sentiment you also have. Hit the sun and have some fun before it rains on the parade

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  • Andrea from Valparaiso | Woman | 44 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well I'm going to give this website one more chance. I am a single mother of a beautiful 14 year old daughter. I've been divorced for over a year now. I was with my ex for over 16 years but wasn't happy so I'm NOT afraid of commitment...just wasn't in love with him for a while. Tried to make it work for her but it just wasn't happening. I'm sure many of you can relate. I'm looking for someone who will be my best friend and lover. The friend part is first because I believe communication is the most important part of a relationship. I hate drama and want complete honesty with my significant other. If communication is there, then the intimacy part is just an added given. In fact, I believe it makes the physical part of a relationship even better. I love to be active and enjoy the outdoors. Sporting events are an even plus to me.I am a great listener, friend, lover and companion. Please do NOT respond is you don't have a picture and cant write more than 10 words. Shows you have NO commitment and kind of makes you look like a player. Don't mean to be rude...just my past experience on this website.Have a great day. HugsOne last thought...I'm very petitie 4'11" and #115. I look exactly like my picture.

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