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Alana, 40

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I'm looking for someone who's intelligent and funny and easy to be with...someone who treats the waiter kindly, who's good to his mother and of course good to me. I want someone who's interested in growing and learning and has an interest in things. I also find that a good listener is rare.If I had to pick one trait I cherish most in a man it would be generosity and kindness (okay so that's two). In my female friends I might say loyalty....but then again it seems time and time again we always fall for someone who defies those very lists....so who knows!I do not have a double profile btw...I have a sister on here too.(Please don't favorite me! Please have the guts to write me! And please let's not go back and forth forever...let's step it up and meet. Thank you! :)(Silly note...but nonetheless, my hair is a lot thicker than it appears in the photos...for whatever that's worth....) I usually like to meet for a drink the first time. If all goes well we can go from there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-30

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  • Amelia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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