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Amelia, 40

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About Me

Smile. It is a simple act, but sometimes takes a lot of effort. A smile can cause boundaries to melt, hearts to warm up, and distances to reduce. Why don't we smile more often? Is it too tough to smile? The answer lies in our attitude towards life. If we are more accepting of situations, we will be able to smile more easily.I would describe myself as a practical person who loves adventure and discovering new places and things to do. I have a lot of responsibilities that I enjoy balancing but I also strive to make my leisure time a priority as well. I enjoy socializing with others, finding the positive lesson or blessing in situations, laughing with others and at myself, and hearty conversations. I am very much a "partner" person in that I enjoy doing most activities with other people... I tend to re-energize with others as opposed to needing solitude. However, I am perfectly happy in my own time and space and enjoy those times of peacefulness. I am an assertive personality and prefer a man with an assertive personality as well... not aggressive.. but pleasantly assertive. Someone who is confident, bold, not afraid of risk or rejection, with a desire to protect and honor. Softened with the ability to listen and communicate well, be devoted, affectionate, trustworthy, and compromising. A couple postive things I have learned from past relationships is ***I would rather be well than right... at the end of the day it doesn't really matter to me if I'm right or "won" the argument.. I need to know that we can be right and well with each other. ***Relationships don't work because you "love" the other person or because you want it to work.. they work when you are intentional... goals, hopes, dreams, visions, perspectives all change over periods of time and if you aren't actively working on finding shared interests together then the relationship won't be as successful as it could be. I travel with my job and my schedule is pretty wacky... so I'm looking for someone who is understanding, flexible, trusting, independent, and willing to work around my limiting schedule. That is a lot to ask but it is important. And of course my time with my children is a priority that should be respected, as it would be of yours if you have children. International Travel is my greatest luxury passion... I also enjoy salsa dancing, hiking, camping, skiing, Paddleboarding (SUP)), dinners out, cooking in, hockey games, beaches, kickball, card/board games, group fitness, eating healthy, and house parties :) PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT - Things I Dislike when I'm seeing your profile:Pictures without a full-on smile (show those pearly whites) Only pictures with sunglasses (eyes say many things)Pictures that are taken using a mirror (I don't need to see your stellar abs and using a mirror makes me wonder if you have a social life)Comments that you are "keeping it brief" or "just ask" if I want to know more (making little or no attempt to share on a profile leaves me assuming you don't make an effort with much)Other important notes: I have an intolerance aka allergy to cats, can't be around them sorry :/ Keep it casual - lunch, happy hour, coffee shop, picnic at park, light hike/stroll

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I will try something once before I form an opinion. Adventurous, bubbly, love to laugh, sweet, caring, honest, genuine, have a big heart, loyal, trustworthy, and more. I love the outdoors, camping, walking, biking, swimming, jet skiing and horseshoes. When we need to be indoors I enjoy movies, playing wii, wood working, art, music, cards, karaoke, and games. communication is big with me - I am a people person and give more than I take. fortunate to offer a lot to that someone special. well rounded, educated, smart, funny, creative, own my house, vehicle, have great family, good morals and values, and more. I love all types of music and art. Enjoy pets, we have cats & dogs. Looking for someone that is honest and is true to their heart.I am looking for an attentive male that is my friend and lover. A little old fashion but would like to be treated like a lady, open the door, use good manners, be thoughtful, compliments, realistic, and honest. I have come across a few dishonest ppl on this website. If you are not looking for a relationship, do not waste my time. PPl lie about smoking, I do not want to be with a smoker. Also, if you are looking for a hookup, don't contact me. Looking for someone that is settled, not living at home with parents. I have come across numerous ppl who complain about all their money going to child support. Times are tough but I do not want to date someone who only stays home. I am not rich either but lets be honest. surprise!!depends on the situation

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Thanks for taking some time to look at my profile.I enjoy doing a lot of different things. I like cooking, walking, enjoying nature, listening to music, dance, a great conversation over a great latte, camping, canoeing, riding motorcycle, relaxing watching movies, and trying new things. I am in a new phase of my life and I am willing and excited to try activities, hobbies, etc that I have never tried before. I have a wonderful career at a great company, I have two fantastic boys, and am overall happy where I am at in life. Having someone to share my life with and someone that is willing to share their life with me would add to an already good life. How about we talk about you now... I am looking for someone that is willing to try new things, someone that fun, likes kids, and enjoys adventure. I believe chivalry is still alive! I am looking for someone that has a positive attitude. ***Disclaimers: I have some quirks... I wear funky socks. It's like a private party for my feet. :-) . I have a thing about really cute shoes! I have a very strong faith and belief in God, I do not go to church. Having more children is not a matter of want, it is a can't. I believe in the law of attraction. You believe good things will come to you they will. You believe life is crappy, it will be. It's all about your attitude. I look forward to hearing from you and meeting. I would definately like a first date to be a place to talk and have some good conversation. Coffee, a walk, etc...

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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