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Minerva, 43
United States, New York, Binghamton

Offline, last seen Sat, 21 Feb 2026 16:36:49

About Me

Shakespeare once said.. Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind. Sometimes however I think we might need to clean our glasses and take a second look! LOL!Update ***tired of all the crazies, freaks and posers... I truly want to find "that guy" Sick of games.... Like you guys I have a specific man that I'm looking for and when I meet him and am sure that things are going to work out I will be deleting this profile. I really don't want to be on here. I'm looking for the man that compliments me completely. The one I can't live without. ..no pics no response ...come on quit hiding behind your profile! Also, I only date men of my own ethnic background. I'm just not into anything other than that, sorry guys! One last thing, I hate being smothered. By that I mean when im working I can't take calls text are okay but don't get upset if I don't respond right away because I'm probably in a meeting. I will respond when I'm out. I understand communication is the key but I don't think it's necessary to call me 10 times a day for hour long talks. I can't do that. Talking on lunch time, after work and in the evening is cool. *** great as well during my work day. I can do that no worries. The song that best describes how to catch me would be by 38 special. "Hold On Loosely" I'm a down to Earth person that works in the city and lives in the country. I am a single mom and my daughter is my world!Working my tail off and running after a 9 yr old! I think I'm officially a chauffeur! She has more of a social life than I do! Goodness!Seriously, I'm a Web Business Analyst full-time and a Make-up Artist part-time. My daughter and I were blessed to buy our first home so I've really just been focusing on the lawn, backyard...where to put flowerbeds..what color of lawn furniture...dreams of a pergola....you know....girly stuff!I am the "soccer mom" so to speak and I love it. I work hard and come home to my little one. I love it but I'm missing companionship. It would really be nice just to have someone that I could share my day with and them share with me and the story not consist of what happened at recess! Don't get me wrong...I heart everyone of those stories and I'm grateful that my daughter opens up to me. I pray that never changes. :)Movies-- Thrillers, Drama, Action, Romantic Comedies and Comedies. I will watch a scary movie but only in the day time...yes I'm a chicken hawk!Music--I love a little bit of everything but I really can't stand country (the old stuff) the newer stuff is okay I like it...If you listened to my play list you would hear:BEP'sPinkSlither-- She is that which I myself am not. In the act of love, I am pure male, and she is pure female. She is she, and I am I, and clasped together with her, I know how perfectly she is not me, how perfectly I am not her, how utterly we are two, the light and the darkness, and how infinetly and eternally, not-to-be-comprehended by either of us is the surpassing ONE we make.--D. H.!! I honestly feel some place like this would offer both of us a more comfortable environment.What I find sexy about a man....I love a tall man (5'9" minimum) To me the lips, eyes, hair, scent and butt are all great but there's just something about the back of a mans thigh. It's so sexy to me. The front of a man's neck is also another thing I find very sexy. The outline of the SCM muscle on the front of the neck is very sensual.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Caribbean Italian Turkish Biography Family & Kids Martial Arts Romance
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