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Elinor, 45

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About Me

I'm a young, fun 45 year old who loves spending time with friends...cooking for them, wine tasting, attending sporting events. I golf when I can, however my game needs work. I like to stay active but enjoy downtime too...reading, movies, hanging by the fire pit. I'm open to trying new things, I don't mind getting dirty..revamped my back yard this summer, even planted an apple tree! I haven't been camping in a long time..would love to go..but the opportuninty hasn't presented itself. The most important thing to me in any relationship is communication. Having meaningful, intellectual conversations is crucial. I'm independant, happy with my life but often feel something's missing. I don't believe we're meant to be alone. I value honesty, respect, and loyalty. Life is so incredibly short I want to enjoy it with someone healthy and grounded, someone with the ability to laugh at the little things, himself, and me. One of many favorite quotes: "Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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