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Jillian, 44
United States, New York, Binghamton

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About Me

I've been divorced for nearly 2 years. Wounds have been licked and I'm ready to get into the dating scene again-I guess I am a glutton for punishment. Plenty of fish says I should talk about hobbies/goals/my uniqueness and taste in music...here goes:Hobbies: gardening, walking for fun and fitness, fishing, dancing, travel, camping, reading, card and board games. I am fairly competitive but can take a loss with minimal tears and tantrums.Goals: personal goals are finding a partner to share my life and interests with. I have 2 beautiful grown children who have been my primary focus, but now that they are grown I am excited to focus time and energy on myself. Currently I'm in the process of buying my first home as a single person and am looking forward to remodelling and decorating it. I think men who know how to use a hammer are SEXY! Though it's not a deal breaker to just hire an expert-recognizing and accepting strengths and weaknesses is attractive in and of itself :) Professional goals involve possibly returning to school to finish my master's degree within the next 5 years. What makes me unique...hmmm, with 6,000,000,000ish people on Earth, I don't know that anyone is really THAT unique. However, some qualities I have that make me who I am are an ability to be nearly always happy. I am genetically geared towards a positive outlook, and it's not something I have to work on. I have a permanent smile and a slightly twisted sense of humor. I consider myself to be above average in intelligence (doesn't everyone?), and enjoy conversations with funny, intelligent people. I know, I TOLD you it's difficult to be truly unique! Although my family is very conservative and somewhat religious, I am not. Through painful trial and error I have learned that I need a partner who not only "tolerates," but shares my liberal views.Music tastes: I gravitate towards Indie and alternative rock. Although I can usually find songs within every genre to enjoy, I really don't care for gangster rap and country music. The first is too hateful and the second is too whiney and depressing for my tastes. Guilty TV pleasure: toss up between Americas Next Top Model and So You Think You Can Dance (you would think I'm 15yrs old). Uh, I'm not...pedophiles need not apply. An ideal first date would be somewhere intimate with a good****ail where we could discuss our interests and hopefully find common ground. Best case scenario would be lots of laughing, though not to the milk coming out your nose extent, because that is almost never sexy. I think the mark of a good first date is losing track of the time. If you find yourself checking your watch every few minutes it's probably time to cut your losses and agree to "just be friends"...both knowing we will never be friends. :)Another fun first date would be deep sea fishing... because if you are still attracted to someone who smells like bait you are on the right track. Or maybe a wine tasting tour. I am completely *** wines and would appreciate some guidance on the subject. Plus the smell of the aging barrels is much better than fish bait.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Irish Golf Ice Hockey Motorcycle Racing Tennis
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First off I would say thank you for reading my profile, second, there is an error on my age says38 but I am "46" . But as for the age part, it means nothing to me, as long as we have a connection I am good. I am looking for a kind and honest man, that knows how to treat a lady,I definitely am not looking for perfection, that does not exist, but someonethat gets me and that we can be ourselves around eachother. I want a relationship but also if we become best friends too, that is a plus. It would be good to find someone that likes to be with me, but allowshimself the guy time too....Having friend time is a very healthy part of a relationship. It does seem like I have already lived a lifetime but I knowI still have enough time to find the whole package and forme I just ask that we can are kind and respectful to one anotherand that we can be ourselves without having to sacrifice whowe are to be together. With that our chemistry combination makes us both want to be a better person.I know your out there, because I am "still" here..... I live by the beach and across the street from the bay. I feel like I am a very fortunate girl, to have the life I have; but it would be nice to find that special someone to sharethis good life with.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and if you like what you have seen and read,then please feel free to *** send a number. First I will pull up in my bright yellow pinto to any ***that is inequal distance from both our homes. Then as get out ofmy car you will be mesmerized my gorgeous dress that stillhas a tag on it. Then we will proceed into ***for a slurpee and we can develop enough of a connection to continue then we can go back into ***and by 2 hot dogs. As the world awaits we jump intomy bright yellow self made T top pinto and we drive off into the sunset......Ok really, we can just meet for an appetizer, drinks or a nicewalk on the bay. Or maybe if you have a little kid in you wecan meet at Dave and Busters and play some games, I am not a competitive person but be prepared to lose and gamewe compete against.All kidding aside, lets just meet and go from there.

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  • Lola from Binghamton | Woman | 36 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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